he is supposable going to get a divorce as soon as he gets the money... i live with him what do i do?
2007-12-28 11:22:30 · 19 answers · asked by hellokittybabygirl0192 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He will not get the divorce as he is quite content to string you along. I would move out and find a place of my own and maybe date a guy who isn't so piggish as to have an affair on the side. You're better than that!
2007-12-28 11:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by New Running Shoes 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Oh, he's living a double life. He's with her as well. No more buying into that garbage about not having the money for a divorce. That's crap. He's married. He's NOT available, and he should have kept his pants up and kept his hands off of you so you could find someone decent. My next bit of advice is to pack up and move out TONIGHT. Go to a women's shelter, friends, relative's etc. And tell him he's married, has no intentions of getting divorced, so that's it, it's over.
2007-12-28 19:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to being this guy's whore because he isn't going to get a divorce. If he cared anything for you he would have been divorced before getting involved with you...in short, he was looking for someone to use on the side and you stepped up to the plate.
2007-12-28 23:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look this is a complicated issue.Just because he called you by her name ,It just doesn't mean anything.That name is ingrained op-on his emotional centers.Should you live with a man who is working on getting a divorce .NO! that's jumping the gun.Date him perhaps but even that you should be careful not to get too serious.You have made yourself a bed of nails,don;t just lie in it.Forget all about the name thing it don't mean squat.
2007-12-28 19:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Marble77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a married woman and have delt with a woman giving my husband attention.
What is with you women who know a man is married and yet still go beyond your boundries??? It is women like you who make me sick.
Plus, how do you know he is not with her? Maybe they are not together, but are trying to work on it.
I think that's great he called out her name. I think he's a POS and would be doing his wife a favor if he left her!
2007-12-28 19:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh back to the good ole' I'm to broke for a divorce, and u fell for it. If he hasn't gotten one yet he ain't getting one at all!
For me to get a divorce is $500 as long as my husband does not fight it!
2007-12-28 19:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a man that is available. If he was truly wanting to get a divorce and be with you he would have done so by now. Sounds like he wants both, you and his wife, that way he keeps his options open. You deserve better.
2007-12-28 19:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move out and on. You are most likely being used by a man who doesn't KNOW what he wants. No blame to either of you if you get out now... but don't cling! Good luck in the New Year!
2007-12-28 19:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Gina C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's not going to leave his wife for you! and why would he?? you're just the tramp he's messing around with! and trust me, that's the way he looks at you!
you need to do the right thing and put a stop to it immediately!
you're getting used, and an innocent wife is getting cheated on!
he'll keep on feeding you the line about leaving his wife for you just as long as he can keep you believing it!
2007-12-28 19:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that you deserve a real man who does not cheat.
Quit being the other woman for this guy and find an available man and find a positive way to build your shallow self esteem.
Good luck.
2007-12-28 19:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋