my dad.....?

Question

is not the dad i remember, he cheated on my mom, moved out, takes stuff, threatened my family, trys to take the car that will make us pretty much hopeless, called out my brother, and takes my brothers medals from when he served in Iraq that he gave to my mom and refused to give them back, but still is friendly with me.

what do i do?
i fear his seperation of him and God.
for some reason, i havent gave up hope for him, but dont know why, im the only one.

we did, but they cant do nothing.

i cant just let him go, im afriad he turned his back on God
that is my biggest fear

Answer 1

Pray for him.

But do not forget to take care of yourself as well. You are not responsible for any decisions your father makes.

Let yourself off the hook. Just because your father does wrong or bad things, does not mean you are wrong or bad as well.

You father is a sick person. Go to an AL-anon meeting, get a sponsor, and work the steps.

Good luck.

Answer 2

i know my dad kind of cheated on my mom and probably still is and i am the only one whoo defends him. i am scared to confront him but when i do sometimes it kind of help. how bout you say dad can i tak to you and try and tell em the truth or tell your story and say this is whats happening with a friend. she what happens good luck.

Answer 3

he is who he is and since you're the only gullible one left in the family hes got you. you seem to want to pretend that all is well.He is responsible for himself and you are not responsible for him. Let it go until he is a person worthy of you.

Answer 4

I am disturbed by the comment "his seperation of him and God"

Are you really that nieve to think that only non-christians act this way?

Answer 5

Why is no one pressing charges on the theft of all these things?

Answer 6

What your dad does really is only your dad's concern. Nobody elses.