Wives: Did your hubby get another woman pregnant and you took him back?

Question

If so, why?

Do you and your husband deal with the child or no?

Answer 1

What if the baby turned out not to be his. My husband was tested when I was 6 months pregnant for his ex's 2 wk old baby. We waited for the results and it came out negative. While we waited, I asked if he would take care of the baby if it was his. He said he didn't know and asked if I would help him! I said HELL NO!!! I told him if this baby was his then he needed to take responsibility as a father, even if it was a mistake. But I sure wasn't going to help him take care of his mistake!!! But since it turned out to not be his, we stayed together.
What about that? Would you stay?

Answer 2

Yes, my husband cheated on me with a married woman. A child was born from this. It caused our family a lot of trouble. He wouldn't stop talkin to this homewreaker.....I dealt with it the best I could. My husband and I lived apart for 3 years. For the first two, we were still doing things as a family (we have 3 kids) and we were still spending time together as husband and wife. Then about a year ago, I ended up moving .....I just couldn't take the facts of what he had done. To me, it was like he was having his cake and eating it to. But to make a long story shorter....I moved back in with my husband a few months ago. Why? Out of love for him and our family. As for the child, he is paying his child support and visits once in awhile. The child knows him as "uncle....." or dad...she calls him both. Does it still pain me? yes, but I love him with every beat of my heart and I did try living without him, and it killed me. That is why we are back together.

Answer 3

absolutely not! you deserve better than that! you better get divorced in some states they take child support out of the father's check and INCLUDE how much you earn too. so watch out! you could very well end up paying for this child in more than one way! DIVORCE him now!!! your husband is going to father another woman's child!!! that he cheated on you with!! why would you even consider taking him back!? you deserve someone who will never do that to you! it would be different if she was pregnant BEFORE you married him but after....it is a recipe for disaster!

Answer 4

it fairly is a annoying one, you need to understand your husband. i'm purely 20 and in no way been married. yet even the adult males you could in no way think of could cheat on their different halves, do! And in the event that they do it as quickly as, it rather is less complicated to do it back. They see no harm in it. and that i does not bypass so a approaches as to assert that he has cheated on you. possibly he's purely curious, to be sure in the event that they could pursue him. possibly he's calling for a self assurance improve? yet like I stated till now, the two you have confidence him or you do no longer. i do no longer think of there is an in between whilst it is composed of have confidence. i does not complication too plenty approximately it. it rather is in comparison to you could prefer to secret agent on him, with the aid of fact if no longer something grow to be happening and you get carry of caught, then you are going to be the in charge one. i could say have confidence him, all adult males have their flaws. possibly you need to boost your love existence... that often looks to help ;)) purely with the aid of fact he seems does not unavoidably propose he touches.. all adult males would be curious!

Answer 5

He wouldn't live long enough for me to take him back.

Answer 6

people make mistakes that's part of life. i take my vows seriously and i will take him back if he is sincerely apologetic

Answer 7

Nope, I have too much pride for that!!

Answer 8

I would NEVER be that stupid

Answer 9

UNEXCEPTABLE!