Marriage & Divorce - 19 October 2007

so, my wife loves doggie style. problem: i weigh almost 200 lbs, (94% muscle and bones, thank you) and i sink down in our bed, and it causes mis-aligning. so we do it on our living room when the kids are in bed... problem is she likes it rough and we get rug burns. (just knees.. her arms and hands are usually resting on the couch). what can i do to minimize the rug burns?

2007-10-19 06:43:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, my uncle keeps making advances towards me, and it's getting really creepy. He says stuff like "wanna go back to my place and have a beer?" and "What are YOU doing tonight?" I'm realy worried, what should I do? I'm to young to drink!

2007-10-19 06:42:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

she keeps beging her mom to buy her thongs, but I am very strict with my two girls and think that she is not setting a good example for her younger sister.

SO what should we do???

2007-10-19 06:36:27 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have fallen in love with my friend, she is married and I am married, I feel like she is just a good friend, no sex involved, just like to hold her hand, I want to take care of her. she loves her husband and I love my wife, however the simple answer is for me to let it go and not hurt anyone, But I feel for her like no other, I just want to hold her and care for her, I think of her day and night, I've told her in a joking way how I feel, and then I tell her I'm sorry for saying it. I think she feels the same for me however she has not just came out and said it. now the final glitch is my youngest child is in college and hers is in grade school, no problem for me however I don't want to hurt the children in anyway. the children really like me, am I way out of line here, she comes over almost everyday to help me after my illness, both our spouses are great people, but I can not stop missing my friend when she's not here. day and night I think of her. I really don't want to let her go.

2007-10-19 06:34:12 · 17 answers · asked by mab 1

a) because you cheated

b) because your marriage ended

c) both

d) neither

2007-10-19 06:29:38 · 27 answers · asked by colebolegooglygooglyhammerhead 6

People look at this question. Is the encyclopedia Jamie got info from true. I see it also on Wikipedia!!! Cause then a lot of people are wrong!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As6G5Ef0jCwBeXFp.rWHVuHz7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20071019101900AAE9ro9

2007-10-19 06:29:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She filed for a simple divorce and she did not want any money. She can get a half of matrimonial home but she didn’t want it for now (she can claim it up to 2 years after divorce) I had 30 days to disagree and file an answer with the court. On 29th days I went to the court and I checked the court copy and I was shocked:
On the court copy she mentioned the reason for filing the divorce: Abuse and control
On the copy she gave me she mentioned: irreconcilable differences

I could easily get a lawyer and accuse her to fraud but I did not, I am not a fighter. I called her and told her what I saw, she said: I made a mistake; I gave the wrong copy to the court. I asked her to show me the Original. She said: we will go to the court together tomorrow and fix it. Next morning I asked her what time we will meet in the court she became angry and screamed at me: I am not self employed like you! I have to go to work and then ask my manager and come, I will give you a call. After 2 hours, I called her at work and realized she never went to her office that morning! She went to the court from home and asked the court clerk to switch the papers!
I talked to the clerk in the court later and she said she made a mistake and she should have checked the documents more carefully…

It is about a month that she wants to find an apartment but she procrastinates. She has a good job (she has a master degree) and can afford moving to another place. She is a control freak, do not trust me and does not believe in family counseling! We went to a counselor and she calls her a shrink and after 2 sessions she refused to come. She told me she is making the situation worst. She has called her and threatened the doctor that leave 2 of us alone (controlling issues). For her it is my way or highway. Her 2 sisters are divorced too. We are married foe a year and a half; I can not enjoy my life when she is around. She is jealous and has a big ego.
What do you think my ex is doing? She served me with a different version of what she filed in the court! (In Toronto you should just give the photocopies to your ex and the original stays with my wife)

2007-10-19 06:28:41 · 15 answers · asked by mazyar m 1

I want to and she doesn't, but I don't know how to get her aroused.

2007-10-19 06:25:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My four year old son's father and I have decided to break up after 11 years of being together. We are not married but we do live together and ever since my son was born he has known all three of us to be together. Now things are changing and I'm not sure exactly what to tell my son. Please help.

2007-10-19 06:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my gf for 6 years. Her age is 29. She is not speaking to me cause she thinks that I have betrayed her trust by what another girl has said. I have been planning to ask for her hand, and all this stuff came up.
She has not spoken to me for almost 6 weeks, but she still reads all my letters and emails, but apparrently she give the flowers that I send to her work every week, away to her co-workers per her friend.

I know that she is upset and this is what upset women do, They want us to chase them, but how long is too long?

I told her 6 years ago that I saw this relationship as a marriage and that there is no way out and whatever problems come up, we will have no choice to work it out. I dont want to give up on her, cause I do want to be with her, but at the same time, I dont want to be a fool.

I always believed if you want to be with someone, you would be with them. You would not make the one you love wait or ignore them.

Need guidance.

2007-10-19 06:12:15 · 36 answers · asked by Tung 2

One of my ex's requests for our divorce that I agreed to was that we keep the house (we go 50-50 on the mortgage) but I have exclusive use w/ our 2 daughters. Yesterday, my boyfriend and I were walking out of my house when my ex drove by and saw us. He went into a rage yelling I disrespected him by having another man into "our" house and that if I want to *uck that I should go to a motel. They got into a screaming match and came pretty close to a scuffle. Long story short, my boyfriend said the "arrangement" was his way of having control over me and this as long as I stayed in it, nothing was going to change. I'm afraid if I sell my house I won't be able to afford one on my own and I really don't want to rent, but I don't want a bad situation to get worse. At the same time, It's also MY house and I pay for 1/2 of the mortage, why can't I have have whoever I want over without all this drama? I am confused and really need advice.

2007-10-19 06:09:17 · 29 answers · asked by Lily 3

I recently married a very rich man but he's a lot older than me and can not satisfy my needs. I did love him when I married him but two months later I am starting to detest him. If I divorce him now can I get some of his money, or do I have to stick it out a while first?

2007-10-19 06:05:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked the following question several days ago and just realized I left out an important piece of information. My question was:

Why would a woman who was just recently married still have feelings of love for the guy she was close to before she got married? If she really wanted the marriage to work, wouldn't she give up thoughts and feelings for the ex and focus totally on her new husband? It's been a year since her and the ex broke up. Her husband doesn't know she still has these feelings for the ex. There's no chance her and the ex will hook up again, so why not give up on him and move on?

What I left out was starting about a month after she got engaged and continuing for the last 10 months (she got married in June), she has continued to call the ex and express her love. So, she is not only still feeling residual love for him, she is contact with the ex and telling him. What do people feel now?

2007-10-19 06:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Tiger 1

If you got divorced and you inherited money before or after the marriage would she take half of it?

2007-10-19 05:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by Surfer J 1

now i know it is perfectly normal for men to fantisize about other women and sleeping with other women, etc...But my question is...how do I as a wife get over feeling inadequate knowing that my husband as a man is always checking out other females when he thinks im not looking? men...do you compare your wives to the thousands of other women you see each day or porn stars? how can i get over this insecurity? i already work out, take care of myself, have a lot of sex, and my husband says he adores me and thinks im out of his league...but still...i cant help but feel insecure knowing that everywhere he goes there will always be someone younger, cuter, sexier...that he will be checking out. any tips on how to deal with this self-destrucive insecurity and feelings of inadequacy?

2007-10-19 05:58:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you state your reasons pls?just for refference.....thanks!....

2007-10-19 05:52:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-19 05:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men feel free to answer also..

2007-10-19 05:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married - have been for 21 years and my wife and I have a great deal of difficulty communicating with each other. We have three kids and basically - until now - they're the sole reason we've stayed together - at least the last five years. I wanted to know if there are other people in the same situation.

I live in central CT. Any local people here?

2007-10-19 05:35:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you rather have an enthusiastic lover or a lover with a great body?
You can't get both or a mix each.
Just pick one and say if you are a man or a woman.

2007-10-19 05:33:33 · 20 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

i have a boyfriend, i love him and we will ge married in few monthes
we don't live in the same country since i moved for a new work one year ago
i met here someone who was a good friend and helped me a lot but recently we had some sex me and him
i didn't want it to happen but it happened
i still love my boyfriend and want to marry him
what should i do? should i tell him about what happened or not?

2007-10-19 05:31:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have become a victim of infidelity after 17 years of a great marriage. I feel like I am slowly dying from the inside out. I despise adultery!! It is a SELFISH act that does permanent damage!

2007-10-19 05:31:40 · 27 answers · asked by North Carolina 2

I understand she missed me while she was away in Japan for two months. My daughter and I missed her too. For the last three nights she's been spooning me and keeps rubbing her face against the back of my neck, touching my face, kissing and nibbling my ears, saying "I missed you" over and over, etc.

It's very sweet, but it makes it very hard for me to fall asleep. She wakes me up about six to eight times a time with the constant touching and snuggling. I have to be up by 5 for work.

How can I tell her without hurting her feelings? Or should I just say nothing?

2007-10-19 05:24:41 · 67 answers · asked by Ras C 1

Why is it, that people PAYING child support, dont realize that you are paying that, to TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN. You think that you can short me every week (you made up your own child support pymt amt, instead are paying 2/3 of what the court ordered you to pay every week. You pay 2/3, but then short me on THOSE payments or dont pay at all some weeks)........ meanwhile your arrearages are becoming more& more........and you want to say that just because you pay me SOMETHING every week, I should be grateful. LIKE I DONT PAY 100% of expensive childcare for both children, lunch money (full price), field trips, shoes, clothes for my house, pullups, monthly meds, ect. LIKE I DONT HAVE EXPENSES because of those kids! I even pay an extra $100/mo on a medical bill that I cannot get your help on, from the birth of one of our children! And why do us mothers still get GRIEF over "expecting a certain amount of child support" every week on a consistant basis.....Ready to screa

2007-10-19 05:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by it'sjustme79 3

I am looking for FREE or inexpensive pre-marital counseling in Texas. Oklahoma has a great site that helps you find places in OK. Texas does not, i have looked.
The problem is we are getting married on the beach in FL. in May and we dont really go a church, so we cant have a pastor do it.....What are my options here?

2007-10-19 05:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by bellesnail 4

I checked his telephone bills without him knowing and found that he is constantly calling two numbers as in more than 7 times a day. he always professes his love to me and that he is always loyal. How should i confront him on this so that he will stop lying? this could be a make or break for us. Should i show him the tel bill as proof?

2007-10-19 05:19:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've asked questions about women and how men see/value them as lovers. It seems that enthusiasm towards sex is the only thing that matters to make a woman a great lover.
Do you agree or disagree?
And why?

2007-10-19 05:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

2007-10-19 05:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

My friend is having an affair with a married man. We are both 22, and he is almost 40 and took her virginities. Sometimes it doesnt bother me, other times it does..what are your feelings on the subject

2007-10-19 05:06:18 · 65 answers · asked by aunt_ning 2

2007-10-19 05:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by Roxane G 1