Is it because I am married? Well, I am seperated...why should that make a difference?
2007-11-12 03:02:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think women do not like you. I believe you just have not found someone who you are into and she is into you. I bet some women already like you, but, you do not like them. I hope that helps :)
2007-11-12 03:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of women won't get involved with a married or seperated man until he is 100% divorced. If you are a Christian it is against God to get involved anyways. It is also protection as well. Some people who are seperated sometimes still very much in love with their wife and want to go back. The other woman is like a rebound and can become very hurtful. Those are just some of the reasons. I am sure there are more.
Besides why are you trying to get involved with someone else when your not even healed from your wife. Your still married in God's eyes.
2007-11-12 03:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes a big difference. Women are lied to all the time. Women want a man that they can have a future with if that is what they are after. They feel that if you are still married, things can change. Men have been saying they are separated forever and it turns out that their wife went for a visit to her mothers house. Men lie, so in order to cut to the chase, women need to put high demands on a potential partner. How can you start something new when you are not finished with the old marriage?
2007-11-12 03:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are still legally married and she is still with you on paper even though both of you are seperated get divorced why are you still married another things is many women are going to be skeptical about getting married or being with you because they are wondering why you left her in the first place or why she left you. Think about it.
2007-11-12 03:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because of baggage. A lot of women can't handle that. You were married.. what if you fall back in love with her? What if she wants you back? A lot of questions go through a womans mind... but it's so much more because it was marriage, you were willing to share the rest of your life with a woman and now your not together for whatever reason. They may feel like you two wouldn't work out for the same reason.
2007-11-12 03:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by His Wifeyy ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until the divorce is final to start any kind of relationship. Until it's all said and done, people are going to think of the possibility of you getting back with your wife. Plus, some people may have a moral problem with it (dating a "married" guy). I would just wait until the big D is final and then try again. Make sure you're over your wife first!
2007-11-12 03:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Some women don't like the extra baggage that comes with it. Or you may have too much drama in your life. Being separated means that the divorce hasn't been finalized yet, thus, there are still chances that you may get back with your wife, or the divorce will be messy. Women don't like dealing with that. And with divorce, comes financial woes, bankcrupcy etc, and again we don't want to deal with that. Try again, when you have settled everything. I'm sorry to be so frank and I hope you don't take it badly, but that's what I see happening to my husband's cousin and his brother.
2007-11-12 03:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Hanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes a difference because it shows that if nothing else, you couldn't make a marriage work. You have all the baggage of already falling in love and pledging your life to someone, and then failing at it.
I'm sure you have many great qualities too, but you have to accept that that it one major downside right off the bat.
The good news is you are not alone. So don't give up.
2007-11-12 03:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Karla 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May be being separated is still fresh and you are giving the sad vibe. Women pick that up and it scares us. Frankly men more times then not go back to their wives. Which is great! But we are not willing to set our selves up for a hurt. Give it time. See what happens.And by the way maybe she is the one who broke the promises and failed at this marriage. Chin up. Time changes allot of things
2007-11-12 03:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by cindyokie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you think they like you? Being seperated shows you've failed at marriage. Also, if you're not getting divorced, women might think you could go back with your wife, which would make you not available.
2007-11-12 03:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you think it was going to be like it was before you were married? Sorry guy you can't go back. You are going to be sorry you walked away from your wife in the end. The next relationship is going to be more complicated (she is going to have baggage too).
Instead of concentrating on getting a girlfriend why don't you work on yourself.
2007-11-12 03:09:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋