Marriage & Divorce - 28 December 2007

I have been a stay at home mother of two for the last 4 months. Before that I worked 50-60 hr weeks in a 5 star hotel, pulling double shifts and working overnights. I was coming home around 2am nightly, then having to get up w/ the kids at 6am so that my hubby could go to work. I would go back to work @ 3pm and do it all over again, sometimes only getting 1 day off or worse none. I was under a LOT of stress when my hubby agreed that I needed to be home with the kids (2 & 3 yrs). He had chose to get a second job (10-16 hrs a week), and I was collecting unemploy. so we were pretty much averaging the same income as when I was working. The 1st month being home was the most difficult, I didn't have a routine or a schedule. He would get upset that something didn't get done b/c I was home all day. Throwing in my face that he's the only one working! I get no time to myself, and when I ask him if he can take the kids, he tells me he has other things to do. I feel selfish if I ask for help

2007-12-28 11:33:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was left eith condition they broke up he got it back. She says it was a gift and won't return it. He has all reciepts in his name. would he win in civil court

2007-12-28 11:32:09 · 22 answers · asked by tammy g 1

is not the dad i remember, he cheated on my mom, moved out, takes stuff, threatened my family, trys to take the car that will make us pretty much hopeless, called out my brother, and takes my brothers medals from when he served in Iraq that he gave to my mom and refused to give them back, but still is friendly with me.

what do i do?
i fear his seperation of him and God.
for some reason, i havent gave up hope for him, but dont know why, im the only one.

2007-12-28 11:31:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

because the night my wife first cheated on me I felt like I was having a heart attack and a few days later she told me she did it. every since that night even before she told me I knew I felt different about her. I have not felt the same at all. before i felt like no matter what i would always love her and feel love for her but now i dont feel it at all!
A year and some time has since passed.
She cheated with 2 guys for a total of 6 times.

I really think this is why the bible says its ok to divorce if someone commits adultry. because it seems to break the sacred bond of a marriage.
I regret everyday that she did it because of this reason. not because she did it. I know shes only human. I ve tried counseling and anger managment and prayer and bible studies and forgiveness saying i forgive. i just dont feel the same. I never feel excited to come home anymore andit sucks. I read in the bible that the person can choose to stay with the cheater, but i only have friendship feelings.

2007-12-28 11:28:01 · 22 answers · asked by babyherc1r 1

I have been married for almost 11 years, and we have ten year old twins.... I only feel like having sex about 3 or 4 times per week, but my husband wants it every night..... sometimes twice a night!!! He thinks I am being frigid, and I think he needs anti-viagra....... how often do most married couples engage in sex, and are we doomed ?????

2007-12-28 11:25:23 · 32 answers · asked by erin_foss8191@sbcglobal.net 3

he is supposable going to get a divorce as soon as he gets the money... i live with him what do i do?

2007-12-28 11:22:30 · 19 answers · asked by hellokittybabygirl0192 1

Ive been in a committed relationship with a woman for a while now. Since moving in with her, I have been totally fascinated with the panties and pantyhose she wears. I'm a totally straight guy, but for some reason I'm dying to try them just to see what the sensation would feel like. I want to do it with her participation and approval, so how should I approach this with her? Any of the ladies out there experience this before?

2007-12-28 11:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wonderful wife is just about always cold. Every night I she asks me to put fuzzy socks on her cutie feet. Every morn when I go to make the bed I always find those two lil socks in a smallish lump at the end of the bed and always it makes me grin and sigh that I love her sigh... I know its silly but true... so... what is the thing that gives you this feeling?

2007-12-28 11:03:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just let you know that i love to take care of your pets, give them care and attention. I like children. They are lovely. I have looked after my brother when he was younger.

2007-12-28 11:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am consultant working for a big client..I had problems in my project recently..my manager was sure of my capabilities ...so we had a argument.After this he doen't give proper work,now the situation is that ,I have not been having work for 2 weeks..my manager does not respond to my any other email..but when i asked for leave he replied okay...what should i do?? should i quit this job??/

2007-12-28 10:59:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, why?

2007-12-28 10:40:47 · 9 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4

2007-12-28 10:22:32 · 39 answers · asked by luckylady 1

Okay, so they are divorcing, my question is - If my dad wins the court situation (he wants me saterday and sunday) but my mom says NO to that, will my father get any form of payment? My mom tells me he only wants me for money, my mom sometimes tends to be a terrible mother.. She said this earlier "You almost died when you were little, why didn't I just let you die - If I die you'll have nothing left and you'll die and god will punish anyone who doesn't respect me bla bla bla. I love her and don't want any harm to her.. but honestly..
So yea, it's all highly complicated, I'm a 14 year old girl who's question mostly is if my birth father gets to have me saterday or sunday, will be recieve any money by any type of service? If so I might have the idea that he does want me for that cash he would recieve..

2007-12-28 10:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by ~*princess*~ 1

Are there any men out there who do not cheat? How can they when they are truly in love with their significant other? Why can't they just decide to leave who they are with if they decide they want to be with another person? Am I naive and living a fairytale if all I want is just to be loved and not worry about someone sneaking around behind my back? I take care of myself and try to look as attractive as I can, always be positive and have a fun-loving attitude, try to do everything that makes him happy and not create drama. I try to appreciate the small things in life. These things still do not seem like enough. What is enough to make a man not cheat?

2007-12-28 09:59:31 · 87 answers · asked by ♥ Erin ♥ 2

I am thinking of really confronting her husband about this, because talking to the other woman is doing no good.

2007-12-28 09:46:24 · 62 answers · asked by openmyeyes 1

i am getting a divorce currently and he cheated on me 3 times before i filed the papers so i decided to cheat on him after i filed the papers but the thing is we still talk and he sends me pics of him and says he knows he can still have sex with me if he wants and wants to when he comes home (hes in kuwait for a few months) and the thing to it is i want to still have sex with him again even after all the stuff he has put me through which was hell! does this make me a sick person or am i just confused whats going on!

2007-12-28 09:32:14 · 26 answers · asked by sum_ting_shy_knee 2

Do couples who have the same eye color have a better/long(er) lasting marriage? (i.e. if a brown eyed woman and brown eyed man get married)

2007-12-28 09:17:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been in Korea (Air Force) since Sept 07. We have been married for seven years and he calls me the weekend before Thanksgiving to say he has never loved me, but got married too young and felt obligated to marry me. He says I have changed. Well, actually I have changed, for the better. Who would want to stay the same person forever? I have loved him with all my heart, giving to him what he needed (or so I thought). He has been deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan too at eight month stints each and is now dealing with a bit of PTSD. As far as I know we have both been 100% faithful. I have asked him if there is anyone else in Korea and he said no, but that there are some "attractive" girls over there that he looks at. (Hearing this pierced my heart!) Anyway, he has shut off emotionally, is gone physically, and when I ask to talk to him (once a week) he says, "what do you need to talk about?" I mean, What the heck? What happened? Please- give me some answers.

2007-12-28 09:17:10 · 8 answers · asked by keginett 1

He says hes at work but dosnt come home or comes home the next day. He always has time for the friends but is two tried to help me. we have been together for 14 years. Ive tried to make deals so he could have friend time but he does what every he whant whats i feel like he loves me but wants both wrolds what to do

2007-12-28 09:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by fisher 1

Suppose you're in a situation that you're unhappy in and thinking about making changes in your life. When making major decisions in your life whether it being getting married, divorced, dropping out of college, big financial decision, etc. If your family and friends are against or for your decisions does their views have an impact on your final decision?

2007-12-28 09:08:56 · 19 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2

Where they accuse you of cheating so often that you think...hell, they are accusing me of it...I may as well do it?

The thought has crossed my mind, but I don't want to lower myself to that level. I think he was accusing ME because he had a guilty conscience from screwing around HIMSELF.

2007-12-28 09:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

we've had a number of arguments in the past. But he's always realised his faults, and made sure to mend things.since 3 months he has so much animosity within himself for me. He is verbally, emotionally&physically abusive, shows no remorse or guilt. He continues to be abusive time& again. there is a lot of stubborness in his attitude & even if i try to make him see how he is hurting me he denies it& insists he is not wrong in any way.Any little or meaningless thingagainst his will makes him spark & he'll use tht as an excuse to bring up past issues, uptill now i have been arguing back or trying to reason with him but it only leads us to go onto the vicious circle of arguing. at the same time he will buy me gifts from time to time and expects this way things to get normal. i dont understand this attitude. i like to keep distant from him, which makes him more angry & he says u r mentally torturing me so tht i shud leave u.i dont understand wt i cud do to make him realise his actions

2007-12-28 08:59:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

SHE HAS TRUST ISSUES FROM PREVIOUS MARRIGES, I NEVER LIE TO HER OR CHEAT ON HER WHICH SOMETIMES I THINK I SHOULD

2007-12-28 08:50:35 · 47 answers · asked by studabakerhawk47 1

she is so remorsefull but how do i forgive her i love her but whats the best way to deal with it and move on if you can and how can i trust her now or ever i put on a brave face but inside i feel empty i just feel so betrayed and she says she loves me but how do you know she realy means it its all so confusing the more i think about it the more it hurts so i try nit to think about it is this the right thing to do thanks paul

2007-12-28 08:02:48 · 17 answers · asked by PAUL B 1

that even included the undies with the ruffles on the butt?

2007-12-28 07:36:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My situation is me and my wife got married in July and we moved to quick we both agree. We found out in October she was pregnant. We have had problems since the start mainly getting use to living with one another. Well about 3 weeks ago I found out she has been dishonest with some money issues and I ignored her for about a week. She text me cussing and I told her we can talk with her daughter not around. Well we finally talked or argued more or less. I noticed she had been talk with her ex going outside and in another room. I asked her what was going on. She said that is was nothing and finally said she would go back with her ex if he would have her. I asked her to try and work things out but she refuses. She has told her mom but refuses to tell her dad (we get along great) because he payed for trip to disney for them. I have since found out she returned my daughters christmas gift that she had bought with my money and has me behind on child support (she paid bills I gave money).

2007-12-28 07:20:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-wife has two sons who I helped raise from preteen years to their early 20's. Not only did their dad criticize me (as you would expect a jealous person to do) but their mom (my now "ex") also relentlessly criticized my interaction with her two sons. Well, now that we are divorced and both "boys" are young men they have both separately told me that I was a good step dad to them and they regret what their mom said about me. How can she ever get the egg off her face?

2007-12-28 07:04:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-wife is dating a convicted drug user who was arrested two weeks ago for a DUI and probation violation for cocaine possesion in May. I was unaware of his history and she has had my son around him numerous times. I tricked her into telling me she used drugs this summer under the guise that I wouldnt have her drug tested. She has primary custody of my son but now I need to know what to do next. My family wants me to take him away from her but I have a hard time taking him from his mom. Should I hire a private investigator to follow her or go straight to DCF to launch an investigation

2007-12-28 07:00:29 · 13 answers · asked by Average joe 93 1

2007-12-28 06:32:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

it seems like people today just live together or are having kids without marriage or others just quit and give up and get a divorce. marriage is work true but if you love someone why just walk away is this why people don't do things in order today/? oh another thing why do people call pregnancies accidents b/c only a few ever are if someone is having unprotected sex come on it's no accident now if a contraception failed after proper use ok. why is is no one gets married and then starts a family or moves in together why have people given up on the old traditional values.

2007-12-28 06:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by ASHLEIGH P 3