Where they accuse you of cheating so often that you think...hell, they are accusing me of it...I may as well do it?
The thought has crossed my mind, but I don't want to lower myself to that level. I think he was accusing ME because he had a guilty conscience from screwing around HIMSELF.
2007-12-28 09:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It appears if he thinks that yo may be cheating he may not feel that bad for screwing around on you. He figures in his mind if you cheat then his infedelity is not all that bad. He is full of guilt and this is his way of trying to get a little comfort from his actions.
Tell him that NO you have not cheated on him and if he doesn't stop accusing you to make himself feel good then you will have no other option then to leave him for someone that is not a jealous idiot.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
That just because he couldn't keep his pants zipped does not mean you have that problem.
I have never gotten to that point nor would I this is just a thought of mine what he may be doing.
2007-12-28 13:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually the guilty conscience doing the talking. Remeber two wrongs don't make a right though cause in the end he can turn around and say "damn i was so foolish of accusing her of cheating when really i was the guilty one"
2007-12-28 17:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by ~SweeT~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably right about him cheating. That has been my experience. When someone accuses you of cheating, it is because they know that is how they have dealt with feeling unsatisfied in the relationship.
I guess the only way of solving it is to find out what he isn't getting out of the relationship that he needs and see if it is something that you are willing to give.
Good luck!
2007-12-28 17:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by JC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't. I wouldn't deal with someone accusing me of cheating unless there was a reason for thinking that. If he's accusing you that much, I'd say if you can't talk through it, its time to end it.
2007-12-28 17:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by nikki1162000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you catch him cheating? Have you suspected him and checked his cell phone calls, email, computer history, etc?
Don't cheat and degrade yourself. Decide you're worth more than that and be a better person. If he's cheated, have you both gotten counseling? Are you doing something that makes him suspicious of you? (talking about guys from work, checking out guys when you two go out). Decide if your relationship is worth the hassle, then go from there.
2007-12-28 17:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by rabbit4041 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP Been there and if he is always accusing you with no reason, He is not worth the effore it will take to convience him any differently. Either he is cheating himself or he has very low self esteem. Either way it aint worth it for you to continue in this relationship. AND TELL HIM I SAID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-28 17:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by fjones446 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex tried that once. I gave him the proof that I had of him cheating..along with Divorce Papers.
2007-12-28 17:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT'S GUILT ALL DAY.
MY HUSBAND KEPT ACCUSING ME OF CHEATING WITH SOME GUY NAMED LESTER. COME TO FIND OUT HE WAS CHEATING WITH SOME B*TCH NAMED LESLIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-28 18:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by THIC007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-28 17:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.......and?
2007-12-28 17:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋