My son is 8 years old, and I want to set up a reward system for him to encourage good behavior. Its getting to the point where taking priveledges away does not have a lasting effect on him. He loves to play playstation, computer games, and watch TV (which are the things id like him to earn). Every time I try to set this up and make a list, I get confused! I was thinking a point system, each point is worth 10 min of "free time" to be split up between those three things he loves to do. This seems so complicated to be marking every minute down and what hes used it for to see how many minutes he has left! I know lots of people use this system (or the ladder) but I am unsure of how to do it. Also, if I were to use the ladder system, where does he start on day one? at the top, bottom, or middle? Same with the points... should he have some points when we start? Im afraid if he has none, he will see it as too daunting of a task and not want to complete it (hes lazy!) Thank you!
2006-11-17
09:18:12
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