Marriage & Divorce - 16 December 2007

2007-12-16 08:05:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he feels it is ok for him to be very close, too close with female counterparts but doesn't want me to have any opposite sex friends

2007-12-16 08:01:33 · 18 answers · asked by Lil Miss Miracle 2

2007-12-16 07:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by badcops2hell 1

2007-12-16 07:55:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to have a few glasses of wine each night with dinner. I work full time, take care of my husband, my children and a household and never miss a day of work. My husband told me he thinks I have a drinking problem. What do you think?

2007-12-16 07:50:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 07:45:26 · 17 answers · asked by edie 2

bf and I have not been getting along and both agreed to a break. together for 6 yrs. He has always been above board with me and I do not feel this is an excuse to "cheat" we both realize that once we agree its over its over and want to be sure before a hasty decision. I have come to a desicion and would like us to get back together but he is not sure. I do not want to push and have not asked him for a time frame but would like to ask you guys out there how your thinking works, if ever been in the same situaiton and how long it took and how did it work out for you.

2007-12-16 07:42:16 · 7 answers · asked by Patty 2

We've been together 4 yrs and engaged two of those years. Why would he get engaged if he wasn't happy? He bought a house next door soon after we got engaged and rented it out to a family he knows. They are heavy partyers and drinkers and he started hanging out there all the time. he doesn't want to do anything but stay there for over a yr. He doesn't do anything around HIS house. I asked why. He said it's because he doesn't care about this house anymore. I then asked why he is always next door. He said it's because he's done and hasn't been happy with me since we've been together. I am very hurt and have alot of questions. Like why did he get engaged in the first place? Also, things got bad when THEY moved in next door. I asked him to go to couseling. He said no. He's done and I don't get that it's over and couseling won't help because there is nothing there anymore and he doesn't want to talk. He then left to go next door and then came home soon after. Why did we get enaged then?

2007-12-16 07:40:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

hundreds of women, getting them drunk and then sleeping with them. I don't throw it in his face but how would you deal with it, being a woman and everything. Its kind of unnerving. Looking back I know he suffered from antisocial personality disorder but its till hard to reconcile, especially since the women were young. I know that my calling is to be a loving, and supportive wife but how do you handle it, especially since he has little respect for women still and basically used them just because he thought it was his right. How do I deal ?

2007-12-16 07:37:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

From what I gather she is not happy in her marriage and every time I see her she is so flirty. She wants to go to the pool next weekend and sit in the spa.

2007-12-16 07:35:35 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

are in their 20's...and have two small children to consider....is SEVERELY BRAIN DAMAGED....he does not know who she is...etc.,....NOW I FEEL she should not have to stay with him...it is CAUSING HER DEPRESSION AND he is NOT a HUSBAND anymore...(but you know how people WILL JUDG E HER FOR LEAVING HIM AND PUTTING HIM IN A HOME)...cuz you know how some people are...She went to several counselors...and each one told her she will have to WHITE LIE in order to NOT be judged by them...such as say when asked only..'HE WAS IN A FATAL ACCIDENT...AND if they ask anything else...which they will do....just say..."i do not want to talk about this...it is NOT good for me to re-LIVE IT...Now remember ..WE ARE NOT IN HER SHOES AND WOUld never want to be...I have seen him so i can understand...I feel that is alright to say...because it was fatal to his brain...(the children are afraid of him)..with good reason...

2007-12-16 07:34:39 · 3 answers · asked by sweet 4

just curious...thanks

2007-12-16 07:33:14 · 19 answers · asked by HRHGavin 3

My husband and I have been married for a year and half. He loves me to bits but since we've been together I feel like I am our "life manager" and I am often frustrated (we talk abou this all the time). We have struggled a little financially because of a fairly heavy debt he brought into the relationship and sometimes I feel like I was happier living independently. We are now trying to have kids but there's something in my gut telling me that I shouldn't have kids with him. If I choose not to I will be jeopordizing our marriage and that breaks my heart. Should I trust my intuition?

2007-12-16 07:28:32 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa 1

These are the things my husband has done to me since we have been together the past 8 years, we now have two kids:

Ran up my phone bill w/phone sex numbers
Used his account for online sex websites
Got drunk on multiple, multiple occasions (he's an alcoholic)
stole money from me - used my credit cards-signed my name (ruined our credit)
forged checks - signing my name
got drunk - and pushed me down at my high school reunion
spent all our spending money right before we left on vacation
spent all our money right before Christmas
pawned my b-day presents
pawned our possessions for money to buy things he doesn't have the need for

Convinced me after all of this that he still has respect for me and loves me and wants to be with me..

He is bi-polar, has been in recovery for alcohol over a year. On medications to control OCD... Is on Disability due to his bi-polar (he was diagnosed with this after we got married).

Am I wrong for having feelings of not wanting to live like this anymore?

2007-12-16 07:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you did was the other person married or single?

2007-12-16 07:21:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Grandma and mom say shes too young to be marrying the fiance
The wife a year ago divorced a 20 year old who got another woman pregnant after she supported him for two years
Her new 60 year old fiance has just bought them a house to live in once they are married
He said he will stand by her until he dies
Mom and grandma says she needs to be with someone about her own age.
They say they will try to get a restraining order against him if he tries to marry their daughter and granddaughter
I say, the daughter is an adult and she deserves to try to have happiness. Age has nothing to do with it.
Grandma and mom says he will die soom
I say, if she has found happiness let them live together in marriage as long as either can live
The sixty year old has never married. He wants children. So does she/
Grandma and mom says im stupid and their child and grandchild is much too young for that man
Isaid do you have aman They said no.
I said nothing.

2007-12-16 07:19:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

what was the final straw?was it a difficult decision? how did you tell the people close to you? how did you break the news to your kids?do you regret your decision?

2007-12-16 07:07:32 · 16 answers · asked by boohoo 2

Lets say they met at work, and became friends there and started going out to lunch together/dinner/movies what not.... and he did introduce u to her but still hung out w her alone. . . and swore there was nothing between them but friendship

2007-12-16 07:03:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bascily, got married at 20, been married for about a year and a half and have had sex maybe 10 times. When we first met we had sex all the time, and then we had a preggers scare.. sex slowly has died down and like now its been at least three months. It's certainly not because I'm not horney, but when it comes to my hubby, maybe the sparks are just gone? I'd rather do it with anyone else. Its just not as exciting or i dono.. now I am finding more and more I am putting myself in compromizing situations with guys.. tempting myself, more and more without a reason not to go through with it.. I know that sounds terrible, but I am a good looken 21 year old who feels like I am wasting away some of the best times of my life. Dont get my wrong, I love my husband, hes deff like my best friend. But I feel like we've become room mates. And the passion is gone. Like theres nothing, if you met us 2 years ago we couldnt keep our hands off each other in public, now we dont even hold hands.. help

2007-12-16 06:53:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

for 20 yrs, but we still are friends with his x and have very good relationships with his 3 adult children. Do we send each child a sympathy card or do we send just one to the oldest, but address all three in the card. The 3 children are all very close.

2007-12-16 06:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by Michael S 2

I have come through a good many things in my life, mother being beaten by father fequenly, Molestation when I was 4to5,fathers sucide when I was 11, raped when I was 18 aunts sucide when I was 19. Divorse and remarriage within 2 weeks of each other when I was 28. Every time I think Ive got my head on straight something else happens to make have to start with the therapy and the "growth cycle" all over again. The latest in my cycle is another possible divorse because of yet another growth cycle. Which included not wanting to drink at my problems or smoke pot with my husband any more. Ive used with my husband far to long and I want to live again. I took snow board lessons this week (had ablast) got a tatoo( shocking to the whole family) been snow shoeing. All without my husband and he is very resentfull and I dont know what to do. I did invite him. I failed once in a marriage and I am beginning to think Im just not cut out for it. I'm 47 been married 18 years this time 8 last time.

2007-12-16 06:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by wrknprgsat47 3

If that happened?

2007-12-16 06:44:33 · 16 answers · asked by kekeke 1

ok my husband and i have always had differant sex drives mine being the stronger one, but lately he will say we are going to do it after a tv show or after im done doing somthing liek dishes or what ever but then when the time comes and we are in bed he says hes to tired or lays there and talks to me(which i love that we talk, but he does it to just kill time) till its to late to make love we both have very early scheduals ive sugested some times in the after-noon but for that to happen the electric has to go out lol he is 3 years older than me im 20 and he 23 so is this differance supose to be happening after only 6 months i dont think he is cheating but do other guys out there around this age have this problem? is there any thing i can do to help him or should i just back off? im more worried that this maybe a med. problem.

2007-12-16 06:41:51 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs T. 2009 4

What is your favorite snowed in activity or game?

2007-12-16 06:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have asked for sex and been rejected by my husband twice within less than one month. I feel so hurt and I've been crying since then. Don't get me wrong, I'm not crying for the sex, I'm crying because I feel rejected and hurt so deep.

The timings were probably not the best (when I asked) and that's why he rejected. The first time we had just had lunch and the second time we were almost going to be both exhausted after a v. long day.

But isn't' sex supposed to be spontaneous and not always done in the "perfect" time?

And no, he's not cheating on me for sure.

Please help me, my heart is aching so bad.

2007-12-16 06:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 4

Just has an orgasm with my husband and
a river of water came out of me what could this be?
by the way Im 35wks pregnant. Did my water break
this never happened before.

2007-12-16 06:15:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could you take just a moment to recall the things that you found so amazing about your partner spouse or whatever and then go tell them... despite whatever is going on at the moment just tell them.

2007-12-16 06:13:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 06:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What goes through a men's skull when he views a female(general) for example crying during the movie"Titanic"when "Jack"lets go and drowns/she doesn't gets HER way/loses an arguement/didn't get what she wanted/on her period/ETC. What do men think of women who get emotional/cries easily over simple (sometimes stupid)things????

2007-12-16 06:09:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I tell him that miracles happen and wishes DO come true, but this particular one is not going to happen. His father and I have been divorced for four years. I'm remarried to a wonderful man (who my son adores truly) and his father is dating a great woman who loves him too. Still, all children wish they parents would get back together...so they will have EVERYONE they love in their lives daily. I know that. Some suggestions as to what to say to a little nine year old so he still believes in wishes, miracles and prayers...granted.

2007-12-16 06:06:01 · 6 answers · asked by Beach Girl 5