why am i so agressive on the phone to my boyfriend???

Question

well look im sort of mean when im on the phone like i have a attitude but i dont but wen it comes to him im very agressive what should i do? help me

Answer 1

i don't understand how is it tat u can act like u have an attitude on the phone when u claimed u DON'T have an attitude.... it's a bit confusing for me..... but u should learn to tone down on Ur aggression... everytime u feel like u r going overboard wit it, ask him to excuse you a while.. go to the windows and breath in the fresh air n calm down... i don't know wat is the conversation between the both if u tat u haf to be aggressive abt, but sometimes try putting urself in his position, u might be able to see the point from a different view... u know u r lucky tat ur bf still wanna talk to u on the phone despite u being like tat towards him, so treasure him while it lasts ok gal?

Answer 2

you have an attitude or not? perhaps you seem agressive to him, even if you don't know about it? ask him why he finds you agressive on the phone. does he says you're agressive too in person? Try to find out what exactly gives his this impression... Then you can talk things through, and maybe adjust your attitude.

Answer 3

my wife can not finish a conversation unless it end with her voice being twice as loud than when we started talking

i suggest you talk less to him and behave.

it will catch up to you, loyal for 13 years i have been but i am getting fed up

Answer 4

Well, you recognize your doing it so just stop. Its that simple.

Answer 5

because u love HIM, and feel insecure , i mean jealous

Answer 6

Why are you so aggressive with this stupid a$$ question??