2006-11-01 02:48:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it is like this i dont love her she whats me but the only time she will talk to me about it is win i was drinking and i dont remamber what happin so she expats stuff out of me that i can not give her if i dont remamber she no this but she wont do nothing about it
2006-11-01 09:47:37 · update #1
if you can not be together it means some one else is involved, then don't make more pain then is needed, move out and make it easy for yourself,
it is one thing to think of yourself and how wonderful love is,
but think of what you do to others if you stay together in the same house,
leave it is best,.....sorry
2006-11-01 02:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by va_d2002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See, when we are in love with someone we do not see the bad things about them only the good things, that we want to see but when you decide to move in with each other, that is a very big thing, and there are things that you must be willing to do in order to live with another, that sometimes we did not know about like:
When you move in a home with someone you love, that means if they snore like madd you either move out of the room or learn to deal with it, and what about keeping house? what if they do not clean enough or if they clean too much, what about paying bills, what if children are involved? see these are the things we do not think about before hand, when you decide to live with someone outside of your family members that is, you must be willing to give as much as you want to get, you have to be willing to share everything, at all times, there much be communication, there must be patience, it's like making a committed, and you must be mature enough to deal with the whole person not ust the parts you are head over hills for, you know?
Good Luck hopefully it will all work out, and if not at least you were able to find out before you got married right?...........................
2006-11-01 10:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy you realize you can't be with her and except that you will only be a friend and things will be fine. If you can't do this then you can't live together. My roommate and I dated for two years we finally realized we made each other unhappy. We started dating other people and have become very close friends.
2006-11-01 10:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by harmony moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't understand the question.
2006-11-01 10:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk it thru with her
2006-11-01 10:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋