I want to and she doesn't, but I don't know how to get her aroused.
2007-10-19 06:25:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A few drinks always seems to help, but not too much, she will pass out!
2007-10-19 06:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
start slowly. don't let her know you're trying to arouse her. then kiss her a little, then a little more, then start rubbing in places like her side and back. be sure to let her know that you find her desirable. hopefully this slow start method will work for you. i think the most important thing is the desirable part. no woman wants to have sex unless she feels sexy.
2007-10-19 13:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Heather Honey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women control our access to sex.
As long as she doesn't want to, NOTHING YOU DO will ever "make her ready."
Do not for ONE SECOND believe all these "buy her flowers, talk to her, rub her shoulders" people. They have NO CLUE what they are talking about.
Women who don't like or want sex spend their whole lives not wanting or liking sex (all of the red hot nymphos here on Yahoo to the contrary). Any little surface treatment isn't going to change that.
You know what you do? YOU LEARN TO STOP PESTERING HER AND DEAL WITH IT BECAUSE IT ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE.
2007-10-19 15:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
start way before, cook her dinner pamper her and she will end up doing the seducing. Learn from her we are all different, but don't like my husband does keep doing the same thing getting nowhere and wonder why??? Buy her something sexy to wear.
2007-10-19 13:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by kd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bathe together, shampoo her hair, suck her toes, cuddle while watching the movie she chooses and don't laugh at her if she cries, help out around the house, ... most important don't make her feel like any of these things has to lead to sex - and mean it.
2007-10-19 13:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have found through personal experience if you ply them with copious amounts of alcohol and lying through your teeth(how lovely their hair,slim,fun to be with,easy to talk to)sort of cr@p just anything they want to hear..and eh try to look interested like you care or something
2007-10-19 19:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Money usually works for most men.
2007-10-20 04:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. women are different. be patient and observe what turns her on. talk to her about it. find out if there is another reason she doesnt want to besides not being in the mood.
2007-10-19 13:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by bakerchris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's alot that get's me aroused but I'm not telling.
2007-10-19 13:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by Gone 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Dude, no is no. Trying after she says no is a quick road to singledom.
Did it occur to ask why she doesn't want to?
2007-10-19 13:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by heathrydge 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋