Ok, I posted a questions similar to this last night, but I remembered something else that was said on one of my doctor's visits. I was telling him how one breast/nipple was not very sensitive anymore since having a breast reduction. He explained why this may be, but then, as he was leaving, he leans up to me and in a sort of whisper says, "but guess what....you still have the other side." Then he grinned real big and left the room. It seems like he is always making comments like this (you might want to look at lasts night's post). I'm just trying to figure out if this is just his personality or if he is flirting with me. What do you think???
2007-10-28 16:33:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
btw, we are both married so it is really a sticky situation
2007-10-28 16:34:03 · update #1
You don't sound offended at all in fact i think your hoping he is flirting with you. Do you think you are that different from any other woman that comes into his office and he flirts with. He is most likely hoping someone like you will catch onto what he is doing and take him up on it. Why haven't you said it's inappropriate what he is saying to you,all you want to know is if he is flirting with you.
Sorry but that's what it sounds like your doing if i am wrong then I'm sorry. But i don't think so.
2007-10-28 17:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a Dr, that for a throat or ear infection would make you remove all clothes from the waste up. I thought this strange behaviour and promptly found another Dr.
Your Dr could just be trying to connect with you through humour. Simply trying to make you feel more at ease, which is why he also whispered it. A lot of women get embarrassed about seeing a Dr especially when it comes to breasts, vaginal examinations etc. Now If he touched you inappropriately then that is another matter. If his conversations get more involved sexually then that is another matter. I wouldn't make too much out of it as this stage. However if you feel that uncomfortable and don't trust him, then there are plenty of Dr's out there that are fe-male. :-)
2007-10-28 23:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's flirting with you at all. I think you're just reading too much into his comments. Some men just have an out of the ordinary sense of humor and their personalities sometimes strike us as "too friendly", but they really mean no harm. If he makes you feel so uncomfortable, you can always change doctors.
2007-10-28 23:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inappropriate for the doctor-patient relationship. If he had just said it during the consult from across the room, loudly, like, "don't worry, your other one is still ok", probably just joking or such, but to lean over and whisper it...no good. Actually, who cares what he said? Whispering anything to you like that is not appropriate,so I think it's more his behaviour rather than his words that should put up the red flags. Next time take your hubby with you.
2007-10-28 23:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Remember, this guys sees breast and nipples all the time. I think was just trying to put a positive spin on your situation. Sounds like a good Dr. to me.
2007-10-29 00:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, the fact that you posted this indicates that you are very uncomfortable with him so it's obvious to me that he was inappropriate. It's probably in your best interest to find another doctor, don't you think? What if there's something really wrong---he wasn't taking you seriously, was he? Find another doc.
2007-10-28 23:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he was telling you that you are still a sensitive person in side if not on the outside. Doctor humor sucks when they don't just come out with what they mean.
2007-10-28 23:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by shadow of life. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you care? if you are uncomfortable with your doctor, then switch. it sounds to me like you want to know if he is flirting so you can giggle and say "oooh my married doctor is flirting with me." maybe im way off base... but this isnt that complicated. if a doctor acts unprofessionally, then you change doctors. Sounds like common sense to me. Why would it be a sticky situation, unless you are interested in him?
2007-10-28 23:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by missliz_1986 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i were in your shoes i would feel highly uncomfortable. not exactly from the comment, but from the fact that he whispered into your ear. now, you mentioned its a sticky situation, and this indicates that you like the attention from him, and that he can sense that, causing him to react sexually to you
2007-10-29 01:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just joking ! If he wouldn't of leaned over and whispered it which is kinda weird ! It would of been fine. Doctors are weird anyway so i wouldn't worry. But i would change doctors. it's obvious it bothered you.
2007-10-28 23:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfpak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋