He says hes at work but dosnt come home or comes home the next day. He always has time for the friends but is two tried to help me. we have been together for 14 years. Ive tried to make deals so he could have friend time but he does what every he whant whats i feel like he loves me but wants both wrolds what to do
2007-12-28 09:16:59 · 7 answers · asked by fisher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...he is setting you up for a big fall, be prepared for anything,
by getting a lawyer and file an intent for divorce...
2008-01-01 09:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet there's more than just his friends that's keeping him away! I'd try to find out what (who) it is so you will know exactly what you're dealing with. Are you married? I think I'm hearing that you're not in which case I'd cut my losses and leave. Could he just want to stay to have a cook, housekeeper, maid? And if you're waiting on a man that doesn't come home, why are you staying?
2007-12-28 09:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He comes home the next day after work? WOW, he's a cheatin' man who doesn't truly love you. So why would you tolerate a man who is there for his own convenience?
Go see a counselor or just make up your mind that you're worth more than a disinterested husband.
2007-12-28 09:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by rabbit4041 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think men need space and it's good for us to give them that space because if not they do get tired and they leave. I think you both need to communicate with each other so there will be a understanding and not asume of each other...good luck
2007-12-28 09:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by tinkle bell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for a man who will appreciate you more-this one's too selfish
2007-12-28 10:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *** out and let his friends take him in.
2007-12-28 09:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2007-12-28 10:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋