My husband has been in Korea (Air Force) since Sept 07. We have been married for seven years and he calls me the weekend before Thanksgiving to say he has never loved me, but got married too young and felt obligated to marry me. He says I have changed. Well, actually I have changed, for the better. Who would want to stay the same person forever? I have loved him with all my heart, giving to him what he needed (or so I thought). He has been deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan too at eight month stints each and is now dealing with a bit of PTSD. As far as I know we have both been 100% faithful. I have asked him if there is anyone else in Korea and he said no, but that there are some "attractive" girls over there that he looks at. (Hearing this pierced my heart!) Anyway, he has shut off emotionally, is gone physically, and when I ask to talk to him (once a week) he says, "what do you need to talk about?" I mean, What the heck? What happened? Please- give me some answers.
2007-12-28
09:17:10
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