If you are married to a woman that you love and don't want to leave and you are attracted to a woman on your job, how far can it go? And is it possible to love two women at that same time?
2007-12-28 13:17:04 · 29 answers · asked by ohsonowisee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a Trick Question - as I would NEVER look at another woman like that...
Love is something that is ALL-ENCOMPASSING - there is simply NOTHING better than it, and it is ABSOLUTE. It is IMPOSSIBLE to share that Love with more than one person.
Part of the problem is that the word Love is thrown around FAR too casually - thus it has lost most (if not ALL) of it's true meaning...
;););)
2007-12-28 13:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First off, as you stated, if I'm married to a woman that I love, I would then have no need to be in a relationship with another woman, to answer your question, no, I wouldn't do that, and yes, its possible to love two women at the same time
2007-12-28 13:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I dont think you can love two women at the same time. Its possible to Love one and be emotionally involved with the other but sooner or later somethings got to give...and thats usually when the attraction turns into an affair...which destroys the marriage...so the answer is it can go as far as you want it to go...Is it worth it...No...A few rolls in the hay may be exciting but its not worth throwing away years of what two people built together...
2007-12-28 13:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by ManWithThePlan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It must go nowhere - is it possible to love two or more, if by that you mean sexually, of course. I love many women profoundly and in complete innocence - 3 of them are my daughters and three more my grandchildren. I also love several men and boys - my sons and grandsons - but young man, you made profound promises to God, the person you married, and to the people gathered at that occasion - shall you prove yourself to have been a liar!!! and to God Himself!!
That's a level of risk to high to dare - although the lower types obviously do so all the time.
NOW is the time to take a quick second Honeymoon - whatever the price - If you are a Christian in one of the mainstream traditions (catholic, orthodox, Lutheran) , go on a Marriage Encounter weekend as soon as possible. You need a deep reminder, that you committed for the two of you to become one person in the eyes of God. Do everything you can to remind yourself of that - limit your contact with this other person who, if she is encouraging this - and is herself married, is looking for a cure to an unhappy marriage - you are neither the doctor, nor the medicine.
2007-12-28 13:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by Bill F 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
based on your perameters it would go absolutely no where and no i don't believe its possible 2 love two women at the same time...reason, a person is married and should be totally committed to that person only, thats ALL the love they have given 2 their spouse, there should b none left 2 love another and no reason 2.
2007-12-28 13:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are differnt kinds of love between people.
seems as tho you may be asking if going to far would be sex !!!
That is your choice to live with .
But if your in love at home and get what you need in your relationship ,
i think you may end up with a HUGE guilt trip in the end
2007-12-28 14:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by STREETROD23T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not possible to love two women at the same time, nor is it the right thing to do. It's all about self control. If it really bothers them, try to find another job. It's a challenge in marriage to resist temptation.
2007-12-28 13:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by TallJoeJPN 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It's not really possible to love two women well at the same time. And it's wrong to try.
honestly, we'd need to know the specifics of this situation, but if he truly loved his wife he'd stick with her.
2007-12-28 13:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Skippy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I could have, if they'd just let me.
Man cant love 2 women at the same time because women wont let it happen.
Same goes for women
2007-12-28 14:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jelise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you love your woman,wife, then there
is no other attraction, and can one love two women
at one time, yes but the love is not equal, married
over 20yrs, there is only one woman for me and
only one love as she gets it all. As for the others
well I'll leave it up to them to find their own as this
one is occupied.
2007-12-28 13:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋