My husband and I had a few too many drinks last night and he wanted me to play with his "backdoor" which he's never wanted that before but he acted like he loved it....it really freaked me out and now Im disgusted and wonder if that means he's gay??!
2007-11-12 00:10:12 · 50 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doesn't mean he is gay. Alot of guys secretly like it but it doesn't mean they want a guy doing it. Its great that he is comfortable enough with you to share this possible fetish.
2007-11-12 00:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by Boxer Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol! sorry.. ermmm i dnt think this means he's gay, lots of straight people enjoy 'backdoor' playing. If your disgusted by it, maybe you shouldnt have done it. But you said you both had a lot to drink and that could be to blame. I wouldnt worry about him being gay. Some men like to fanstasise about it, so maybe u should just tell him how you feel. oh an lay off the drinks too...
2007-11-12 00:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Abs-Ashl3y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can`t make some one gay, they are or they are not. Playing wiht his backdoor - is just his idea of fun. There are more nerve endings around the backdoor than almost every other part of your body except your lips. Some people like it some don`t.
2007-11-12 04:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't mean he is gay at all. If he asked you to have Bob from next door come over and play with his back door than I'd say yes. But you are his wife and he was experimenting a bit. A couple is allowed to experiment with eachother's bodies. There are quite a few men out there who like a little action back there during foreplay. They won't admit it online, but it's true. Don't worry and just be happy that he was able to let his guard down and be honest that he wanted to try something different.
2007-11-12 00:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Men have a prostate gland that is extremely sensitive and its kinda like a girl's gspot. My friends and I talk openly about sex, and you would be surprised how many men love women to do this, I was totally shocked when I first heard about it years ago. But now its like no big deal, I hear about it all the time now. Including in nursing school they told us about it, go figure. But no that does not mean your husband is gay. Try it out, you may find that it if he really likes it, it may turn you on more knowing that you are giving him a thrill.
2007-11-12 00:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell ya. I myself have never dug anything that had to do with my poop shoot. That would make me go limp if someone started foolin around back their. I don't even like messing with a girls backdoor. To me, your right. Any guy who likes the corn hole is a little touched. I like what God gave the woman. Look at it this way.....everyone has a backdoor. But only women have a vagina. I think I'll stick to that. But hey, to each their own I guess.......
2007-11-12 00:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely. He must also like to wear pink dresses.
Didn't he ask YOU to do this? If he was gay, he would have been asking the bartender or the fellow at the car park. Chalk up to a few drinks and a little walk on the wild side.
2007-11-12 04:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. Maybe he wants for you to try something different. I know a guy that is not gay at all, but he has his wife basically do the same thing as you mentioned. If you are concerned, then ask him. If he's bi, or curious, maybe he'll let you know. Also keep in mind that alcohol was a factor....Best of luck to you.
2007-11-12 00:14:55 · answer #8 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was asking his pals to play with his back door I would say, definitely yes. The backdoor is the gateway to his prostate and that is one place a man can derive pleasure from, that is why some men turn gay and want another guy to stimulate their prostate with his partner's appendage. This kind of behaviour would freak me out too.
2007-11-12 00:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Col B 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not gay at all. My husband really enjoys it to an extent. A little play here and there is no big deal...really! I honestly wouldn't worry about it. Talk to husband today and she what it was all about, when we are drunk, we tend to do things a little out of character.
2007-11-12 00:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by sunnysideup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not mean he is gay, he might just be trying to keep the relationship interesting. So he want to try different thing.but on the other hand if he start wanting to do that often and other things like that you might want to keep an eye on him because he might start wondering off with the same sex
2007-11-12 00:16:07 · answer #11 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋