a guy to find out if hes a player or not?are there any other ways of finding this out?
i really like this guy. he hasnt pressured me or anything and has been chasing me for a while now. i have only kissed him.
he pays me compliments and says im a nice girl and that he does like me.
i asked him if he was just playing me and he said he wasnt.
whats your advice guys???
2006-11-01 02:49:12 · 23 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give it up until your ready to.
If he really does like you then it will make no difference to him if you have sex or not.
2006-11-01 03:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is a player he is a player, this can not be determined by sleeping with him. If he is a player he could be playing a game with you, it is sometimes hard to tell. But most of the time your gut feelings are right. So if it feel that he is a player he probably is. Men are dogs anyway, some of them are just trained better than others. LOL :)
2006-11-01 10:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by givelife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's your communication skills? lol
There's different types of players. It will be hard to pick out those who are not. Good players are slower when they speak and compliment you in a way that nobody else notices. Bad players are fast talkers who compliments you on your general appearance like you are sexy, you are hot etc.
All types of players lacks a sense of sincerety in ther voice usually on topics that doesn't involve the girl. (This is where it gets hard; I have heard that women usually have a brilliant 6th sense in this.) They act the same around each and other girls who are not their mates.
I am probably shooting myself in the foot for telling you this.
Good luck
2006-11-01 11:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you only sleep with experienced men, if he is a player he will tell you all about how experienced he is and he is the perfect man to sort you out ect but if he just a down to earth normal type of fellow he will act quite shy or plain flustered at the remark.
2006-11-01 11:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a leap of faith in this guy, he's not pressuring you, so maybe he does generally like you.. not all men are after the same thing, and he seems (by what u say) a decent guy.. take a chance and see what happens, keep and open mind.
good luck with this, hope it all turns out ok.. x x
2006-11-01 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just got to take a chance. I would like to think that as a guy there are still some decent souls out there who are genuine but until you take that chance you will never know. Good luck.
2006-11-01 10:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by pablo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant just give him sex 2 see if hes playing you! the only way u will find out if hes a player is by makeing him wait and if he gets shitty with you then he is playing and using you!!
2006-11-01 10:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by devil at work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT sleep with him to find out!!!
Players wont stick around very long for a girl that wont give it up too soon whereas a guy that really likes you will stick it out - as long as it takes. xx
2006-11-01 11:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a player honey, the first time you sleep with him will be the last-maybe for a while. you don't sound like you trust him so go with your instinct unless you just want the sex-and that may not be even that good with a person who's like that x
2006-11-01 11:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it and see - there's always an element of risk, but maybe this guy is either nervous or is worried about being too forward in case you don't like that
2006-11-01 10:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errm, sleep with him if it feels right for you, not to find out if he's a player or not! if you don't suspect that he's fooling around with other girls, then perhaps he is being faithful to you.
however, you don't say if you're actually properly dating or not. if you're not, then definitely don't sleep with him!!
see how things progress, there's no rush to sleep with a guy. if he starts rushing, then that is really what he's after!
2006-11-01 11:01:26 · answer #11 · answered by shortie_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋