Marriage & Divorce - 19 October 2007

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2007-10-19 04:55:15 · 16 answers · asked by S 2

Two part question. Is it ok for a wife to buy sexy underwear but not wear them around her husband or even let him know that she has them? Also, if a wife was having problems with orgasm with husband and tried on her own and was successful, is it ok for her not to let the husband know that she was successful in having an orgasm by herself. The husband did not find out until about 7 years later. Mature answers appreciated.

2007-10-19 04:51:11 · 30 answers · asked by M&F 1

we have a week what we don`t have sex so want try something new!!!

2007-10-19 04:48:59 · 14 answers · asked by zorycar16 1

I pay for medical insurance for my kids and child support. should the money from child support pay for dental work?

2007-10-19 04:42:43 · 19 answers · asked by d b 3

I'm 27, he's 26 but he act immature like he's 16. Married 3 years should I play the I don't role when he get in his negative attitudes?

2007-10-19 04:42:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left me for another girl, who is also married . We've been through a lot before he and I got married, because everyone is against us. He was separated with two daughters, that is why. He told me that he doesn't love me anymore and I can't seem to find the reason why? After all that we've been through, then he'll tell me doesn't love me? It's really hard specially my 3 year old son is always looking for him. And my 1 year old daughter won't even know him. I still love him, and I still hope and pray that we'll still be together. And I know for myself that I can forgive and accept all the things that he has done, that's how I love him.

2007-10-19 04:38:47 · 41 answers · asked by revengemama 1

Here's the situation...My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now. We live together. We love eachother very much. I know I've never felt like this toward anyone ever before. I feel like I need him and I would die without him, and he says he feels the same way. The problem is that we are both VERY hard-headed and we both always have to be right. And neither of us like to be told what to do. This causes many fights. Almost daily!! I am usually the one to give in, and apologize even when I didn't do anything wrong...just to get him to pull the stick out. Every fight ends up being huge...like we are ready to end our relationship. The hard part is that when we aren't fighting, it's pure bliss. I've never been happier with anyone. And he is a great dad to my daughter, who lost her biological father years ago. Does anyone have any advice on how to make getting along easier? I absolutely want to make this work with him, because I love him more than life itself.

2007-10-19 04:33:52 · 7 answers · asked by Nicole G 1

2007-10-19 04:32:29 · 26 answers · asked by suzan 1

For seven years I toughed it out. I wanted the best for our baby so I moved in with him. He never asked me to marry him so I had to decide whether I should leave or ask him to marry me... We got married in 2005 and everything went smoothly. I figured if we bought a house, I'd be happy.. We bought the house but still something was missing. So I figured maybe we should have more children. We tried for the past year and a half. .. A few months ago we got pregnant but I miscarried around the 8th week. That was such a difficult time. Things are ok right now. I love him still, he's my best friend.. but I'm unhappy. I don't think I want to be married anymore. I'm not the same person I used to be. I had to make a lot of sacrifices and plenty of compromises to make our lives together work. He doesn't know anything's wrong. But I've been crying a lot. If I stay I'll remain miserable. but if I leave, I'll be breaking up our family. I don't want to make life hard for our 6 yr old

2007-10-19 04:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-19 04:30:46 · 16 answers · asked by SOPHIA L 1

okay, it's not as bad as it sounds. my wife found an old picture CD from the pc that her ex husband kept from the divorce.
she said i can look at them... so i did when she wasn't around. in one folder, there were some pics of her being screwed by her ex. i actually laughed... do i let my wifie know that i've seen the pics?

2007-10-19 04:26:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a stay at home mom...for 10 years...he says we can split custody of the kids 50/50...he wont have to pay child support...and i will have to pay him alimony....because i will be ordered by a judge to get a job...can he do that?

2007-10-19 04:20:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought my wife an engagement ring before she deployed overseas with NG two years ago. I couldn't afford one when we got married, so I saved up for a couple of years to make it special. I gave it to her for Mother's day (2005) and she deployed in October 2005. While she was deployed, she was having affairs with 2 men, one of whom was married.

I have since filed for divorce, gained custody of our daughter and moved out state. My wife would bring our daughter to stay with one of the men (on the pretense they were at the beach) and I took an opportunity to finish grad school and work around family.

Money is much tighter these days and I don't think the ring really meant anything to her (we stopped having sex within weeks of me giving it to her and she was having an affair within months of me giving her this ring). Am I right to ask for it back? Do I have any justification in doing so? In addition to the money that would help us, I feel betrayed by this woman. Thanks.

2007-10-19 04:19:01 · 32 answers · asked by Tri-Guy 2003 2

Would that interest you?

2007-10-19 04:14:27 · 49 answers · asked by JMD29 1

What would you say or do?

2007-10-19 04:11:05 · 16 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4

Thanks for your compassion and advice.

2007-10-19 03:51:39 · 16 answers · asked by keefbeef 3

Is it easier to talk to an internet stranger where you can talk about your problems with your llife,work,or your relationships at home. When is the line crossed?

2007-10-19 03:09:34 · 14 answers · asked by Little Bear 1

I'm married to my husband for about 8 years now, I just talk to my mother on the phone last night, she still hasn't seemed to be approve our marriage.
I was stuck in an arrange marriage, 8 years ago. My parents want to married me off to their best friend's son, but anyways I eloped with my husband instead, since we really loved each other. She said she had never forgiven my betrayal since, she behaved this way in front of my husband and innocent son. My father said infront of my husband many times, that he just earned him self a cash cow( I just graduated from my program) and when we got pregnant, I called my parents, the first thing she said is go get an abortion- she think I would worth more, if I don't have a baggage after I divorced him.
I so sick and tired of their cruel comments, but I can't dump them because they're my biological parents and my son is growing up around this cr*p what should I do?

2007-10-19 03:08:26 · 28 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

I am not judging anyones opinions or answers. Just a thought and to see what others think. When YA askers have a problem in a relationship it seems vast numer of people tell them to immediately get a divorce. Isn't this contributing to the divorce rate and showing the mindset in our society. I am not talking about physically abusive relationships. What do you think?

2007-10-19 02:48:53 · 28 answers · asked by pussycat 5

and there is no will, how does the property transfer?

2007-10-19 02:48:33 · 11 answers · asked by sklemetti 3

My husband was a controlling man & had a very nasty temper if things didn't go his way.

As a result we separated.

While living on my own, I got a lot of emotional support from some family friends of ours - a wonderful couple who lived just down the road from us. All along, my husband didn't know about this.

Things between my husband & I were slowly getting better over these past few months. Till yesterday, he found out about that I had been speaking to this couple!

Being the private person he is, he was furious. He said - if you and I are live together again, I don't want you ever talking to them & they are not welcome at our house either.

I chose my friendship with them because I said they helped me. He didn't say a word & just left.

For the first time in my life I was able to stand up to him. I hope he will change & begin to respect my feelings too.

Am I being realistic by hoping for this, or will this end in a divorce?

2007-10-19 02:47:05 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 2

My husband and his best male friend are both married but have recently become close with a third single female friend. They go out together, eat lunch together blah blah blah. My husband has been emailing and texting her more and more. My question is......is it normal for a single female to bond with two married men without having other intentions? I have never heard of this and I know would never have done it back when I was single. I trust my husband, but should I trust her?

2007-10-19 02:45:42 · 28 answers · asked by Mystery 1

I wondered how a Christain would support counsellors mainly... I mean i think they could give a donation seeing as most counselers are volunteers but is this really helpful? How else do they help, and do most christians still believe Marraige is of high importance???Thankyou! Can you volounteer??

2007-10-19 02:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been best friends with my sister-in-law pretty much all my life and it was through me that she met and married my brother. They were married for 15 years and split up last year (infidelity on her part). My brother is totally incensed with rage that I still keep in touch with her.

Our friendship is, and never will be, the same as it was. We don't talk regularly, maybe once a month and haven't been out together since the split.

I think we should try to keep things as 'normal' as possible as there are children involved. She took my daughter to see a movie last week and my brother is really angry with me, he said a lot of terrible things. He has been so hurt by what happened and he wants me to hate her as much as he does. But I don't.

2007-10-19 02:32:21 · 22 answers · asked by SuperAlly 1

2007-10-19 02:30:19 · 50 answers · asked by evelyn i 1

one should normally know what is normal happy for them! (assumed)

2007-10-19 02:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by leo2306 1

My friends and I were talking about marriage and having kids, we're all seniors and will be graduating soon from college. I honestly think that it depends for each person when the right time for marriage is, and for me its seriously going to be a long time before that happens. But my friend said he plans on getting married after 2 years, and it struck me weird that they were so serious about getting married so early. What do you guys think?

2007-10-19 02:24:59 · 17 answers · asked by Daphne 2

okay here it goes. my x husband hasnt paid child support in over 14 years. any time i do get money i have to have him locked up for non payment then the bail money goes to me.. i have a lawyer but the problem is he doesnt work on the table and i dont know where he works.. we had a court date this past aug and he didn t show and now a warrent is out for him. i was told he moved by someone who knows him. he hasnt had any contact with his family or my children since he was locked up. how do i find someone who doesnt work on the books and make him pay child support? by the way his family i was very close with and have helped me in the past with having his locked up.. pretty sad i know but they are upset with him. the warrent officer told me its ging to be pretty hard to find him. i just dont know what to do.. what a dead beat!!! any help?

2007-10-19 02:17:23 · 22 answers · asked by sue s 2

My ex husband has been dating a woman and she has recently moved in with him after knowing her for about 5 weeks. My son lives with him and while I was there to pick up my son for an outing, he seemed very tense and was quite abrupt and short with me while i was there. If i call the house and his new girlfriend is there, I can tell straight away, he is quite rude to me. We have been divorced for over 4 years, I have been remarried for almost 4 years and have a child to my new husband. When i went to drop my son off to his house, his girlfriend wasn't there and he was friendly, relaxed and quite talkative toward me. I don't understand why? Why does he seem so defensive?? We have been getting along really well since this new woman came into his life. Does he think I will jeopardise his new relationship in some way? His girlfriend is a lovely lady and has kids of her own. It makes me feel very uncomfortable. I just don't get it!

2007-10-19 02:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by leolady0765 4

my one time good friend Chelsey,(not real name) who is my ex wife's best friend and was her paralegal during the divorce isn't dead yet but docs say within 3 months. We were good friends, but had pretty bad falling out during the divorce. When she dies, do i go to the funeral and face all my ex's family? my ex wife and i don't talk. she's bitter, not about the divorce, but how well i bounced back after being dumped. I'm happily married with a child now. Do i bring my wife and the baby? would that seem like i'm rubbing it in?

2007-10-19 02:16:23 · 25 answers · asked by James 2