If that happened?
2007-12-16 06:44:33 · 16 answers · asked by kekeke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whats funny is your wife found out via Yahoo Answers that you were having an affair, so don't you think she's going to look at this post too and know that whatever decision you come up with, and think you only took it from off here! I'm laughing at the irony.
2007-12-17 06:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by rzolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got two issues going- your marriage and your divorce.
Do you want to keep your marriage? This will not be easy. You've gotta work through your reasons for cheating and her reasons for not trusting you. Neither will be easy. You can't fix either of those here; you need a counselor. One for you- to see what made you find another woman- and one for the two of you- to find out what has been missing in your marriage.
If either (not both) of you choose divorce as an alternative, then you definitely gotta get some help. Depending on which state you're in and *how long you've been married*, you may just split the bank account and bills and go your separate ways or you'll need to go through the painful alimony/child support/future earnings quagmire.
I'm not envious of you.
No matter what happens, you'll change a lot. Either becoming a committed husband or as a changed single guy. Neither will be quite like before. You can survive, but your life won't be the same. Good luck ...
2007-12-16 07:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by going_for_baroque 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha...it serves you right. Next time, keep your pen in your pocket instead of dipping it where it does not belong. You play with fire, you get burned. It would serve you right if your wife throws you to the curb...If she forgives you you should walk the straight and narrow and start working on making your marriage work.
2007-12-16 10:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was a way to tell on every cheater on here i would do it in a second and think nothing of it. I think everyone who is being cheated on has a right to know what their lousy spouse is doing behind their backs.
(If that happened to you) I hope i was the one who got you caught because you and everyone like you deserve everything you get or should i say everything you don't get. If i sound bitter, you god damn right i do.This is what being cheated on does to you, you start to hate every person who is cheating on their spouse.
2007-12-16 07:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grovel
2007-12-16 06:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by MiaBella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should get the "Stupid Man of the Year" award if that happened. You would need to tell her the truth then and hope that you could work it out with her. Otherwise, you would be facing divorce court and losing half (or more) of your marital assets.
2007-12-16 06:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well first of all why are you with herif you are cheating on her if you love her you are supposed to be faithful and if you don't love her then be honest with her and get a divorce or something
2007-12-16 06:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by liciousblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say if your stupid enough to cheat, you can deal with the consequences.
You made your bed, lay in it.
2007-12-16 09:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact an attorney...if that happened.
2007-12-16 06:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samething I did, admit to it then leave! Although mine wasn't exactly like that but pretty damn close! I know I know thumbs down hahahaha love it!
2007-12-16 06:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋