Marriage & Divorce - 12 November 2007

My fiance is planning on meeting up with a woman he went to elementary school with, that he hasn't seen since they were 12, but he has talked a little bit to on myspace. He is 23, so 11 years ago in elementary school they knew each other. Doesn't this seem odd? Why do you think he wants to meet up with her? She is overweight, but he is eluding why he wanted to.

2007-11-12 08:14:47 · 14 answers · asked by Snow Bunnie 2

I am planning on divorcing my wife. She is unbearable. I am active duty Navy, and she has been diagnosed with severe depression, and I just cant't deal with it anymore. we are always broke because she spends money without thinking. We only have one car (because my truck's engine blew up), and I am trying to save the $1,400.00 for that, but with her spending habits, I can never do it. Here's my question, My total bills are about $800.00 in credit card debt. Her bills are two student loans for about $12,000.00 and a car loan for $16,000.00. All of her bills are in her name only, and I am not a cosigner or anything. Am I legally responsible for those bills after the divorce? We also have two great kids, 20 months and 8 months old. What am I looking at child support wise? I want custody, but chances of that are slim because I'm a man. But I think that she's unstable. She lost her job as a daycare provider for "putting children in an unsafe environment" and with her medication/depression

2007-11-12 08:12:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would like to take my wife out and paint the town red. Problem is haven't enough funds for the paint. Any ways ladies, help me out with some fresh ideas, you know things men don't realize we can do for you. Also men help me out with ideas that have blown your spouse away and i don't mean cancun or paris. Low income, but lots of Love........thank you.

2007-11-12 08:12:22 · 14 answers · asked by Strugling Christian 1

My hubby was working in a bad work environment and he finally quit! We have been having some issues lately and have been arguing more than often. He has told me that it's best for him to move out and leave. He said he's enough problems for me. I think he is just frustrated and needs some time to get settled down. What would you do about this situation? He says now that he's unemployed that I will be giving him more hell at home which I would not do! I told him I'd help out til he gets back on his feet after all that's what marriage is about through good or worse right? What do u suggest I can do?

2007-11-12 08:12:13 · 22 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4

2007-11-12 08:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 08:03:51 · 11 answers · asked by sandeep j 2

I am just curious where you met your bf/gf or Husband/wife? I like to hear how people met so this is why I am asking this question.
I met my Husband online. I met him in oct 2000 In a program called Firetalk Which didn't exist after 2 days of meeting him there and we swtiched to yahoo. Anyway,Sept 21 2001 he asked me to be his online gf. April 5th 2002 he came up to meet me in person.August 14th 2002 he came up to see me again and ended up finding a job & stayed. December 25th 2002 he asked me to marry him. June 14th 2003 we got married.He lived in Beaumont, Texas at the time and Now state college, Pennsylvania with me. Yeah might not be so thrilling but I met the person I was suppose to be with. we both knew we were suppose to be together in 2001. I love him so much!! I was 18 when I met him & he was 20.

2007-11-12 08:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

the wife is working and he is the househusband?

Is this arrangement working for them and are they happy with this?

What are the responsibilties undertaken by the man? and how wife is contributing this arrangement to work?

2007-11-12 07:59:46 · 12 answers · asked by *Nikita* 1

I have been with my wife for 8 yrs. We used to be sexual a minimum of once a day. However, for the past couple years, it's been about twice a month. I am a very sexual person and and am going crazy for the lack of. I try not to pressure her so I don't upset her. She has also not been treating me the same, she makes me feel like she just doesn't even care anymore, even though I treat her like she's the world. We have a son together so us seperating is not an option right now, he is my life and I can not bare to be without him. My question is this, what are your opinions about, if I should look elsewhere? I am not one for cheating and never have been, however I almost feel like she deserves it sometimes.

2007-11-12 07:59:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering this. If you were making over 100k a year, would you rather your wife was a housewife or went out and worked yourself?

2007-11-12 07:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by Rose 1

2007-11-12 07:58:46 · 17 answers · asked by misunderstood_teen 1

Star If You Like...

Three guys and a lady were sitting at the bar talking about their professions.

The first guy says " I'm a Y.U.P.P.I.E, you know... Young, Urban, Professional, Peaceful, Intelligent, Ecologist."

The second guy says "I'm a D.I.N.K, you know... Double Income, No Kids."

The third guy says, " I'm a R.U.B, you know... Rich, Urban, Biker."

They turn to the woman and ask her, " What are you? "

She replies: " I'm a WIFE, you know...
Wash, Iron, F**k, Etc."

2007-11-12 07:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been ordered by the court to carry insurance. he will get it then he will drop it again. the only time i find out that he has dropped it is when i have to take my son to the doctor. the child support enforcement agency always says they will send him a letter but it doesnt help. i dont know what to do or where to go to find any answers. do i get an attorney, do i pay the bill then sue the father, do i get insurance and then sue the father. i cant find answers anywhere. thank you

2007-11-12 07:56:20 · 13 answers · asked by molly 2

For the upbringing of children

2007-11-12 07:56:00 · 22 answers · asked by qayyumpuri 1

We have been living in the same house for the last three years.
Things are now not good and i just want to get out.
If i leave is that desertion if we are not married?

2007-11-12 07:54:10 · 8 answers · asked by Ringo 3

I thought about having another baby but I am all confused. He says he's sorry and does now not love this woman. He saw her for a year and wanted to leave but I convinced him to stay.

2007-11-12 07:53:21 · 33 answers · asked by Goldie P 1

I've been engaged for seven months and I do love my fiance but I am going through huge changes in my life and I don't want it to hurt her. Sometimes I think that she would be better off without me and I've thought about calling off the engagement. I don't know what to do. Is it better to hold onto someone, even when you think that your life could ending hurting her emotionally, or just let her go and let her go on with her life.

2007-11-12 07:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I was playing with our 1 yr old and something about custody was brought up and he said he was going to go for full custody and our daughter started crying so I took her and told her not to worry because I would go for full custody, and then he told me that he would at least go to Joint, my question is what is the true difference?
My husband is never home during the day, and our daughter and my step-son is in bed before he comes home from work [[He has full custody of his son, so I know what full custody is]]
I have a full/part time job working 3rd shift but I spend all day with our daughter and when she goes down for a nap I go down also. My step-son is in full day kindergarden.
When our daughter was 6 months old and learning how o roll over my step-son kicked her, and my husband did nothing all he said was S-S did it bc he was lacking attention + S-S has hit other kids, 1 had to be rushed to ER 2x's
If him and I were to ever get a divorce who would win?
Thank You

2007-11-12 07:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Princess 2

2007-11-12 07:47:45 · 9 answers · asked by rhiannon_m2004 5

It came to light when a former client called the house. He left a message on the answering machine. She did not hear it as I erased the message. She was very evasive when confronted.

2007-11-12 07:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by BERNARD F 1

I'm 30, she's 27. Married 1.5 years, together for 9. The last.. well.. 9 years she has mood swings where she turns into a total ***** and says horrible things to me, my family.. everything that is important to me. Because of this I had 2nd thoughts about marrying her before we got married but figured everyone has these issues and went ahead.
Shortly before we got married I met a girl thru the net.. just chatting, explained what my problems to her, and she shared hers with me. Just friends. Fast forward 2 years, we have recently developed feelings for each other. After my wife and I had a huge fight where she went home to see a psychologist, I met this girl. We both want to be together. But, my wife saw the psychologist, got anti-depressants, and is much better now. But, I can't forget all the horrible things she's done to me. All I can think about his how great this new girl is. What should I do? BTW the other girl is stuck with a bf she doesn't want to be with, she wants to be w me.

2007-11-12 07:42:14 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this is sensitive question. More directed at the ladies. In the course of intimacy and forgetfulness yesterday, my g/f & I wound up having sex but forgot about the tampon. Shall we say it's "up there"...any suggestions how to get hold of it?--can't get any string...

2007-11-12 07:38:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is violent and controlling. He refuses to take the 12 steps and recover. My parents refuse alanon.

2007-11-12 07:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by charlotte q 2

2007-11-12 07:35:18 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

probably its his first time

2007-11-12 07:35:14 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-12 07:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by chevdud97 3

Recently me and my wife seperated for reasons I wish not to share, and I was wondering how to win my wifes heart back? I have broke been a horrible husband in the past, and contiunally pushed her away. I have asked god to forgive me and I'm trying to rekindle the marriage, but I think it might be to late. Please help.

2007-11-12 07:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by Ronald H 1

My husband tells me that he loves me and wants to be here in this home,but yet we had a problem a yr. ago and he made friends with some girl on the internet behind my back, but he was suppose to stop talking to her I just didn't feel right because he had to do it all behind my back.But now he still talking to her and told me that they (her&supposely she is married)are his freinds not mind,and I will never meet them,but she has come up to his work to visit,that is all he will tell me.He has lied about her for the past year, what am I to do we have two kids and I want this marriage to work but I don't want to be disrespected in any way. If I did what he did he would flip.Am I even wrong for staying in this marriage, someone help with alittle advice.

2007-11-12 07:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left me 3 months ago we have 2 kids.My daughter found out he has a GF he told my daughter he would be out of town this weekend She thought he might be going to our cabin so she texted him & told him Dont you dare take your GF to our cabin if you do my friend who lives around there will tell me. He wrote back" tell her to come by at 1 o'clock & she can meet her."
I can't tell you how much that hurt me I have not been to the cabin since he left & all of my things are still there my clothes and everything & our bed I can't believe he would do that to me
my mom thinks that he just said that & that he didn't even go to the cabin. She thinks he was just mad at my daughter for trying to run his life. It hurts so bad if he did that.Does anyone have an opinion on it?

2007-11-12 07:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 13 years and my husband always climaxes before I do. When he does, then we're done. What can I do?

2007-11-12 07:28:10 · 11 answers · asked by Danelle B 2