Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2007

2007-11-12 03:08:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

kids at all thank god. when we were together it seemed like to me she didn't want to discipline her kids, spend time with her kids, or raise them. her mother raised her kids. i did my share & helped out but the kids wouldn't listen to me they would hit me & they never had a real bedtime. i told her of this & she said that they don't need a bedtime on the weekends. that's bs!! they need rules they're young. she would text other guys & say "they are just friends". the kids father is never around & when he is they both argue in front of the kids. they even told the kids infront of them that they never wanted to be apart of their lives & that they feel miserable with them around. that's awful.!! i left because i couldn't take it no more. it was took much. i swore that i would never date another girl w/ kids. i'm living w/ family now working 2 jobs getting my own place in another month. life is great!!! no stress. yesterday i get a call from my ex gf saying she's changed & wants me back.

2007-11-12 03:08:18 · 10 answers · asked by conan 3

2007-11-12 03:06:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 03:04:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it because I am married? Well, I am seperated...why should that make a difference?

2007-11-12 03:02:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question is not for children just adults old enough to marry
also those who married and regret it
also for those who dont beleive in marriage . I told all my friends that marriage counts Im willing to hear im wron No problem I am also willing to hear im right too.

2007-11-12 02:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realize I don't have history with them and it may take years for things to settle in and know what role I will play in their lives and for them to trust me...but I'd appreciate thoughts about how to proceed until then, e.g. wanting to get to know them better, giving advice, correcting their children's behavior, etc.

2007-11-12 02:52:46 · 21 answers · asked by dingding 7

i mean might the marriage between a morroccan boy and a fat american girl bring problem because of cultural.if some one who have an experience in that can help plz, and what an american girl would accept from her non-american husband, and if it s wourk out?

2007-11-12 02:50:18 · 7 answers · asked by mark monta 1

Bob marley said something like making a beautiful woman your wife is a mistake.

2007-11-12 02:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by bhackle2 3

I have been wanting another child (we have a 5 yr old daughter) for over 2 years. Hubby said he wasn't ready, but didn't give any real reason. 2 days ago I said I needed a reason for his reluctance as this has been an ongoing issue. He finally (after me asking what the deal is for all this time) said he isn't sure if he is still in love with me. He said he does love me and always will but doesn't know if he is in love with me. Said he doesn't want to have another child and end up leaving. I am totally shocked. We have had small issues but we really get along great. We love being together, love our daughter and I thought loved our life together. He said he is confused and doesn't know if he really isn't in love any more or not. We haven't had sex in about 4 months which isn't normal for us and I KNOW he isn't having an affair. My best friend thinks I should just end it but since that talk we have been fine and he is being super nice and loving. What the heck? Should I leave?

2007-11-12 02:36:35 · 30 answers · asked by LeeAnn 2

Im 13 and iv had a girlfriend for 6 months and we love each other, are we to young to be in love? I could see myself spending my whole life with her. is it possible that me and her will grow up and get married?

2007-11-12 02:30:31 · 26 answers · asked by vvdfder44 2

i was seeing a girl and we stopped seeing each other cause she said she fancied a person she worked with (and knew it was stupid cause nothing would probably happen there)

she taught it was unfair on me to like me (she said) and be dating me ( 4 three months) but fancy someone else and she needed time to sort it out and would get in touch when she got over him


does this just sound like a kind way of dumping someone - even if she does fancy the person at work ?

and would you be able to get back with someone if she said come back to me after doing this ???

2007-11-12 02:23:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me your thoughts on Monogamy...

Why you think it is good...

Why you think it is bad...

Personally I think as animals it is unnatural to be monogamous and goes some way to explaining why everyone is so unhappy.

What do you think?

2007-11-12 02:16:00 · 31 answers · asked by Mr_Moonlight 4

I have been separated from my STB ex-husband for about 6 1/2 months now. the divorce wont be final until late spring or early summer. I have completely moved on from him. I have absolutely no feelings for him what-so-ever anymore. Honestly.

i have since met a new guy. we are not dating, but we both like each other very much. we are giving it some time for now. YES, he was the FIRST guy to show me any attention since the spearation, but he is NOT the ONLY guy to do so. People say "its just bc you're getting something you havent had in a while" ... but i disagree. no one knows how i feel except me.

am i moving on too fast? i feel i am ready to start a new relationship, but i am not looking to rush things. my 3-y/o daughter even recognizes that him and i like each other. she says "at least mommy has ___" (this guy's name goes in the ___). and he loves my daughter and is good to her too. how soon is too soon?

2007-11-12 02:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean who as the right to say who you marry, this is the 21st centre its so old fashion. its your life.

Why be with somone you dont love.??
Why do the men treat there women like a cleaning and baby machine.??

2007-11-12 02:06:28 · 3 answers · asked by dolphin 1

I bought a car about 2months ago... I put it on my dad's name for insurance purposes... and had an agreemant to put it back on my name as soon as I got my lisence. He bumped my car while being drunk, and didn't even ask me to go for a drive. We had a really bad fight and he kicked me out of the house. He moved (I don't know where) and took my car! I bought the car from my brother in law... I have evidence that I bought it with MY MONEY. But I dont have money left to get help form an attorney... Help?

2007-11-12 02:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by Erné R 2

I think most can agree that's a pretty good saying right?

But why is it so hard in relationships for people to achieve that? HONESTY, LOYALTY, TRUST, RESPECT. I'm sure if ask most people that's what they want. And they'll mean it. But let still that's not how most people act. To ever increasing number of people who CHEAT these days. To just the flat jerks people can be in general.

Why is it so hard for people to treat others the way you wanna be treated?

2007-11-12 01:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex husband and I have been split up for 4.5 years. We are talking about getting back together. He has 2 kids from a previous marriage... I admit I was not the best stepmother, I was 21 and had no experience with children at the time, and to top it off my ex husband was gone 8 months out of a year... His kids recently contacted me and want me to come back in their lives, but their mother doesn't and she let me know about it through a phone call...

Should I still try to work things out? I know I have changed for the better, I had a cancer scare that made me look at life totally different!!! and I apologized to them and they forgive me, but not their mother, I didn't beat them, so please don't be mean... What would you do in a situation like this? Go back? Or not....?

Please help :(

2007-11-12 01:32:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this weekend billy for some unknown reason logged onto his very old AIM name and he looked at his buddy list and there was like 90+ people on there and 80% was girls and he seen someone that was on (a girl) and started IMing her and they talked for like 10 mins then he asked her for her myspace or facebook and she gave it to him . but he didnt have a facebook yet so he created one (he spent every waking moment on it this weekend). and then he IMed another girl that he use to have the biggest thing for before he met me . and i know he was mesaging other girls and guys on face book all weekend. so last night i found (on myspace) one guy i used to talk to a lot on the computer (befor i met billy) and i asked him and another guy that i was friends with in HS if they remembered me and that was it ! and this morning he had a fit because i messaged them and i told him that i wanted him to see how i felt when he talked to girls and he told me he was mad that that i am phsyco because everytime he talks to a girl i get that way. and he was mad that i would even message another guy . am i wrong to ?what do you think ?

2007-11-12 01:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by MADDYSMOMMY 2

he spends a lot more time with his friends instead of with his kids and me.I told him it really bothers me @ hes been ignoring the situation.I feel alone sometimes @ cry when he doesn't pay attention to me. But, he wont ignore me when he wants sex! should i hold out on him or keep being miserable?

2007-11-12 00:54:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been going out with my boyfriend for 4 yrs but still havnt told him some stuffs about my past like about some of the guys i have dated he has never asked about it but sometimes i feel like am betraying him and get scared about the fact that he will leave me if he finds out i really love him and have been totally faithful with him since i met him.i havnt done anything bad in my past but just didnt tell him that i have slept with someone else rather than my first boyfriend.does he need to know i know about his past and its worse than mine but it doesnt affect me.i hvnt discussed my past to anyone ever in my life so i dont know what to do.

2007-11-12 00:48:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married 8yrs... met someone... Found a strong connection w/ this person and don't know what to do. Marriage is not perfect...Spouse has cheated b4...I need some help as I am losing my mind...Never felt this way b4...If I do nothing and stay in my marriage will I go my whole life wondering what if? Be rude be kind I don't care just plz help...My marriage has its ups and downs just like anyone else...I am not stating wether I am male or female cuz people tend to become more judgemental...but plz serious answers only! :(

2007-11-12 00:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by meconfused?yes! 1

youe husband is rich and you dont lack anything.

2007-11-12 00:27:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this guy for a lil over 3 yrs. It was a real ugly break up! Seeing him made me feel like him & I never missed a beat! Yet being wit him last nite I had my guard up totally! I cared about him a great deal and I feel like so much time has passed we've been a part for a lil over a year. Yet last nite all that I wanted to say 2 him prior to us ending he didn't allow me to say or get it off my chest! Lets just say it was both our faults but the communication could've been better with a better ending if he just listened! I feel like a different person now and he even looks different to me but I bought so much out in conversation that I felt I gave too much. Was it a bad power move being in his presence & I don't care how much he said he loved me, I'm sorry I just don't see it or believe it! I feel like he's the type to monitor his heart jus as I am, how do I get pass all that and really put faith and trust in his sincerity? Because prior to breaking up I just didn't feel the love!

2007-11-12 00:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by rita_hiemy 3

To add my thoughts, if you find yourself talking about your spouse to your family or for that matter, your friends BEFORE you speak with your spouse, THERE'S A PROBLEM with your communication skills. You MUST communicate any grievances you have with your spouse first. then you can speak with your family or friends about it. If you don't your spouse will feel left out, with good cause!

2007-11-12 00:12:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you want to be when you grow up?It was the first question i can remember being asked by my Gran. I was six at the time and had the world at my feet, or so i thought!I couldn't make my mind up between a footballer or a truck driver like my Dad. i`d lived with my Gran for a while now and didn`t really know why except now and again my gran would say " don't worry, it wont be long till you are back home. Truth was i didnt want to "Go Home" Mum and Dad were big drinkers and the weekends were hell. I`d never drink i thought, never ever, after seeing what it did to my mum and dad, i didn`t want to be part of that!So, i lived with my Gran, thankfully, for many years until she died, then i had to go back home, to the rows, the spoilt sheets being washed on a Sunday morning and the violence that came with a very large hangover. This spilt over sometimes and affected my schoolwork and my lack of grades. I`d lost interest in driving a truck, like my dad and although i thoroughly enjoyed my football i always new i wasn`t quite good enough to make the grade.So, here i was at fourteen being asked the same thing by my Careers officer that was attached to the school. I was stumped! I honestly didn't know what i wanted to do and there was only two years or so to go before i left. A Manager i said! I would like to take charge and do something constructive!was my answer, now i had a purpose, again i had a dream, and you know what ? I became an Alcoholic! Just like mum and dad!

2007-11-12 00:12:14 · 10 answers · asked by Normms 3

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2007-11-12 00:11:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I had a few too many drinks last night and he wanted me to play with his "backdoor" which he's never wanted that before but he acted like he loved it....it really freaked me out and now Im disgusted and wonder if that means he's gay??!

2007-11-12 00:10:12 · 50 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3