How come every time I like a girl, she likes somebody who treats her bad? I always thought they just wanted to save people, but she's already saved me.
2006-11-01 03:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because we are stupid and love the torture and punishment. and we think we can change them to the way we want them.
2006-11-01 04:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the wrong guy is a challenge. The stereotypical "bad-boy" is the perfect example of what you are talking about (I used to be one of those). Emotionally immature women are attracted to him because of his apparent indifference (challenge), but after a while he makes them miserable because important things like "respect" and "affection" are missing.
They are indifferent to you because you are not a challenge. You need to develop your own interests and stop trying to please them all of the time. It's good that you can be affectionate, supportive and respectful, but you need to stop defining yourself in terms of what you can provide in a relationship only.
Relationships are about "give and take", not "give and give", and if a womn isn't interested enough in you to be giving, then you need to move on and keep an eye open for one that will.
Use this time to perfect learning to talk to new women and get their home phone numbers (no cell phones or email please) and hopefully go out on some fun dates. Eventually, the right one for you (at the time anyway) will come along, and she will choose you (not the other way around). Don't chase women who aren't interested in you: it's a waste of time and will only make you bitter due to repeated rejection.
2006-11-01 03:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old grand rule......Opposite's attract.
Not what you need but what you want. Girls want to be on the rough side sometimes. It's a thrill that they get from being with a bad boy. It's exciting. Not necessarily fun but just on edge and exciting.
2006-11-01 03:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we arent supposed to look for the guys the bible says "HE WHO FINDS... so maybe thats where they go wrong.
2006-11-01 03:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family history of it, maybe? feels the need to help bad men become good so she gets an ego-boost?
2006-11-01 03:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mama JK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are a very little percet of guy gays out.....and a lot of crap available
2006-11-01 03:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c they don't know who is the right guy
2006-11-01 03:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by ha ha he he 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're stupid.
2006-11-01 03:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋