My husand left me and our 7 month old son, I am extremely optimistic that he will return. I sense it and I vividly see it. Am I just in denial?
2007-12-28 13:13:56 · 21 answers · asked by Ivonne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I haven't called him, he moved back home to a foreign country.
2007-12-28 13:23:41 · update #1
Give it some time. He is more than likely pissed. Let the holidays be over with and you stay busy not thinking about the situation. Dwelling on it will drive you nuts. He will get in contact with you no matter what because of the son involved. Stay positive and that will move mountains.
BTW, I almost killed my husband once by running over him. He didn't call me for one month after that BUT with earnest prayer, he came back. NOTHING is impossible and EVERYTHING under the sun is attainable.
2007-12-28 13:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether he does or doesn't is besides the point. Why would you want him back? He walked away at a stage in your life where you need him the most. If he can just leave whenever things aren't the way he wants them to be, how can you expect him to stick around in the future?
This man sounds like a ton of heartbreak and not only do you not deserve this...but your child definitely doesn't need that kind of instability in his life. Raising a child is hard enough and doing it alone is no easy thing. Did he tell you why he left? That is the source of understanding whether he is a man that can be forgiven. Is he seeing other women? Back to the single life? If he is enjoying his life while you are struggling to take care of your child...you need to divorce him and start making him compensate you with child support.
2007-12-28 13:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lunasea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in denial. Get the marriage annulled and start dating again. If the pic in your avatar is really you, there'll be no problem finding good guys to date. Quite a few of us would be perfectly willing to consider marriage to a woman as attractive as you, even with a child from a previous marriage. So quit pining for that creep and get on with your life. You and your son deserve better!
2007-12-28 14:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same one that left for 7 years and is running from the law according to one of your last questions? If it is then you are just being stupid for letting yourself get pregnant again by a guy that left you and went overseas for 7 years and then came back. OR you are paying people here on Answers. Either way, start a new life without him and who cares if he comes back.
2007-12-28 13:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Einstein as quickly as stated "mind's eye is greater effective than understanding!" How can we invent something if we does no longer think of first or think of the suitable achievable answer? Overly confident?...hmm...i think of is merely effective, we get 'overly' issues besides! Am I ideas-blowing cutey? Overly Pessimistic? that could desire to kill a individual. that's like having maximum cancers and you settle for dying even nonetheless your nevertheless alive. that could additionally turn issues no count how stable in to very undesirable result. ok i think of there is not any such factor as Overly useful lovable honey... How can something actual be greater beneficial than actual? hello...your lovable.=) am i able to deliver you here with me?!
2016-10-02 12:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by jensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in denial. Honey why would you want a man that left you and your baby? I would not sit there and wait on him and I would not let him return. If you do, when will he walk out again? You will never know until he does it. You and your baby deserve so much better.
2007-12-28 13:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like your a bit in denial .
dont know why he left but with such a yoing son there i can see no good reason .
not knowing the complete story i would say he has said goodbye if he in another country so so sorry !
2007-12-28 14:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by STREETROD23T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. I was in denial for a long time, and one day it hit me that he was done. Since then I have gotten off my azz and starting making a plan for MY life.
2007-12-28 13:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
optimism is a great way to live,even if it does not happen,it is a great look out on life.if your husband does not return,it is obviously for a reason.find another man.your thoughts are much better than a pessimistic person,i would think you could still smile every now and then.pessimists are always glum and negative
2007-12-28 13:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line between madness and genius. Believing in something far beyond those around you can be seen as stupidity or later if it is realized you'll be vindicated.
you may want to listen to those you trust because their heart is not involved.
i hope the best for your child.
2007-12-28 13:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by cotton3860 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋