Marriage & Divorce - 28 December 2007

If you are married to a woman that you love and don't want to leave and you are attracted to a woman on your job, how far can it go? And is it possible to love two women at that same time?

2007-12-28 13:17:04 · 29 answers · asked by ohsonowisee 1

If you are married to a woman that you love and don't want to leave and you are attracted to a woman on your job, how far can it go? And is it possible to love two women at that same time?

2007-12-28 13:15:04 · 6 answers · asked by ohsonowisee 1

My husand left me and our 7 month old son, I am extremely optimistic that he will return. I sense it and I vividly see it. Am I just in denial?

2007-12-28 13:13:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ivonne 2

or make some excuse like they are not feeling well? Like they initially made plans with you for backup, just in case something doesnt work out.
Am I the only one who experiences this?

2007-12-28 13:09:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so depressed. I need to find a job, am 58 and limited skills. All I've done pretty much is clean. I was a h/w for almost 30 years and husband left me some weeks ago. I have a car, phone, but, I cannot get myself out of the house...like I'm scared. I am a good worker, don't miss work, and do good work. I cannot impose any longer on my sons generosity. I hate to ask them for $10 to pay a bill. I need some words to help me. I've just been in like shock since he left and took all the $ and left me the bills. Help.

2007-12-28 13:06:34 · 18 answers · asked by pillowlady 3

Please explain!

2007-12-28 13:05:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if you are in love..do guys really think "well why buy the milk when its free"? how can women effectively say "we either get engaged or nothing"?

2007-12-28 13:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by amazonprincess707 1

2007-12-28 12:58:45 · 10 answers · asked by pogidaw2003 1

i got so many conflicting answers to my question! thank you for the advice. i am still confused. the married man i am involved with is only there because of the kids. and yes we both have children! i guess i should make a descison in 08 and decide to think of my kids first, then myself. maybe then blessings will come my way! you can not stop the feelings you have for someone. whether they are married or not. the way he treats me makes me feel like he loves me. my husband is begging me to stick with him and make things work while he is in jail. though i am not sure that is the life i want to live!

2007-12-28 12:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

so many people get divorced nowadays, mostly because they rushed it. were there certain things you wish you knew during your early relationships? also, how long do you think a couple should date before getting married?

2007-12-28 12:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by avielleb 3

I like this girl at work. The thing is everytime she enters the room, I get chills and freeze up, and then walk away. The other day, I was talking to two other female coworkers when she walked in. Right when she walked in, I quickly sneaked out with one of the other coworker. I saw that she turned to look a little puzzle and perhaps even hurt.

What do you think I should do now?

2007-12-28 12:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by kekeke 1

For years my husband neglected me, was never home and was always on the computer. I felt so irritated and annoyed, but i still loved him.
These past couple of years however, i have felt that i do not love him anymore. I have found other men attractive, which i didn't before. When he tried any sexual act I feel repulsed, as i don't even fancy him anymore either. I do have a high sex drive, but just not with him. We hav 3 kids together. I have tried so hard to get my feelings back for him, but I can't, and the longer I try, the worse I feel about him.
I told him the way I felt and we both decided that he should leave. Poor thing was crying as he still loves me, but I just don't love him. I feel very guilty, but I can't stay in a loveless marriage just cos I feel sorry for him.
I feel very bad too, as his family can't see what is wrong with me, and they are going to hate me for not loving, & hurting him. I will miss my relationship with them too. what do you think? should we split up?

2007-12-28 12:35:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband just called me a 'f#*$ck up' several times. We got married in August. He is a control freak. We don't have a lot of $$, I am in school but as soon as I finish I will have a lucrative career as a court reporter. The program is really hard, though and it has been extremely difficult for me here at the end. I will definitely admit that I don't practice as much as I should and he certainly reminds me of that often. He gets angry with me for buying anything. He is a realtor and hasn't closed on a deal in a couple months which has not helped our financial situation. I also work part-time as a paralegal which is the only income we are making at the moment. I bought a pair of pantyhose for $3.87 recently and still have not heard the end of it. Tonight's fight was because I bought a large bottle of wine $6.99. He thinks I drink a lot (he does not drink much) so it made him mad that I would spend on something he doesn't like. Should anyone put up with this no matter what they did bad?

2007-12-28 12:29:23 · 15 answers · asked by wendyshannon 3

My husband and I have been married since June of 2006 and he's active army, we only lived with each other maybe 3 months out of our marriage and he was physically abusive during that time. Now he is currently deployed to Iraq and his physical abuse has turned into verbal abuse, he blames this on him being in a war. I dont know what to do, I do still love him and I dont know if I should stick it out and wait for him to get help.

2007-12-28 12:29:16 · 47 answers · asked by joyfuljoy2001k 2

Are you happy with the way your husband treats you?

2007-12-28 12:22:30 · 29 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6

I know I should leave my husband. He isn't attracted to me anymore and has admitted that He would like to be on his own. We've been married for 7 years and all was happy and fine untill about a year ago he started paying less attention to me and when I asked him recently if he loves me he said he's not sure. When I almost left once he told me he loved me and he wanted me to stay but now it's back to the same ol ignoring me all the time routine. We have talked a million times it always ends up with him implying he doesn't want to be together anymore. I can't bring myself to walk out that door and start the rest of my life how do I start over how do I bring myself to leave?

2007-12-28 12:22:15 · 13 answers · asked by Mommy of 2) 5

2007-12-28 12:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by My world goes round 3

If a husband is shut out of sex by his wife, would you be more likely to excuse him for having an affair?

I'm not asking if it's justified, but would you be more able to understand his actions?

btw, I am not married, and have not had an affair, but I do have friends whose wives won't have sex with them anymore.

2007-12-28 12:15:27 · 36 answers · asked by ironcityguy 5

Should this phrase be taken out of wedding ceromonies. With all the divorces going on it seams 50% of marrages just ignore this phrase.

2007-12-28 12:13:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

get child support? im scared to.. i filled all the papers but everytime i tell him i am going to get it he threatens me with everything imaginable.. that hes going to have me thrown in jail take her away blah blah blah
and i KNOW he is serious
he wont give me a dime for anything!
he wont help buy her things or do anything
hes a fat lazy slob
i need help :(

2007-12-28 12:12:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

..she wants to visit while in this area being tourist with friends.I love the woman still,I don't think I will agree to meet her...it was painful the last time we said good-bye.And I can't use a trip down selected 'memory' lane.To be blunt,she was always a fox and probably still is...I can do without the distraction of that too.
Do you have feelings for your ex still?

2007-12-28 12:08:56 · 45 answers · asked by cygnus4114 2

As posted before, I hit my wife when she questioned me after a night out with some of my colleagues over a week ago. I am a dentist, practice owner ...educated, a professional. I am not some thug out on the street that takes pleasure in abusing his spouse. I feel horrible. I did right away. I don't have much time with my business and patients, and I wanted to resolve this on my own so our 2 children didn't get involved. I am having a very difficult time convincing my wife to trust me. She has moved back home from her sisters finally, but things are so different and she seems so distant. What can I do?

2007-12-28 12:03:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

she cheated on her husband and he was proven NOT to be the father with a test and her lover wants a test but she cursed him out and told him that was not neccessary. What's going on with this picture???

2007-12-28 11:58:21 · 30 answers · asked by lele 2

My friend is having a relationship with a guy who is related to her. He is her 2nd cousin, I think? Is it illigal if she wanted to get married to him?

They both share the same Great Grandmother but different Great Grandfather

Sensible answers please

2007-12-28 11:51:23 · 24 answers · asked by Vixx 2

Do you think its ironic that men are usually big and strong but they have a huge weakness between their legs/? in their balls. Like that most men tower over me because im short and they are alot stronger than me and all i have do is slap or hit them in the balls and down they go, do u love it girls or do u use it?

2007-12-28 11:49:11 · 4 answers · asked by Kate V 1

spend that much time with them. Our sex life is non existant anymore and she tells me to go get it from other women becuase she is too tired from watching the baby all day long. I don't know what to do anymore because we are in a lot of debt becuase of a failed business. I can't talk to her about anytning anymore becuase she gets all mad and starts yelling and crying. I don't know what to think anymore because i ask her is she is happy and she says she is and she wants to be with me, but it doesn't seem that way anymore. I don't want to leave her becuase she was adopted and her mom died and she has no one left to help her out. I also don't want to leave her because she will try to take my son away from me. I would do anything for my son and would die for him....i couldn't handle losing him. Someone please help me out here, before i go insane....

2007-12-28 11:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

all i ever hear from men is how there are no happily married men, so why do men even bother? i dont get it. and for those of you that are unhappy, what is the reason that you are so unhappy. i love being married

2007-12-28 11:45:33 · 18 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 1. He has been out of work for 4 months and were financially fine. In the last 4 weeks my husband has been upset like Ive done something wrong he wont kiss me, hug me have sex or anything. He says its not me and that hes not cheating and there is no one else. Am I crazy or is there more than his manhood that is hurt and hes not telling me everything.

2007-12-28 11:40:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been involved with a married man for 4 years. the affair started as a result of my husband being unfaithful to me. though i forgave him this man was there when i needed someone to talk to. i love him dearly, but i also love my husband! my husband is now in prison for 12 years! this man is there for me emotionally and financially. we spend a lot of time together. i don't know if i should try to stick it out with my husband and be lonley or continue being with someone i enjoy, but can never have a monogamous relationship with if he did leave his wife. because i would'nt be able to trust him(i know it sounds crazy) but i am in sooo deep now! what do i do? i need answers from someone that has been in a similar situation, and in love with a married man! i know i could divorce my husband and find a single man but i don't want anyone else . with him is where my heart is now! please help with advice.

2007-12-28 11:39:47 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE A 10 YR. OLD BOY WHO'S FATHER HAS NEVER BEEN A PART OF HIS LIFE, HE'S BEEN IN AND OUT OF JAIL AND IS A SERIOUS LOOSER. BUT I NEED TO KNOW WHAT I'M GETTING MYSELF INTO. IS IT BETTER TO JUST LEAVE IT ALONE SO HE'LL LEAVE US ALONE? I KNOW IT NEEDS TO BE DONE THOUGH. HELP PLEASE!

2007-12-28 11:38:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous