Help the other night My boyfriend couldn't come to homecoming because his car was messed up he rode to a party with his brother my friend found out about it and now she keeps on telling me where he's at all the time I know where he's @ should I tell her to stay out of it ? even though she's just tryin to be a good friend
2006-11-01 02:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
With a situation such as this, having been there a time or two myself the best advice that I can give you is to let your friend know that you appreciate her friendship and kindly tell her that it is not her business and you would appreciate it if she would respect that. If by chance she seems not to understand tell her again, but be a bit more aggressive. In other words tell her to shut the f___ up!!! Maybe she just needs a man of her own.
Taye
2006-11-01 03:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Diva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to mind her own business. Yes, she is your friend and she looking out for you but she needs to mind her own business. You are the one dating your boyfriend, NOT her. Be honest with her and tell it like it is. You appreciate her friendship and she's looking out for you, but you don't need her tellling you where your boyfriend is or what he's doing 24/7. Just talk to her and hopefully, she'll mind her own business or find a man of her own. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-11-01 02:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you appreciate her concern, but she needs to stop keeping tabs on your bf. He's your bf not hers. Gosh, if she's so obsessed with where your bf is all the time imagine how she'd be if she had one.
Maybe she's wanting you to break up with him because she's really afraid that you are going to get hurt, or maybe she's jealous because being with him takes time away from her.
2006-11-01 02:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tend to think she's a good friend but those ones who pay attention to your man more than you be the ones who be with him in the long run so be careful it's a cold world and chicks are grimey don't let that happend to you.
2006-11-01 02:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by kiyaluvin15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you appreciate her input but really would rather not hear it. Sounds like she wants to be involved somehow in the relationship. Don't be mean about it, just say your aware of what he is doing and trust the relationship enough not to be apprised of his every movement.
2006-11-01 02:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you appreciate everything she is doing for you but you don't want to know anything. It kind sounds to me like she looking out for your best interests to make sure you don't get hurt but just let her know how you feel.
2006-11-01 08:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by turnertot1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest she become a reporter since she likes to air the news.
2006-11-01 03:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't mined that your boyfriend is going out with out you then yes tell her to stay out of it but if you do talk to him
2006-11-01 02:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to keep her opinions to herself. And if you want her opinion you'd ask for it.
2006-11-01 02:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋