Is 13 to young to be in love?

Question

Im 13 and iv had a girlfriend for 6 months and we love each other, are we to young to be in love? I could see myself spending my whole life with her. is it possible that me and her will grow up and get married?

Answer 1

Love comes at any given time. The thing with love though is that it comes in different phases. As you grow up you meet different people and share a love which changes with time. It becomes more intense as time goes by because you learn to let it grow and such. At 13 I'm sure you feel you are meant to be together, it may be so, but I'm sad to say that it is considered a puppy love until it has matured over the years. When you have face serious obstacles that involve careers, money, family and choices at a later age; and find that you are able to still be involved with this person for the rest of your life.. then you are in love. Love is the simplest yet most complicated thing in life... and it takes a lifetime to cement.

Answer 2

There's no age limit to being in Love. The confusion comes if / when a person has no idea that IT IS Love. Just because a person is older doesn't mean they know what Love is. To get a good grasp on what type of a personality is Loving, watch how a small child or a dog acts around a specific individual. Adults can hide things from other adults, but not from children or animals !!!
It's VERY possible that you are in Love and sense a potential mate. Society dictates the 'legal' age is (to be in Love, etc). An old saying goes: "If a girl / woman is old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed". Girls can become mothers at a young age; however our society does not prepare them to be mothers. There ARE cultures where getting married after 13-14 is 'late'.

Answer 3

Yes. At your age you are unable to understand what the true meaning of love is. I was thirteen once and I would not trust a thirteen year old to make this kind of a life altering decision. No offense to you, you may very mature for your age. However, you have to be 16 in most states to drive, there is a reason for this. Love can be more damaging to others than a car accident. For your sake, take this time in your life to have carefree fun, focus on school and put yourself in a good position to raise a family. As you get older life will have much heartache and suffering, why start now? People feel so good when they first start dating, and they feel so downright miserable when it doesn't work out. Be smart. Be a kid. In a few years you will never be able to be a kid again. Enjoy it.

Answer 4

i thought i was in love at 13,14,15 and 16, all to different boys! You can care for someone so deeply it feels like love, but I am unsure on if you can love at your age. I dont want to sound condescending but you still have a lot of maturing to do. I think your devotion to your girlfriend is sweet and lovely, and may be the real thing. I would guess that if you are asking, you are not sure that you are. In my family is an aunt and uncle who started dating at 15 and are married with a 17 year old daughter now. Dont place all your hopes on eternal love.....enjoy the romance and learning that comes woth your first experience at "love" x

Answer 5

Of course it's perfectly possible, however there are a couple of things you have to bear in mind.

The first thing to remember, is that as you get older, the things that you feel are important tend to change. For example, what you feel is important today, is not perhaps what your father and mother feel is important today. This is not just because they are different people, it's because they have more experience of life, and that experience has changed them since they were 13.

The second thing to remember, is that young men and women not only change as they get older, they change in different ways and at different rates. That tends to change the way you feel about one another, and again, what you each think is important.

One last, but most important thing to consider, is love. It is perfectly possible to love someone without being "in love".
When you love someone you feel a great attraction and tremendous affection for that person, but being in love is different in a way no one has ever been able to describe. All that can be said is that you will know if it happens.

Many married people have lived together and loved one another most of their lives without ever actually being "in love".

The best advice anyone can give you is to enjoy yourself and one another for as long as you can.
Good luck.

Answer 6

no I don't think its to young for you to feel like you are in love...I was in love with my first boyfriend at 13 as well, we dated for a little over a year, unfortunately it didn't last..my second boyfriend we dated for 4 yrs and I loved him too, until I met the man that I am currently married to now, we have been married for 16yrs and we have 3 children together...I loved all 3 of these guys but my love for my husband is so much more than the love I had at 13 or even at 16.....so yes you most certainly can be in love at your age but the odds of you stying with this person for the rest of your life....well time will only tell.

Answer 7

I think its too young to decide now if you "love" each other. Its ok to date, but 13 is too young to know if you are actually in love. I would keep dating this girl and be happy with her. Enjoy your days together and when you have graduated high school or college, make the decision to marry each other.

Answer 8

Yes.

Life is about responsibility and planning. You have no responsibilities, skills, marketable talents, experience, or wisdom.

Once you get all those things, you'll be capable of being married and responsible for the lives of others beyond yourself.

Besides- Until you meet and get to know other women, how can you (or her) know if this is the kind of person you want to be with for the rest of your life?

Enjoy your friendship with her now, but focus on learning things. Get really good at something you love to do. This should be a priority for you instead of thinking about love and marriage.

Answer 9

Of course it’s possible and there’s nothing wrong with being in love.

It is vitally important however that you grow together and do not become restrictive to each other – together you should be strong and free and this can only be achieved with trust and self confidence and maturity.
It is vital not to become restrictive as otherwise, when you get to your 30’s you’ll be looking back on your life and thinking “I wasted my teenage years – I could have been travelling round the world, meeting new people, working in a new town, but, no, I am stuck here with her” – you’ll soon start to resent each other if that happens and you can never get your time back again.

Answer 10

Yes.

But every thing is possible.

Please read my article.
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