Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2007

I'm interested in seeing the differences for men and women. I think I already know the answer, though.

2007-11-12 07:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 47 years old cuddly with a beard i am a christian and has 2 great kids that i care for,i go to church every week,and am a voluntary worker at junior church,and the contact centre(meeting place for seperated families)i like to help others like the homeless,animals,aged and sick people and monthly make donations to mercy ships and spend spare cash buying stuff for homeless hostel,i'm cuddly and very loving,i am also very close to mum and weekly go to her house to do her housework,garden and take her shopping as she is disabled,i can also,sew.cook,clean,iron,shopping and look after the house and i'm a man would you marry me or be a pen pals if not why not please don't be rude or crude honesty is the key,please also tell the sort of person you are you could even email me a picture of you i not bothered what sort of picture it is

2007-11-12 07:26:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true that I take on his credit rating/history? I would like to know everything that you can give me...Thanks in advance.

2007-11-12 07:23:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There never used to be a '' Well theres always divorce if we fall out'' attitude tho marriage.Do you think it's because divorce has become more acceptable and easy? Or are people just less tolerant with their parteners thesedays? Or anything else =]

2007-11-12 07:20:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

went on line to meet guys for an on-line relationship? I'm just curious of the who/what/and how because my signifcant other likes to but she won't talk about it. I busted her a couple times and I really don't care as long as she doesn't try to meet these guys. I tried to chat a couple times but I keep getting directed to pay site..it was actually quite humorous. How do women meet so many guys?

2007-11-12 07:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 07:16:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I posted a week ago, asking about my family and husband not getting along. Well, the thing is, my family only chooses to see/hear what he has done to me, and ignore what I've done to him. So, they don't like him. And he's hurt that I told them everything, one-sided. So, I'm in a pickle! I want them to see him the way I do now.
My sister is in a very important play at a community theater. I want to go, but my whole family is going to be there. I'm nervous that my family will be crappy toward my husband and that my husband will be uncomfortable.
Any ideas on what I can do to keep things smooth? I don't want a confrontation, but I don't want my husband to think that I don't respect him. AAA!

2007-11-12 07:12:10 · 18 answers · asked by Hick Chick 2

Im curious if its really true what people say the cons are to staying a virgin til marriage argument. One of those reasons is that the husband and wife will be curious about what else is out there, especially if they don't find their marriage sexually gratifying. Would this person cheat to find out? Would it thus be better to have had sex before?

Are you a virgin who regrets staying a virgin til marriage? Were you a virgin before marriage and don't regret it? Why don't you regret it or vice versa?

2007-11-12 07:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He are I are 29, have been dating a year, and discussing long-term commitments. Up to now the relationship has been pure joy.

He is primarily interested in career pursuits that are very difficult to make money in (Kung-Fu, stand-up comedy), and that he does not seem to be interested in more education beyond his BA in Eastern religion.

I have had a sudden surge in confidence in my ability to achieve my dreams of getting a graduate degree (whereas I have felt I could not do it before).

On the other hand, my boyfriend is far more fiscally responsible and emotionally healthy than I have been in the past 10 years. He has an undergraduate degree while I have yet to get mine.

I am scared that I feel my academic-career ambitions are greater than his. Even though I have yet to accomplish mine, it seems difficult to do so without the support of someone who has similar ambitions.

Am I wrong to be dissatisfied with his ambitions considering he is still more accomplished than I am?

2007-11-12 07:07:35 · 19 answers · asked by alice_curiouse 2

Hi

I am new here I need honest advice , I have been married 15yrs, and while my husband was working out of town he meet this women in a bar--- while one thing led to another and he is involved with her. I was so stunned , I asked him why? He replied we have nothing in common, I do not like his friends, I spend too much money, He has not be happy in years.... Everyone we know can not beleive his excuses for what he has done. this girl only knew my husband 3 weeks and she decided to move in with him. Well it has been a hard 2 months---- Just recently my husband and I started talking ... My husband can not look me in the eye when we talk at times. I assume he is filled with guilt. He said he did not mean for this to happen, I am such a good person, and He loves me.

So he heard last week I was having health issues, so he came over-- I asked him how he was doing he said Im doing--- which gave me the impression life is not so grand with this women, I heard she is total

2007-11-12 07:03:31 · 18 answers · asked by mm 1

My girlfriend and I have a fantastic relationship everything is great. She confided in me that she would love to know what it is like to please a woman orally. How do I help her with this fantasy, or do I just leave it alone.

2007-11-12 06:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by iceman 2

My husband is depressed and wont do anything about it. He went to see a doctor and the doctor perscribed him some anti-depressants that he took for a week and then stopped because he didnt like the way they made him feel (numb). He went and saw a therapist once and he didn't like that all he wanted to talk about was his childhood (it was bad). It has gotten to the point where I dont even want to be around him. He hates his job but can't leave it (military) and I know that is a huge issue. Its to the point where I feel like he hates all of his life, me am at the end of my rope on what to do and on patients.

2007-11-12 06:54:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been having problems for awhile he has a huge problem with controling his anger he always has a smart remark to everything u can not talk to him about our problems with out him thinking im blamming it all on him then he trys to turn it all around on me we have had fight after fight because of his mouth or smart remakrs or lake of romance although the sex is good but last month he crossed the line and put his hands on me and hurt me and i cant trust him or anything now i told him he had to go to anger classes etc but he keeps making excuses and does not want to talk about our problems i need to see him want to help himself but i cant make him he thinks everything will work itself out he cares more about work money material things not trying to fix our marriage i dont know what to do iv read book after book what do i do to make him ralise he is loosing me please give me your thoughs fill free to pm or email me with any private advice if u dont want to post it here

2007-11-12 06:42:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

This happened before and we are married only for 2 yrs. I dont know why I miss her now when she is gone. Please help out... :(

2007-11-12 06:39:37 · 12 answers · asked by Auto S 2

My wife went out and got her nose pierced when I was away for the weekend. We have had numerous discussions about this were I expressed my dislike for this. Now, I understand it is her body and she may do what she likes, but don't I have the right to be upset? She is mad at me for getting upset, which makes me even more mad about the whole thing. Am I missing something here?

2007-11-12 06:33:12 · 20 answers · asked by Spyder81 2

2007-11-12 06:31:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

26 years of marriage [ 2nd time for me] slept seperate rooms for 25.stayed for children,care for each other but total lack of affection on his side although says he still loves me.lol. also says will never walk away from our property!

2007-11-12 06:29:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 06:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by Pamela J 1

2007-11-12 06:26:09 · 5 answers · asked by ricktheripper1 1

When you asked for a divorce, did you feel it necessary to explain your reasons to your Ex, especially if you left them for someone else?

2007-11-12 06:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's what i noticed - this guy i know is "shy" when it comes to certain things, passive when he wants to be and when he doesn't wanna deal w. stress - you don't wanna force him or push him too much

You'd think in relationships, he would suck at communication (lack of experience) but w. this one girl he used to like, he was open and ready to be rejected - was ready to have that "talk"...but this girl who he was close friends w. (and closest thing to a relationship he's experienced) - they both fell for each other yet when it comes to communication, he SUCKS at it...he'll mention things here and there but isn't as confident and then choses to be passive and wants things to wait out and deal with them on it's own...

what's up w. this?

2007-11-12 06:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you heard the song Numb by Linkin Park well that is me ever since my parents got a divorce! My mom keeps pushing me to do things like get an a plus report card or your grouned/ She wants me to be gurly and me for one wants to be punk. Please help me in a way that is not harsh to try and tell her i am doing the best i can.

2007-11-12 06:19:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do all guys watch porn when in a gd sexual relationship?

2007-11-12 06:17:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He put his finger in the "other" place. It surprised me but I didn't feel anything special or different, other than the feeling that I had to go to the bathroom. I'm just wondering, why he did that, we never talked about it and if I should do it to him now. I am going to ask him about it, but I wanted your thoughts.

2007-11-12 06:13:27 · 20 answers · asked by Lily 3

My bf has a job in which he has to flirt with ppl, (mostly women) so to attract them as his clients. I know he loves me, but I also know that before he met me, he did go out with quite a few of them. I do trust him, but it still bothers me:s knowing how these women flirt and stuff:SS

2007-11-12 06:11:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

SEX question for MEN and ...women...do you think the amount of sex a man has with his wife has any effect on will he or wont he cheat? Its the topic of todays office debate, and i say no...if a man is gonna cheat, he will regardless, it has more to do with just trying something "new" questions, comments concerns?

2007-11-12 06:10:48 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I are both looking to change career paths. I have been offered a position in another state. She is looking for a position in the same state, but as well as New York. My job would start soon, meaning I would have to move without her and live alone in the new state for at least 6 months. I could do the long term thing, but whether she has a new position anywhere is up in the air. I don't want to lose this great opportunity but I love my partner and don't want to lose her.

2007-11-12 06:08:10 · 7 answers · asked by Charles M 2

My husband and I have been married for a little over three years and have marital problems. We have had some pretty bad issues arise. He cheated on me almost a year ago and it took some time to recover from that. He also lied about a porn addiction and began to lie about the simplest things. Believe it or not things are getting better. They have been for the past four or five months. However, we do still get into arguments from time to time.

But I have asked him about having kids for the longest and he keeps saying he's not ready. He recently said our situation has gotten better but he's still not ready. This has been his excuse for the past two and a half years (we started having problems about four months after we were married). I won't say I haven't played my part because at times I can be very pushy and persistent, but I have been faithful and truthful througout this relationship.

I have PCOS (a fertility issue) so I will probably need fertility medication in ...

2007-11-12 06:04:10 · 18 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

okay, my husband thinks that we need a trial separation to try to remember the love, need and want of eachother. He says that we don't know eachother anymore. It's hard to get a babysitter so date night is out unless we have it at home. Advice please!!!

2007-11-12 06:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by momof5 1

would you rather your spouse be blond or red head or brunette?.

this q? is just out of the blue........I read that married guys would rather see their wives (even if its just for one night) brunettes, when they are blond, and blond when they are brunette

total opposites..........

2007-11-12 06:01:22 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Sonadora♥ 3