Marriage & Divorce - 28 October 2007

My husband and I are looking for another male/female couple, preferably married, to have some fun with sexually. We want to experience something new. Also want a good looking couple, near the Albany, NY; Pittsfield, MA area. Anyone know where we can find someone who also wants to have this experience?

2007-10-28 17:53:47 · 16 answers · asked by country girl 2

a girl and also friendship with three other girls. He says its friendship but it goes beyond their limits. He used to send them money and anything they want. BUT HE ALWAYS SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME MORE THAN THEM. Since he lost his mom he felt alone and maintained close relations with them. After our marriage it took me 1 year to completely get rid of their problem. I changed his phone number and our home and everything. I took his passwords and used to check his mails very often.This went for another year nothing happened so I started trusting him. But few months ago he found a girl who was one of his so called friends contact number somewhere and called her. Everytime when I ask him about these things he says I am sorry.I didnt mean to hurt you I wont repeat this..but he does it again. He stays more time on phone on computer he never likes to spend his time with me. I need to remind him that I am still alive and I need him..I am feeling insecured and lonely...what to do

2007-10-28 17:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by New Mom 2

2007-10-28 17:20:33 · 19 answers · asked by Kathy D 1

My husband is not very affectionate. He never holds my hand or puts his arm around me. No passionate kisses. I do love him and he does love me. I have told him over and over through the years about how I so much want romance and communication. He will not put his work schedule on the callendar. Therefore I feel frustration for not knowing his weekly working hours. He does not comply. Do you have any suggestions to get my husband to be more open with me? We have been married for 13 years and it has always been this way. I get so tired of being lonely. Any suggestion as to how to spark more openness?

2007-10-28 17:15:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

was married 25 yrs and was awarded a %of his retirement

2007-10-28 16:59:02 · 11 answers · asked by tgs 1

My hubby and I really want to have a threesome! We have a great marriage & are very happy. I am a very sexual person and this is something I have always wanted. I am not very jealous at all. I know I would be fine with all that stuff that most women would get hung up on, i'm so not like most women. I am in fact the one that brought it up. I have been in a threesome before but wasn’t in a relationship and I loved it but we didnt have sex. Yes it would be FMF. So my question is have you done it? What did you think? And the big one! How did you find someone!! That’s been the hard part for me.

2007-10-28 16:52:46 · 20 answers · asked by sullie812 2

2007-10-28 16:49:55 · 9 answers · asked by kedrick g 5

I have a stepdad who is very abusive to our family, he is controlling and nasty, and is impossible to live with. He is even nasty to his full blood children. My mum cannot cope either with how abusive he is, infact our whole family have some sort of depression and are desperate to get away from him. The thing is my mum thinks there is a slim chance of making things work and is also scared to live on her own. She has been seeing a phycologist too, but not long ago the phsycologist said she has to leave cause she is getting too depressed living with a husband she doesnt love, and if she gets too depressed they may have to send all us kids to foster homes cause she cant look after us.
Mum is finding it hard to be able to leave, also my stepdad isnt coping well either with it all. Im worried about him too cause he said he would commit suicide if she left cause shes the only person he has in his life. Im worried about what will happen to every1 and i dont know what to do. Can anyone help?

2007-10-28 16:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am almost 100 percent sure my husband had an affair if not a few that I just suspected a yr. ago. He will not admit it at all. He will not give me answers to the obvious. Why? Do you think he will continue this behavior is he doesn't admit??? I am cute, nice, do everything for him, I don't get it.

2007-10-28 16:46:05 · 6 answers · asked by soccor_mom 2

2007-10-28 16:41:32 · 22 answers · asked by lynn 1

Husband has been working 10-12 hours lately (although usually 8 hours daily). Wife does not have public job, just is a home maker. Wife paints kitchen on the days husband is off work, should husband help? Wife is upset because she even helped him paint the out side of the house etc.... but he didnt help her at all. Does wife have right to be upset?

2007-10-28 16:35:14 · 31 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5

Ok, I posted a questions similar to this last night, but I remembered something else that was said on one of my doctor's visits. I was telling him how one breast/nipple was not very sensitive anymore since having a breast reduction. He explained why this may be, but then, as he was leaving, he leans up to me and in a sort of whisper says, "but guess what....you still have the other side." Then he grinned real big and left the room. It seems like he is always making comments like this (you might want to look at lasts night's post). I'm just trying to figure out if this is just his personality or if he is flirting with me. What do you think???

2007-10-28 16:33:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married about a year now and its all new to me being married. But here's the ? me and my husband might have sex once a week. I want it all the time lol. But he is always like im tired, im not in the mood, or tomorrow night. And i get so upset sometimes because i do everything i can to make him happy, and he says that it is just a guy thing and he cant have sex all the time like that. But we might only have it once a week. So Is this Normal?

2007-10-28 16:32:43 · 15 answers · asked by Babyxgirl 1

Do you think that we should allow relationships to grow naturally without putting restrictions or expectations on them?
(This is prior to taking any vows of marriage).

2007-10-28 16:26:57 · 18 answers · asked by pussycat 5

i had a wife and now she.s left me over something that happend .5. years ago i cant say i am sorry over well cheating on her while i was in w.va. with hat married woman but i also saw her marrage fall to ut she was. in her.40..s and i was only.19. at that time i am not sorry for messing up her marrage she was nothing but cheap anyman know.s her type nothing but trailer park trash so does any know any good dating sites that are free. my wife left me over that tramp after all she was at fault more than me where she was older. married. and had.4. children

2007-10-28 16:18:55 · 12 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I have a friend who has been conversing over the internet with a Phillipino woman.
She claims she is going to come here and marry him. My friend is a little naive but I say it's not going to happen. Any good sites to find out if this is a scam?..In 2 years of conversation, he has sent her $500.
Could she really spend TWO years talking with the guy for that amount of money?

2007-10-28 16:10:07 · 22 answers · asked by Carl R 4

I know when my wife uses one of our toys when I'm not home. I check what the numbers are set too on the lock, and when they've changed I know shes been in there. For me, I think it's really hot to know she was masurbating while I was out.

2007-10-28 16:08:35 · 22 answers · asked by Kingler 5

Does the ex have issues, rude or have bad manners?

2007-10-28 16:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think?
about a 36 year old dating a 51 year old? is that wrong? and why? because of biblical belief? or personal?

what if the 51 year old has a daughter, thats 31

2007-10-28 16:01:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

how are things splitted up during divorce? in my last divorce i have lost both my cars, my house and everything that was in the house even everything that was bought before our marriage, a big chunk of my money from my account was also taken i barely survived if it wasnt due to a secret account that i held for business in another country. but how is it fair? i tried to get my wife to sign a pre-nup but she refused, i jsut wanted to get away and end the marriage. before we were married she promised to get a job but she never did and thats why we divorced we had no kids or anything. why did this happen? both us didnt have a lawyer why did this happen? how are things splitted up equally?

2007-10-28 15:56:09 · 9 answers · asked by Peter P 1

Ok... so I guess my friends all turned into hoochies. They been cheating... and getting busted... divorces all over the place...

My husband - I can tell - is starting to think maybe I would partake in such things since these are the women I hang with. These are girls I have known for 3 or 4 times longer than him. I dunno why they are doing what they are doing - but I have no desire to go tramping around...

He makes comments like "Oh - you want to hang out with the whore again huh?" - and "Why are all your friends sluts?"

Should I cut them off and end up friendless? It's not like I can go out and make new friends(I dont Wanna! wahhh) over-night. Me and these girls been through a lot together... since high school... even middle school.

2007-10-28 15:48:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my ex-fiance of four years is getting married to a another woman because he is tired of being lonely. We broke up back in February because of trust issues. My call. The only thing that is bothering me is that he doesn't love her at all and they just started dating. Plus the fact, when they get married she will be in our kids life as well. Why does this hurt so much, even though I want him to move on?

2007-10-28 15:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by navalangel2002 2

I have an ex bf who lives 2 hours away. He left me for someone else who was decietful to say the least. The thing is it happened while I was extremely ill, I was in the hospital. Not only that but he put me through alot mentally and I was there for him and helped alot. I was very hurt and felt very betrayed when this all happened and it has taken over a year to get over. He would not talk to me and did not want to see me. Well, he found out the hard way that the girl he was seeing is not what he thought she was. Now, I want to see him in person and talk to him. I want the closure he never had the decency to give me. At one point he told me he was sorry over the phone and said it was all uncalled for, but then he stopped contact with me altogether. I am strong enough to see him, tell him in person what I need to say and walk away. Should I go see him unexpectedly? He will not respond to my calls. Its been a few months since he last heard from me. This is not about him

2007-10-28 15:45:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been married for almost 3 years now, and every now and then, i have to mention the fact that he is ignoring me!!!doesn't give me a hug or kiss, unless i go to him first for days at a time, but when i say something about it, he sais "i haven't" like he doesn't know!!! and for a few days after we talk, he pays attention to me, but then after that he ignores me again!!!! i hate to have to keep reminding him, that i am still here!!!i had a bad childhood and a hug a kiss means alot to me!!!! he hasn't spent any money on me in 5 months but yet he gives my daughter money all the time!!! when i said something to him about it, all he can say is well you don't want your daughter to have the kind of life you had do you?? well of course not but what does that have anything to do with him spending 10 to 20 dollars on me?? he doesn't say i love you, he likes to show me, but here lately he has not showed me!! when is it time to say enough is enough?? i could go on !!

2007-10-28 15:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were married nine years.

2007-10-28 15:41:02 · 13 answers · asked by Tabonie 4

What is the height difference?

2007-10-28 15:35:56 · 17 answers · asked by Peter R 3

2007-10-28 15:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by imjetguer 2

i know this sounds stupid but if i wanted to make an engagment more special. we are getting married next year, i think i did it to plain when i did how could i make it so it would be unique or what could i do to show my love is still pure and true to him. weve been dating for 5 years on dec 5th. we have a son and one on the way. i know i know alot of people say kids after marriage. long story short both times we planned a date i ended up getting pregnant. thi stime im still keeping the date. but i love my fiance more than anything in the world i feel like i just did the engagment to plain how would you do it...if you could do i so spontaneously...thanks for all comments

2007-10-28 15:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5

kids..hes never met our baby who is 5 months old. we seperated when i was 2-3 months pregnant. we are now in the process of getting child support. we had our first court at wich he asked for a dna test on both of my kids.. :( he knows damn well theyre his kids but his gf whom he was cheating on me and was the reason we broke up. keeps telling him theyre probably not his children ...but wte im fine with doing the dna test this way he will not ever have a doubt in his mind. the deal is im terrified of him takin my children for a whole weekend. my daughters 2 yr old and my son i a baby. he hasnt seen my daughter since april and that was like for 30 min he hadnt seen her before that for about 3 months. he is a convicted felon (assault with a deadly weapon.) hes on probation ..i can prove that but how do i prove hes a chronic drug abuser and a alcoholic. he also lives 2hr. away from my town & its a diff. state. what can i do to limit these visitations and how much will a judge allow.

2007-10-28 15:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by nahdya21 2

I have always maintained good a working relationship with my Ex-husband. We both agreed that everything we did we would put the children's best interests first.

I have never undermined the children's Step-mother and most often agree with her parenting methods and tell my children so.

I have never been anything other than friendly and civil towards her, however she does not extend me the same courtesy. She sometimes sends nasty emails (one received this morning), trying to make me feel guilty about not being my sons full-time mother.

For more than 10 years now I have maintained the ability not to respond to her baiting me, but I am getting tired of this.

She has as many if not more problems than I and I could start throwing them in her face.

My sons are now 16 & 18 and very self-sufficient...I no longer feel like I need to keep up this facade for their benefit (they have their own opinions about, based upon their own experience of her.

What should I do?

2007-10-28 15:16:27 · 23 answers · asked by yutu34 4