I have this guyfriend that I've liked for years, and I think he knows that I like him. All I want to do is to show him HOW MUCH I like him... and he's been responding.. but it hasn't been .. constant.. He's sending me all these mixed signals.. One day he wouldn't reply my messages, one day he would treat me extra nice.. one day he even gets kind of physical.. n then another day he acts as if he doesn't care... What should I do??
2006-11-01 02:45:37 · 14 answers · asked by done_with_luv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw, I've been in love with him for 6 years and I have been stupid enough to stand still..
2006-11-01 03:36:58 · update #1
i think he is,the more he does that to u,the more u want him,right?
we always want something we cant have,he wants u to chase him,i went through that too,and he really liked me! he was playing hard to get! he aint replying cus he knows u'l be thinkn bout him cus ur waitin 4 his reply and wonderin why he isnt replying
2006-11-01 02:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit fooling around. Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel.
You will not get far or fast with a guy if you just let him has his own time table. He may feel you are friends with privilege thus he has no time table. He won't get serious until he knows that is what it needs to be or he gets cut off.
Yes, if you are serious about him, you need to have a sit down and tell him what's what. If he does not want a relation...you have to cut him off and make it very clear you are not his part-time play thing.
If he has feelings for you it will jar him into action. At least...this is what my wife did to me...ten years ago...
2006-11-01 10:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by silverback487 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! THATS is happening to me too!!! and its so frustrating!!!!! why in the world do they do that?!?!?!? Ummm... well.. because I have not resolved this little "problem" i am going to tell you what i have done. EVrytime we get together and hang out... I enjoy that time to the fullest! everytime he ignores me.. I ignore HIM! everytime he is being a JAck A> just don't even care! he can make a complet fool of himself. so.. try this.. see if it works. don't stress out about it. and remmeber to not apear to be too clingy! not cool. girls are way more independent and confident!
2006-11-01 10:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by :) BE HAPPY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he is "treating you mean, keeping you keen". Perhaps you should try reversing the tables and do a bit yourself - that way you may get a pleasant surprise or find out the unpalatable truth.
2006-11-01 10:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by steven b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is he.. dont you know guys like to play those kind of games to feed their egos... be straight with him and quit playing his games... like the saying goes its time to _ _ _ _ or get off the pot
2006-11-01 10:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by texlatina1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its mixed messages I think its more you expecting to much to fast. Take it easy, show him that you are not in a rush either and see his response then.
2006-11-01 10:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should forget about him... just treat him as a friend and let him come to you, allow him to think that you only think of him as a friend. He is obviously playing on your affections and you shouldn't let this happen, you need to respect yourself. Think of it this way... would you treat somebody that you knew liked you romantically this way? demand the respect you deserve or forget about it.
good luck
2006-11-01 10:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's not serious with you. You may also say he's hard to get. why don't you ask him personally and ask him why is he acting like that.
2006-11-01 10:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something sweet for him, and then just tell him straight forward how you feel, and ask him how he feels
2006-11-01 10:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up!
2006-11-01 10:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋