2007-12-28 02:43:20 · 29 answers · asked by moon . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think there is a network for people interested in a relationship but not sex.
Try Google Asexual networks for the city you live in. If I can remember rightly, there was an article on the Globe and Mail on this. You could search their website too.
2007-12-28 02:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Init to learn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is based on many levels of relationship.
A woman in a marriage must be the Doctor, the prostitute, the mother, the friend, and the lover.
Yes there is a difference between a prositute and a lover. Both involve sex, but one involves emotional attachment as well.
If you do not want sex, you must tell this to your partner before the marriage and come up with an agreement that will work for both of you. A man has physical needs that often DEMAND to be taken care of. If you cannot take care of these needs then he will either take care of them himself, or find someone who will.
So, is it possible? Can he have a mistress? Are you willing to let him take his physical needs to someone else? You have to answer this for yourself, and discuss it with your partner.
With conversation and agreements, theoretically it is possible. But, I do not feel your marriage will last.
2007-12-28 10:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only possible way is to find someone who also doesn't want sex. Otherwise all you will do is hurt them and make them feel rejected and more than likely they will eventually leave and or cheat. Sex is an intregal part of a marriage. It is part of the bond that unites you. It is the greatest expression of love. It connects you. It makes you feel loved and wanted. It expresses how you feel about each other. A marriage without sex...I can't see it working.
2007-12-28 11:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could this be possibe. Sex is something special between a Husband and a Wife it bonds you together. I don't know of a man who would marry anyone who didn't want that. unless you marry a gay man. If you do find someone to marry with out sex He probally will be unfaithful to you! Don't mean to sound Bad but that is just nature. Are your even dating anyone and if so do they know how you feel?
2007-12-28 10:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by mxwife38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you put your spouse, someone that you love enough to spend the rest of your life with, without having sex? i don't think that there are too many women/men out there who could go without sex for too long! good luck on that though! i know yesterday i read a question about somebody else wanting the same thing...not sure if it was you or not!
2007-12-28 10:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage builds a family...meaning children to add up with..but entering into marriage without sex is useless I guess, because it is a part of it, it is natural because you are bound to be couples and have responsibilities with each other......Unless your husband agrees too, otherwise , better not marry if you think sex shouldnt be a part of it.........
2007-12-28 10:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been done before. Likely you will make your spouse completely miserable. Now is the time to ask your fiance. You will get the answer from them.
Maybe it would be healthier to deal with your aversion to sex and ask yourself why you would want to torture your future spouse.
2007-12-28 10:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by J D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of celibate marriages. I can't image it, myself. Clearly it's possible because the very elderly stay happily married long after the interest/ability has waned...
2007-12-28 10:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's going to expect sex. A sexless marriage will probably be a deal-breaker for most people.
2007-12-28 10:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. According to my wife married couples aren't supposed to have sex.
2007-12-28 11:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by Grmpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋