Does the ex have issues, rude or have bad manners?
2007-10-28 16:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whats the big deal his a person that was in your life and gathered feelings for you as you did for him...it didn't work out so it ended that doesn't mean, he stop caring for you as a person.
What kind of issues could a person have for taking the time to say Hello...Now it depends on what he wanted also, but you didn't mention any of that sooo...if your asking your wondering and your flattered.
2007-10-28 16:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, does this ex know the woman is married? There are soooooo many other things to consider here. How did it end? How much of an ex is this ? An ex-husband, ex-live-in boyfriend, ex who you only dated a few times? I don't see the problem with getting in touch with someone after a long period of time just to say "Hey, you crossed my mind and I was wondering how you are after all these years." If that happened to me, I would tell him about my husband and kids and probably get the guy's address for my Christmas card list. I wouldn't assume he had any old feelings for me or was rude. The only way it would be a problem is if he was trying to rekindle a romantic relationship even after knowing I'm married.
2007-10-28 23:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by redessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. My ex contacted me after 6 years of divorce (no kids so no need for communication between us) because he had to have me sign a legal contract that wasn't included in the divorce. Nothing shady, just one of the things that got overlooked.
If he's calling to suddenly be nicey-nice, I'd wonder what he's up to. That doesn't mean that she's interested in getting back with him. People are people and some tend to have regrets. Maybe he needed to get some things off his chest. Who knows? You don't really give enough info for an honest discussion.
2007-10-28 23:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fail to see how it is rude at all. Maybe they are just curious if your still living. It is the content of the email/phone call that makes it rude or not. Not the email/phone call itself.
Just be polite and say "Yup, I'm still alive and happily married. Thank you for the concern. Hope all is well with you. Okay then. Bye."
2007-10-28 23:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends... If they weren't that close as friends and the woman has to wonder why he'd bother calling, he probably has issues. If they were really close, didn't talk for 8 years because of awkwardness, and he just wants to renew a good friendship, then that's fine.
2007-10-28 23:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea thats very very rude, the ex might even hv issues but it has been 8 yrs. The point is the ex has no right to call a woman afer she has been married 8 yrs.
2007-10-28 23:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Steph~Devin 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It depends on if the married woman is leading him on or who knows maybe she has,nt yet closed the door all the way on her ex? I mean think about it, it takes two to tango, and why would he after 8 years have her phone number or email address? So dont let this damsel in distress fool you, she is,nt as inocent as she seems.
2007-10-28 23:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by penelope 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No that is not a cool thing to do. Yes, the ex has some issues going on here.
2007-10-28 23:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Nature of mind is like pendullam of watch...Psychological..when you get somthing,in your possesion...your interest looses,as its allready you have won it...then you again want to get somthing...which you have lost...thats a male ego..And we are crowd of many " Is"..whene Ex has left..at that time he must have othere " I " now he has a Diff."I"....Its all trick of mind..If U are not interesting ignore it...
2007-10-29 02:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY rude. the women that has been married for 8 years needs to set boundarys and stick to them and let her hubby know whats up.
2007-10-28 23:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by racheldeos 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋