How can I get him to help me plan our wedding?
I moved in with Jeremy 3 years ago. 1.5 years ago, his 2 kids moved in with us out of an abusive home. The kids are 7 and 9 and call me "mom". They see their birth mom regularly now. We went through some financial and emotional trials with the addition to the new family. Lots of arguments and sad times. All is set right now, and there is open honest trusting communication in this house. The kids are being diagnosed AD/HD, and I am the one taking them to all their appointments, helping with homework, cooking dinners, teaching values and basicly being their parent. Their father, Jeremy still hasn't committed to me with marriage. I consider myself his wife, but we have not tied the knot yet. What should I do, plan it myself, or wait for him to give the "go-ahead" (which would be in the form of a real diamond on my hand rather than a pretend one)?
2007-01-26
09:46:49
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jennilaine777
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