just curious...thanks
2007-12-16 07:33:14 · 19 answers · asked by HRHGavin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am happily married and wouldn't cheat on my husband...How can a HAPPILY married person cheat? Sounds like an oxymoron to me...
2007-12-16 07:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hell no and no one would if they respected and truly loved and cared for the person they were married to. Marriage should never be taken or looked at like a sacrifice.....true love is giving freelly the best parts of you and controlling your sexual urges that would tear down and destroy your marriage. When you are happily married the strength to do the right thing should naturally be there.... even if your marriage goes through a discontented phase your faith about the other person should not falter and make you feel that you have the right to cheat. when people cheat in marriage it changes everything from the bottom up and it never stands in the same light again. It will always be shadowed by the hurt ,pain, and doubt that the person cheating put into your lives. Happily married people do not cheat because you love that spouse so much that you could not even think about sharing the most intimate part of what you have together with someone else.
2007-12-16 17:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says happily married, if you were truly happily married you wouldnt cheat on your spouse because your content with the marriage. But some people may find that a marriage
is boring and they want some one other to replace that void in there marriage. But yet again
if your truly happy
you wouldnt cheat.
<3
beckie
2007-12-16 15:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I am not a cheater. Dead against it actually.
Being married, whether happily or not, means it's NOT okay to cheat, so no I wouldn't.
I think if someone is happily married, they won't even be remotely tempted to cheat.
And if they're not happily married, then cheating is only going to make the whole situation worse and more complicated. It is never a solution.
2007-12-16 16:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. Even if I was not totally happy with all aspects of my marriage I would exit the marriage before considering cheating. If you've been cheated on then you know the hurt. I wouldn't want to do that to someone I love.
2007-12-16 15:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by lulu2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not cheat on my wife if I was happy or
if I had problems in my marriage, why because
I am married period. Since we both are respon-
sible; loving; caring; committed; supportive of
one another; communicate; in our marriage,thus
having built a rock solid foundation, cheating
would not occur as over 20yrs married we both
have proved that to each other time and time
again.
2007-12-16 20:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be happy and be curious at the same time. I love my husband VERY much, and i'm happy. But I still see men who are attractive and yes I do think from time to time what it would be like to be with someone else. Maybe I will maybe I won't. That doesn't mean i'm not happy. 75% of marriages today - people cheat. But I am married NOT dead, and I am only human. I'm sure my husband does the same, even tho if I asked him he would say no. Bull sh*$ ---- We only have one life so I say if it's something you want, go for it. Have your cake and eat it too..........................why not!?!
2007-12-16 16:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
We all get tempted from time to time. If the urge ever happens, just hold on for a moment longer and see the BIG picture on how this moment of pleasure will effect your family in the long-run...
2007-12-16 15:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by perrygreenwich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MARRIED means COMMITTED, for better OR worse, happy or unhappy. It is NEVER OK to be a liar, cheater, or a person who plays games with other peoples emotions.
NO - I take my commitments seriously, and I have no respect for those who do not.
2007-12-16 16:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If you were happy and your life was fulfilled, why would you? I don't understand why people cheat anyway, you would have to be a weak selfish person to cheat.
2007-12-16 17:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋