my belief is that woman should listen to their husbands and do what they ask also i think they should not go out in public unsupervised by a male. Im not an arab or anything i just know whats up.
2006-08-21 12:14:30 · 47 answers · asked by Jason R 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
no and your the rudest person Ive ever seen
2006-08-21 13:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First I do not think women need to be "supervised" by a male. Secondly obey is a strong term.
Those who ascribe to the christian faith are aware of the verse in the bible that says wifes are to Obey their husbands, problem is they stop reading there. If they were to read on it also states that husbands are to love their wives as christ loves the church.
In a good relationship they husband and wife will agree on a majority of things, then there are some things in which the wife should defer to the husband, and things the husband should defer to the wife. Each has there own abilities to handle different situations.
I believe that in a case where they can't come to a consenses, and a decision should be made, then the husband is supposed to be the ruler of the home and his choice should be followed. Noting that there should be a very limited number of times when this would be the case.
2006-08-21 16:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you were raised under a rock and are still living there -
What about this: my mom married my dad because she was a stupid 17 year old who thought she was in love. My dad cheated on her, hit her, used her money to buy drugs - and if it was up to him they would still be married... but you feel she should have listened to him because he was her husband? And after he left, we would never have been able to go out of the house again because there was no male to supervise us.
Or how about this.. my grand father worked long hours to support his family. Do you think that he should have had to go to the grocery store, and to his kids doctors appointments, etc, after working 15 hour days.. or should my grandmother have taken the children and did these things unsupervised?
I do believe that the bible tells women to submit to their husbands... and I believe that this is what women should do in a perfect world. However, in a world filled with people who are alcoholics, drug addicts, abusers, or people who just have to work long hours all day, what you are expecting is impossible. However, the bible does not say a woman can't leave the house w/out a man...
2006-08-21 17:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I obey my husband in most case's but not being able to go out in public with out being supervised by a male that is going way to far. But I am also from the old school I don't believe that women are only good for making babies either. But I also have my own mind and tell my husband when he is crossing the line.
2006-08-21 12:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some different views on this. I do what my husband asks in regards to getting him a glass of water or making sure that his favorite shirt is clean for him to wear for a special event. But I really don't think that obey would be the correct term. My husband works two jobs and I am a stay at home mother of two. I do things for my husband not because he requires, demands or even asks me to. I do it because I care very deeply for him, he works very hard for me and our children every day and I believe that he only deserves the same from me. I don't think if my husband ever told me that I had to obey him, I would ever really love him or truly respect him to the degree that I do. Marriage is about equal support and trust. My husband lets me go out where ever I want and without a male escort, he encourages me to. Feeling that social interaction is not only good for me but for our children as well, and he also believes in my competency to handle any and all situations that could arise. That is what marriage is about, not orders and blind obedience but love. You should take that into consideration and perhaps rethink your reasoning.
2006-08-21 15:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, but in america that will never fly. This country is all about equality between men and women, that that is not equality.
Why the heck would women not be able to go into public with out supervision, because she would spend all your money. Seriously. There are a lot of women who live in this country who make a whole hell of a lot more money than their husbands ever could dream of.
2006-08-22 05:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Sarah Bear ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that a women runs just about everything in the US, but will let her other half get the credit because we are emotionally stable and do not have the ego that some mean have. If you pay attention to the media or the Major company's in the US you will find there is NEVER a Single man in charge....He is always married. But there are plenty of single women that are in charge of L:arge Corporations.
Well it seems that you will need to go to Korea or the desert to find what you are looking for. I also Advise not to bring her here or we will teach her the meaning of freedom.
2006-08-21 13:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Damian G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some ways your right but I go in public without my husband but not by choice most of the time. I would rather be seen with him than without him. I listen to my husband for the most part. However when hes going against the Bible Im not obligated to listen any longer.
2006-08-25 12:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe they have equal rights and they should listen and obey each other. I don't believe men are greater and I don't believe women are greater. We were put here to serve each other and to love one another. This is new age...don't go believing that women should be their husbands or any mans sex slave or slave period point blank the end. Eve was made from the rib of Adam to be at his side always, not beneath him to be walked on nor above him to think she is better...they are to be friends and lovers, not fighters or decievers.
2006-08-23 16:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by missbehave252002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be afraid, be very afraid, of yourself that is. what world do you live in that you think that all women including me should be supervised by men, honey there is help for what ever you are feeling that is making you think like this but if you are a secure person and love your woman then you have nothing to worry about. keep this up and you might never be able to keep one. if she is smart. lighten up and live life peacefully. put your dog on a leash not your wife. sure she should support her husband in what he do so long as he is honest and right. stop listening to your friends, women like men not beasts.
2006-08-23 14:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by pplsgal07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully obey is a big word but religion says yes as the man is suppose to follow his maker my wife was married to a man though that abused her and made her lay with other men.that was wrong but she still believes in that system somewhat if the man can think of her intrest as well as his then yes obey in respect but not as far as too undermine who you are the unsupervised is stupid just watch the pocket book
2006-08-21 13:40:04 · answer #11 · answered by brazjamessuper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋