we have a 14 yr.old girl and 11 yr. old boy that are mine,my son lives with me,my daughter is living with her dad because she don't like my rules, my bf has an 9yr old boy, and 6 yr. old girl that stays every other weekend. this is are main arguement, on what rules and what is age approriate, he feels I spoil mine and I feel he spoils his, which he doesn't make his kids stick to the rules like he expects mine to, mine are older but they aren't use to all these rules, I just moved in with my bf a few months ago and this seems to be are main issue.some of his rules are a bit much, i want my kids to feel at home but they wer running all over me and now my son listens really good. My daughter couldn't handle having to help (1)chore a day per kid, picking up after herself,use manners, no arguing with me,etc. and so she went to stay at her dad's. We CAN"T AGREE ON PARENTING OR RULES, we did but he isn't upholding the same rules for his, i'm pissed about it and so is my kids. HELP!!
2006-08-21
15:37:48
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sexy momma
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