Marriage & Divorce - 28 December 2007

CAN HE SUE ME?

2007-12-28 06:24:06 · 16 answers · asked by ANNALEESAH 1

HI there before you read this, i know what you will be thinking ...homewrecker...etc

but let me share with you, i met my man 2 years ago it was a casual affair , he was looking for a lover , i wasnt, the reason was sex was high on his agenda it was missing from his marriage, his wife of 5 years has MS...she cant make love or have sex whatever u want to call it .. anyway we saw each other our arrangement as u call it worked for a year, then we fell deeply in love couldnt be without each other he doesnt stay far from me ..so its easy to see one another, we make love 5/6 times a week constant txt and call.. but the thing is, he is leaving his wiife now because he wants to be with me .. ive won u said ..but no i feel for the wife , shes ill lost her husband , but the story i want to tell is you cant help who u fall in love with , everyone has a soulmate we just happened to find each other and we compatible what we have him and his wife never has..

2007-12-28 06:22:59 · 20 answers · asked by jaycee 1

what would you do if your boyfriend of almost one year; his parents started you treating you really different all of a sudden? example; his parents used to tell everyone i was their furure daughter in law and how polite and pretty i was, but now i hate even going over his house because i feel like a bourden on them, i get multiple dirty looks from his mom, and i feel like they dont even like me as a person anymore.

i even do favors for her all the time if she is cooking and needs help i help her, but im getting fed up with not even getting a thank you..

what would you do in my position?

2007-12-28 06:02:11 · 2 answers · asked by Ally 2

We dated for 2 months. The first month was great - we saw each other a couple of times a week, always had fun. Never slept together.

After a month, he said he wanted to "think about things" and "slow down", so we did. I quit calling him, he continued to call me, and we went to each other's company Christmas parties last week. Had a great time, he was very sweet, kissed me goodnight, etc.

But I haven't heard from him since. I am so upset! I know for a fact he's not seeing anyone else. I never said I loved him or did any of that other crazy girl stuff. What happened? I liked him so much!

2007-12-28 05:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by monicanena 5

and it is mostly about small things like not cleaning up after they eat or something like that. Once, my mom got so angry so threw her mug to my dad's feet. Is there anything to help them not fight so much?

2007-12-28 05:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

Well the year is allmost over and I must say I have few regrets. How many of you, if you had to do this year over again would do it the same?

2007-12-28 05:10:19 · 16 answers · asked by kharilli 5

Some people ask the dumbest questions or are just being totally insensitive to the person they are with and ask if they should get a divorce if they have a ex they still love. I just wonder if people realize that alot of people are going to get offensive and well blunt and crude. This being said if your going to ask the question don't be surprised if some people may lash out at you for being a selfish person.

So here is may question should people not have the right to free speech I feel yahoo answers does not allow this?.

I have had answers come back as a violation really when I was just stating a fact about the person asking the question really is that so wrong?.

2007-12-28 04:49:16 · 17 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

2007-12-28 04:45:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am thinking of leaving my alcoholic boyfriend but I'm afraid that he will get partial custody of our daughter. I don't want him to be able to take her over night, but I would allow him to have her at his parents house for a few hours here and there. He has two DUIs, no driver's license and is a heavy drinker. He is nice to her when he's sober but he can't stop his drinking and I have to keep her away from him while he is drinking because he is sloppy and scary. He has never hit her other than a little spank which I put an end to. Right now he is only home a couple of days a week. We live in Michigan and our daughter is two years old and is still nursing several times a day. What kind of custody would he be entitled to?

2007-12-28 04:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by slow like honey 1

We are so madly in love, and love to spend every waking second together. We have a 12 year old son whom we adore, but every time we plan a weekend alone, my parents (who live 8 hours away) give us a hard time for 'neglecting' our son!

I don't need to 'prove' anything to them, but how can I give them 'assurance' that we aren't neglecting him by spending time each week alone?

2007-12-28 04:22:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I split up with my husband of 17 years at the beginning of October and at first because of the hurt he'd been causing me it felt like a relief and I didn't want him back. But then I found out he'd been seeing another woman since August. The same woman he had an affair with 2 and a half years ago.

I confronted him about this and he explained that he'd just been talking to her about the issues in our marriage back in August but hadn't started seeing her until after we split. He also said that it was me he loved (as he'd been telling me since shortly after we split) and wanted to try to work things out with me. He sounded so sincere and I do love him (although I felt happier without him) so I decided to commit to working things out. That was last Friday.

Yesterday he told me he wasn't sure anymore, that he still had feelings for the other woman and missed her. I've told him that he needs to sort out what he wants, but I feel so hurt. How can he love me and her at the same time?

2007-12-28 04:16:56 · 50 answers · asked by Louise H 3

im involve with my lovely bf for more than 3 years.. and yes, we've plan for marriage when in 21 (fyi nw im going 20) when i hv my freedom from my parent coz they surely dont agree about us... im not here to crash his married but instead to be part of his life.. i will totally not agree if he divorce his wife.. im preparing mentally n physically to be the 2nd wife.. i know my friend hates me when im with him.. Most my friend say i dont deserve him cause im a nice person.. but i think this is my fate.. n i will accept it with all my heart.. he has all the factor that i want.. n he married his wife when he was 18 cause his parent ask him to do so.. i really love him so much.. im i a bad person??

2007-12-28 03:32:26 · 36 answers · asked by paris_asia 2

cant anyone stay together anymore????

2007-12-28 03:20:24 · 6 answers · asked by S i r i 1

wondering if that is a myth..if not maybe I should do it before he goes..it freaks me out if it is true

2007-12-28 03:15:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got one of questions deleted yesterday simply because I asked:

Are you sad?

Why would they do that??

2007-12-28 03:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by 90304 4

b/c my husband and I broke up on Christmas. This has been a long time coming, but the last straw just came on Christmas. We are 27. We have 2 kids--9 and 2. My husband cannot afford to get his own place, so he is staying in the house. He goes out every night (just so he doesn't have to be around me) and comes home at 3:00a.m. after partying with his friends. My husband is also an alcoholic. I work full-time and take care of my children and never get any time to myself. I asked my parents to babysit on New Years and they told me no b/c they are afraid my husband will show up at their house and want the kids and cause a scene. I have no one else to watch my kids. I really need to get out. My parents also said I need to be home with my kids, but I NEVER go out. It's not like I neglect my children or anything. My husband has been making comments about other women and I feel like no one will want me w/ 2 kids. I know I shouldn't care about that, but can't help feeling that way.

2007-12-28 03:11:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sometimes searches my bf phone and it annoys him. He says that I don't trust him and this makes him mad. How do I regain his trust? Will he eventually grow tired of the relationship?

2007-12-28 02:56:58 · 17 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

2007-12-28 02:43:20 · 29 answers · asked by moon . 1

my x wife has been left the property for over 10 years but her's is still the joint name on the mortgage . i want it to be in mine and my wife's name , the x is in agreement to this .she has had nothing to do with the property since she left . and has no intrest in it . its just a case of her name on the mortgage & deed

2007-12-28 02:41:04 · 24 answers · asked by STELLA P 2

my wife after 14yrs in 2005 looked up a old boyfriend and they started talk via email then cell phone and texts about meeting 4 sex, but my wife and i shared the email account and i found out about it and his wife found out about it at the same time. so we all agreed the talking would stopand it did. so we worked on our marriage throw 2006 and was doing good. but in march of 2007 i got a phone call from a man in chicago tell me that my wife was sending nude pics of herself to a man in chicago d.smith so i ask her about it and she said no way, but i had a program put on our home computer to record what comes in and out. it toke along time to find it because we were doing so great i didnt check the file for all of 2006. but then i found it she was have web cam sex with him. we dont have a web cam but he does and she would watch him. and they were going to meet he was planning a trip to town to see her.he show the pics 2 others. we are going to counseling but i want more out of life

2007-12-28 02:37:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he tells me that i dont like him .i like him.he doesnot understand

2007-12-28 02:32:52 · 30 answers · asked by swapna k 1

I am tired of the grouchiness...it hurts. It gets better for one week....then starts all over again. I don't want a divorce,but I fantasize about it getting my own place all the time.
How to I stop the grouchiness. How do I stop the hurt?

2007-12-28 02:28:53 · 31 answers · asked by Sid 1

2007-12-28 02:26:39 · 18 answers · asked by Ann T 1

...to go into the washroom at work and play spank the monkey while thinking of a hot woman I know?

2007-12-28 02:23:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband for 15 years is asking for divorce stating that i am not not at his mental level and he can not spend quality time with me. I have two kids. i am a house wife dependent on him.

I have found that He is having an affair with a girl 11 years younger to him and because of this he wants me to set him free. what are my options & On what grounds can he ask for a divorce from me. What are the legal procedures in this regard.

2007-12-28 02:21:12 · 13 answers · asked by ks 1

I have met the love of my life. He is such a great man and I love every moment with him as he does with me. I am 24 and he is 29.

The problem is, he is having a rough time financially for the first time in his life.
-He had a house and now he rents
-He had a great car and now he sold it for a cheaper one to pay of his credit.
-He has a 7 year old daughter that is so sweet and I accept.
-But a 'friend' of his called 6 months ago and said she has had his baby. (This happened before I met him) He is going to go to go take a DNA test soon.
-My parents are not happy about him because he doesn't own a house to offer me. They don't even know about the daughter yet!

I have been his support throughout all this because I know things will get better financially but the thought of the little girl being his kills me. I LOVE HIM, but this situation is harder than I was wanting.

I know my parents will be horrified if they found out about the girl(s).

Advice please?

2007-12-28 02:13:36 · 24 answers · asked by HotJewels 3

Do either if us need to convert?

2007-12-28 02:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other night she was washing dishes, yacking on the phone, making my dinner, and wiping the baby's nose. Then she has the nerve to go help our 3 yr old in his room. I sat for like 3 minutes waiting on her to get me the remote cuz my game was on TV. Its hard to get service these days, I swear!

2007-12-28 02:10:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my friends tell me I used to be so much fun and how I have changed. My whole persona has changed. I have been married for 12 years and I could walk away today and not miss him. I do love him though so what is wrong with me.

2007-12-28 01:59:55 · 33 answers · asked by twisty 1

He left his email open at my desk, and when I sat down I see "Hi Honey!" and the email of his high school sweetheart. I investigated. It appears that for July, Aug, and Sept he has been in contact with her. She lives in CA (we're in CT) and they were planning a weekend together, talking intimate, him telling her how miserable I make him. He claims that we were going through a very difficult time. We were. He claims that he knew I was on my way out. I was until he begged me to stay. So he may have considered us seperating, but he never told me that. There were also other girls from dating websites. As far as I know he didn't see any of them, only exchange emails and talk. All this contact with the others stopped end of September, and we've been great since then (until yesterday)But I thought we were great at points in July and Aug to. I can't get the words he wrote out of my head, "when we're in each other's arms" to his ex. I feel so stupid. I feel if I stay I would be condoning it.

2007-12-28 01:54:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous