Why are some men players ?

Question

My husband had antisocial personality disorder and that is why he was one. What other reasons are there ?

Answer 1

they love to use someone for all kinds of reasons , from money to a place to stay!

Answer 2

Some of the same reasons some women are. It can be anything from needing acceptance, loving the thrill of it, not being content with sleeping with just one person, having commitment problems such as not wanting to ever experience getting hurt... being a player they are in control of how long they see someone, and when they see them, etc. Everyones reasons can be different. I know a few guys who just do it looking for the right one to settle down with so really it can be anything.

Answer 3

Lack of reverence for GOD.

Once that person truly has the Lord in their lives, they will live their life in the light.

1 John 3:9 (New International Version)
9No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born of God.

Answer 4

I think its more of an ego thing to prove that they still "Got it " So to speak in that to prove they can still get the girl

Really kinda childish if you ask me

And Cause they choose to be

Answer 5

listen to 50cent-the hit

you should hate the game not the player (yes has the one that made the phrase cause that song was made in 2000 b4 he got shot)

Answer 6

that is due to women only respecting and wanting men who are players. All the things that women claim they want in a guy is nonsense, as the overwhelming majority of us guys have all of those qualities, yet women either won't give us decent guys the time of day or will use us as servants.

Part of the reason is societal, as women get the impression that her wants and desires are dirty and cannot be respected if they seek to get their needs met. Yet, these are needs, not mere wants, so in order to get those needs met, women will go for players, as they cannot have feelings for the player, but the player can legitize her being intimate by telling her what she needs to hear to be with him. That frees her up to do all kinds of wonderfully naughty things without worrying about respect, etc.
We guys get 100% of our value from being found worthy by women..everything about us is trying to attract women--even to where the good jobs are given to men seen as winners, those who attract women. We need that for everything in our lives, so we have to be players in order to get anything good in life.
Everything hinges on societal demands for both genders. Women have to be inhibited, etc. and act as though they have no such desires in order to be respected and we guys have to find way to be attractive to women. It leads to one giant pretentious messy game in which few get anything but misery. Very few ever get past this to find anything close to happiness.
A decent guy really gets his *** handed to him, as he will give everything in his existence, his heart, and soul to be with a woman who will finally give him a chance, and what does he get? A shell who has had her fun, and now seeks to settle and pretend as though she has no needs or desires. There is no love, no intimacy, no respect, no enjoyment, nothing good to be had, and all because he isn't a player, and is not a jerk.
It sucks to be a good guy, really it does.
I advise guys to be players and just get theirs, as being a good guy only gets you a bunch of sh*t. I just wish I could figure out how to be a good player, but maybe I just don't have it in me, ugh. That's why I no longer have any interest in dating, etc....there is nothing good to be had if you're a decent guy. I learned this the hard way.

Answer 7

Everyone is a player just some make it to the arena to be chastise>

Answer 8

WHY is ANYONE a player?? Because they have low self esteem, lack of respect for themselves or anyone else, are selfish, immature, AND, because they CAN.

Answer 9

The same reason some women are, they are human beings A.K.A. sinners !

Answer 10

to look good in front of their friends