i told my g.f i was in love with another gal from my school (which is actually her) we have become really close friends now but she keeps asking me about the gal i mentioned to her i have given her hints i love her but she doesnt seem to get me
now i feel i should not have lied to her and i am scared how she will take it if she knew my true feelings but i love her a lot how do i tell her that and that i lied for a reason help me pls!!!!!
2006-11-01 03:23:41 · 17 answers · asked by razr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first thing you have got to do is decide whether you want to risk losing this girl. It could go either way and you must first work out if potentially having her as a girlfriend is worth the loss friendship, or the loss of her alltogether.
If you decide to tell her then the best thing is honestly. Just find the courage to tell her with words true from your heart. If she is any kind of friend you will not lose her at all. Good luck! x
2006-11-01 03:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~*RaChY*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out to dinner and surprise her with a rose and a poem or her's a song by Alsu its really cute. i couldn't find the lyrics of her "sunshine" song but that one is really cute also... that is if you can't come up with your own poem explaining to her what u did and y, wich i think would be way better though! soooo......
ALSU- ALWAYS ON MY MIND
Started out as a little game
We both could play
It seemed so simple, superficial
I lost along the way
Now I think I’m in too deep
I’m begging you to stay
I don’t know why, I don’t know how
You’ve led my heart astray
I’ve seen cuter
I’ve heard smoother
Tasted sweeter
I’ve laughed harder
Acted smarter
I’ve been wiser
Tell me why
You’re always on my mind
You’re always on my mind
Always on my mind
I don’t know why
You’re always on my mind
You’re always on my mind
Always on my mind
In my life I've met some guys (girls*)
Who’ve hurt me with good-byes
I made a promise to my heart
To never let a soul inside
All who know me would agree
That this is not like me
Would I believe if someone told me
I’d trip so easily
What is it about you that drives me crazy?
I think about you all the time
Just tell me why.....
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-01 11:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by lana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling her might be tricky.You could continue playing it a while and invite her that the girl wants to meet her while you have printed a full sized picture of her.
Get her to come in to dinner with her pic and you
2006-11-01 11:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by folumon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made the mistake when you said ANOTHER girl, she may feel the exact same way about you, but now she thinks someone else is involved! you need to tell her that the girl you care about is her but you said it was someone else because you were scared of the rejection you might have faced. just tell her the truth.
2006-11-01 11:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you say if you knew that your secret is exactly what she needs to hear? And let her know why you did that to begin with. You may be pleasantly surprised. You need to promise her that you will never break that trust again. Is a chance you have to take.
2006-11-01 11:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop teasing her and suck it up. You started it, face it like a man and tell her the truth. It was a very silly thing to do in the first place.
2006-11-01 11:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell her. She'll understand why you lied, and I'm sure she'll be happy to hear that it was her all along.
2006-11-01 11:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...tell her the truth. Tell her you did that to get a reaction and that she's the one that stole your heart. End of story. Do it now and don't ever do it again.
2006-11-01 11:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing games and tell her the truth!
2006-11-01 11:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u hv lied but not that u love her
let time do the work for such feelings
2006-11-01 11:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by trinka905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋