ok this weekend billy for some unknown reason logged onto his very old AIM name and he looked at his buddy list and there was like 90+ people on there and 80% was girls and he seen someone that was on (a girl) and started IMing her and they talked for like 10 mins then he asked her for her myspace or facebook and she gave it to him . but he didnt have a facebook yet so he created one (he spent every waking moment on it this weekend). and then he IMed another girl that he use to have the biggest thing for before he met me . and i know he was mesaging other girls and guys on face book all weekend. so last night i found (on myspace) one guy i used to talk to a lot on the computer (befor i met billy) and i asked him and another guy that i was friends with in HS if they remembered me and that was it ! and this morning he had a fit because i messaged them and i told him that i wanted him to see how i felt when he talked to girls and he told me he was mad that that i am phsyco because everytime he talks to a girl i get that way. and he was mad that i would even message another guy . am i wrong to ?what do you think ?
2007-11-12 01:00:43 · 12 answers · asked by MADDYSMOMMY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have been married almost 2 years and we have 2 baby girls
2007-11-12 01:01:18 · update #1
If he talks with old gf's etc. there should NO reason you can't talk to old bf's...of course you did it out of spite and retribution which is wrong and psycho...of course, his getting mad at you was childish, insecure and psycho too.
2007-11-12 01:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You two seriously need to grow up. When I was reading your question I thought a teenage girl was writing it about her teenage boyfriend. I was shocked to learn that you are married with children. Seriously, you guys need to get off of freakin Myspace and messenger and go take a look at Dr.Phil's website and seek out some good advice on relationships, communication and parenting. You both sound extremely immature.
2007-11-12 01:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by jessicanichole2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all men r ike this.so hes into ims and all that ,u r not wrong firstly ,he dont like u to chat with guys then go to him n tell him that u'll not do it again but as he is too busy 4 u ,u will be moving to ur frnds place (any of ur girlfrnd) and will stay there 4 the week end n u have some plans etc make it up now by urself....then just leave him .....lady u r a mother of two babies now u should know how to play when he is out of control ...to gain attention simply move away..back off ...n i bet u u'll have him back...n yes dress up all gud be all girly let him come out of the craze for facebook its new to him let him try ........
2007-11-12 01:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! thats no longer genuine thats like saying people who drink beer are losers! If that have been the case which potential ninety% of the international is crammed with "Losers" human beings might think of that purely losers smoke "reefer" because of the fact the stuff is prohibited and makes the consumer a criminal and generaly criminals are "losers" so they affiliate smoking weed with people who're losers. at present a guy or woman loses there activity,funds, liberty, and dignity because of the fact they inhaled some smoke and then they say "look what drugs have carried out to his/her life" it isn't the weed that destroys human beings's lives this is the regulation!
2016-11-11 06:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually both of you are mistaken, on his part he does things in front of you, this doesnt mean honesty, this is a clear violation of your marriage, I can't imagine how he can do that with your knowledge and you tolerating him, when they may sound pretext on his part for your past....so if I were you, be sincere , delete those past contacts of yours, show it to him and ask him to do so, if he doesn't then there si soemthing wrong in the marriage,,talk about it while you can otherwise it will worsen and might break the bondage, ok?good luck!
2007-11-12 01:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any couple that has brought two kids in this world should grow the hell up and get off the damn computer and be a PARENT! Honestly....contacting girls from high school??? I am laughing!
Welcome to reality! You two aren't in the 10th grade anymore! And you both seem a bit too consumed with this computer crap.....
2007-11-12 01:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds guilty. Anytime one gets upset over something like that, they r guilty of something.
U have every right to do what u did. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander? U bet it is!!!!
If he wants u to stop chatting with ur guy friends, then ask the same from him. Simple as that.
Dont let him ask something of u that he isnt willing to do himself.
Good luck hun.
2007-11-12 01:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he can dish it out, but he can't take it.
Tell him to stop spending all his weekends on the internet and spend it with his family, like a normal person would. He needs to get his priorities straight. He has a wife and kids now. He should remember that.
2007-11-12 01:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you two have reproduced. I am so sorry for those children if you and your husband actually spent your weekend like that. Grow up. You have a husband and children, get off the computer and get a life. What in the world is the matter with you?
2007-11-12 01:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
That's tit for tat, & it's petty. If you have a problem with anything he does, address the problem, don't mimic or imitate it. That's a lesson I had to learn.
2007-11-12 03:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by marcavelli0569 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋