Marriage & Divorce - 29 September 2007

2007-09-29 14:17:42 · 21 answers · asked by worknmomma 1

If a bunch of married gals went out on the town for the weekend and one of them spent the nite with a guy she met, would you tell her husband or your own husband?
Would you still b friends with her?

2007-09-29 14:13:10 · 22 answers · asked by Azul 2

where he has been. He tells me I am crazy but the feelings are so strong.

2007-09-29 14:05:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think about this quote?

2007-09-29 14:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by shabana b 1

If you could have a woman that was abosolutely perfect in every way for you, what would she be like? Physical features, morals, what kind of things would she do to make you happy? I want to be the "trophy wife" and I think I am getting close but I need some input from other men so I can try to be even better. (My husband loves me and all, but he works so hard and is so wonderful, I just want to live up to my potential and I know there are more ways I can improve). Thank you and God Bless :)

2007-09-29 13:43:57 · 16 answers · asked by ilovemyssgt 3

I have been divorced for seven months now. I have not kept in contact with my exhusband. Recently i got an email from him but i dont know how he got my email address. He emailed that he wanted to speak with me but did not want to give his number. i am not sure whether to respond or not. Any ideas as to why he is doing this?

2007-09-29 13:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-09-29 13:39:10 · 12 answers · asked by paula c 2

I am a hardworking mother of 3 children and at least I think a happy and stable marriage. The problem is my husband seems to want sex all the time and even though I want to consider his feelings and his needs I'm never in the mood for him. I even heard him tell his friend he think I'm cheating is this normal? Am I really selfish?

2007-09-29 13:25:04 · 25 answers · asked by LiLAnGeL 2

Do you think that a 28yr old and a 49yr old are too far apart in age to get married?

2007-09-29 13:19:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

the key to having a successful marriage?

2007-09-29 13:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6

I shouldn't listen to what others say but the other day this cabbie said woman's "main" role was to make babies. I wanted to smash his face in. I do want to get married (again) but I want to spend that time with my husabnd & not have to share it. I want us to have fun & travel to places some of which are not meant for kids. I have also seen how hard it is on single or married moms I do know also. Maybe it's a good thing I realize I wouldn't be a good mom before having kids?

Also I suffer from a borderline personality disorder & it can be hereditary & I wouldn't want a child of mine to suffer 1/2 what I have.

2007-09-29 13:17:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-29 13:04:46 · 30 answers · asked by Kim D 1

We've been together for almost 3 years now, but due to studies we are living in different cities and can meet only once in 3-4 weeks. Yet we talk every day, a lot, and usually describe in detail how our day was/ what we are going to do during the day. Esp abt going-outs we inform each other in advance (i.e. not just before the going-out happens, so that the other has time to arrange sth too).
Two days ago I called, only to be told he's just going out (returned past midnight). What was worse was that this week he's been very busy due to studies and didn't spend almost any time with me. After agreeing he was wrong (which doesn't happen too often), comes today. He tells me he's going out shopping for something at 2pm, now its 2 am and he hasn't returned, and doesn't pick up his mobile.....
How should I react?

2007-09-29 13:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do. He does the SAME THING every time....same position, etc. and it's wham, bam, thank you ma'am! Plus, the only time he ever wants sex is first thing in the morning, when I'm half asleep. Most of the time I just give in so he'll leave me the hell alone.
How do you change your sex life when the other party involved refuses to change AT ALL??

2007-09-29 12:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

So, I have been with my fiancee now for eight years, enagaged for two years. We are now both 25, living together since we were 20. He works full time, im in school full time, I start medical school in 2009. We want to get married the end of next year (Dec. 08). We have postponed the wedding once due to my graduation status, and now we have pressure from one side of the family to postpone it again. This side think because we don't make enough money and tend to stuggle finacially sometimes we should wait. The thing is we have yet to have a fight over money. We have shared bank accounts since we were 19 and money has never been an issue. We love each other very much, trust each other and are incredibly supportive of each other. We barely argue and if we do, its usually becuase I'm personally looking for a fight. Why should we postpone it? Is it a good reason to pospone because well were kind poor?What do I do? Get married without parents support? Thanks for your imput.

2007-09-29 12:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a relationship with a married man and I need advice I love him.

2007-09-29 12:24:28 · 21 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1

How do you know if a married is flirting innocently or not? What are some behaviors that indicate wanting an affair, versus just finding someone attractive?

2007-09-29 11:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has cheated on me b4 and he told me stright up with the whole tears and im sorries. But recently I have had this gut feeling that he is hiding something from me.. Now he is working latew, or coming home smelling like perfume or whatever but he tends to sneak online after i fall asleep and just finds little things to argue about to get on the computer. Everytime I question him he turns it back on me like im doing something wrong "too" but he never is specific. He never cuddles with me unless it leads into having sex; im pregnant and i mean im so close to the end where im not in the mood to have sex, and he blows his top over that. He isnt affectionate anymore and he always wants to go somewhere by himself for 12 hours or more...like to the city his brother lives in...but i mean for 12 hours????? As soon as he comes from work he hops online; no kiss, no hug and always short toned with me when i talk to him!! HELP>!?!? am i insecure or are those some signs of him cheating again

2007-09-29 11:47:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

10 years ago, I fell in love with a friend. We became very close and I knew he was my soul mate. Because he was accepted into an academic program, he moved thousands of miles away and we never had a chance to be more . We have kept in constant contact since then, and the feelings have only grown. I have been involved in another relationship off and on for the last 4 years. The new relationship started off with many problems due to a drinking problem. 2x I left my partner because of problems, and both times visited my friend/soul mate. My friend/soul mate still wasn't ready for a commitment and wasn't sure he wanted children. My partner dealt with his addiction, and we got back together. Soul mate has since come to a place where he's ready to be married and says he is grieving the missed opportunity with me. Things with partner are million times better than in past, but the feelings have never matched those had for soul mate. Tried cutting ties with soul mate. Feelings persist. Do I go?

2007-09-29 11:47:26 · 15 answers · asked by Heidi 1

I hear this a lot... sometimes when someone hates someone with such a passion... they may secretly love them but can't do anything about it? or something? I read this a lot.. thin line between love and hate.

Well what do you think?

2007-09-29 11:41:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm having a hard time with this. My husband and children hate each other. None of them has any respect for the others. My children, whom I love dearly, but can be very disrespectful much of the time, want me to divorce my husband because he's mean to them (said children are 17 and 19). I love my husband and don't want to divorce him, but if I don't I may lose my children forever. I see this as a King Solomon like decision. I have come up with two different plans: first, just disappear and not let any of them know where I am or, second, end the feud by ending my life. I would prefer insight from others on this site. If you feel you MUST insult me, go somewhere else.

2007-09-29 11:32:38 · 13 answers · asked by *{luna}* 2

ok so I have been having an affair with this asshole, he talks crap to me for stupid reasons, all the time when he gets dri\unk, he leaves me like 11 voice mails in a row all saying the same thing..just annoying! But Iam married, I have 2 little ones a cool hubby, WHAT IS MAKING ME STILL WANT TO TALK TO THIS CREEP? He ismy ex boyfriend from about 10 years ago! He is cool when he is sobar, he just has a total different life style then me. What is my problem? He used to get on my nerves before, but for some reason this time, iam attatched to him and I cannot figure out why!!! Can some one help please!>!?!?!?

2007-09-29 11:27:36 · 34 answers · asked by Tina M 1

If you had the opportunity to do this without your spouse ever knowing, would you or would not and why?

2007-09-29 11:27:10 · 23 answers · asked by Loving.You 4

I have been married for 11 years and have a 5 year old girl. I just recently (This Week) found a text message from some girl telling him she loves him. I confronted him. He says it was a mistake and a stupid game on his part. He wanted to see if he still had "it". And wanted someone to talk to.... Now me and him work and live together and honestly we have about 2 hrs of free time a day. so when he tells me the relationship was completely over the phone, and she was just his "Emotional friend" I believe that... But, it doesn't make it hurt any less. Sometimes I think it would have been easier if he just screwed some random girl than to have invested what little time we have together in a relationship like this. He called her in front of me and broke it off like it was nothing. He's begging me to forgive him and not leave. He says he will never do it again. I am so confused. Could he have just made a mistake? How do you know? I feel like a fool. Should I go just go? God, how do I know?

2007-09-29 11:15:52 · 16 answers · asked by candlastic 1

I am a 20 year old woman and it seems that now-a-days guys expect a girl to be sexually involved once they are in a relationship. It's just not for me. I realized that guys these days don't tend to respect the girls they go out with if they are sexually involved which I think its truly messed up and I'm not trying to fall into that trap. I refused to be used and abused by any guy.

2007-09-29 11:04:37 · 18 answers · asked by . 3

I am a 35 year old unhappily married mother of 2. I have been having an online affair with a 23 year old man. He's in his last year of college and he's an athlete so he's very busy. Our relationship started out as just friendly chats, then it became more sexually explicit. It progressed to web camming and sending dirty pics and videos etc. This went on for a few months and we finally decided to meet. We had a great time and we ended up having intense, mind blowing sex( 4 times in 1 night!). That was two weeks ago. We then said we would be friends with benefits while we're both handling our own lives and go from there day by day.
The problem is our communication has lessened and he finally told me he doesn't know if he can handle all of this right now emotionally. He thinks i'm beautiful and a great person, but he thinks we should be friends without the sex for awhile even though it was wonderful. he says he's worried about my husband finding out and how attached we seem to be and

2007-09-29 10:54:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I serious would like to know if you ladies think I'm attractive or not. Here's a link to a pic of me. http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=62089952&albumID=0&imageID=4560165

The reason I ask is because I honestly do not believe so. Yes I am married but I would like some honest answers from everyone. Another reason is that I no longer feel I'm attractive to the wife. I just don't get that feeling from her anymore.
But the only place I can show this pic is on myspace. And no, I'm not doing this to see who goes and see. I just don't know any other method pf putting the pic online by itself somewhere. Thanks.

2007-09-29 10:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by E_ddie56 3

First question: Do you think cheating on your gf/wife is OK?

Second question: Would you cheat or have you cheated?

2007-09-29 10:45:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

she moved in with me about 8years ago,when we found out that she was pregnant ,after 6mths or so i lost my job which i loved and had excelled in prior to this relationship,as she refused to work as she believed the mother should bring up the children not a minder,therefore worked in my own time for another company to raise the extra funds required,this lated for approx 6 mnths things were great ,then fatigue kicked in working 16 hrs some days ,returning home in the early hrs only to find that my bed was taken up by her and the baby and had the option of the floor or the sofa,after eating my evening meal which i used to stop and buy on the way home as she cant cook,or doesn't know how to ? i,would return to the house and the telly would be left on! the heating on full belt, no washing or ironing had been done for next day? no cleaning or hoovering ,dusting or mopping,! sink full of pots !she still does as she did then Watches TV all day!

2007-09-29 10:32:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

here's the deal. my wife was very insecure. anything i said about anybody like for example we were watching a movie and i said "they should have had the other acrtress play the roll i think she's more attractive" my wife freaked over stuff like that. it was just innocent stuff like that. i told her all the time she was the love of my life, did little romantic things for her. nothing was ever good enough. if i failed to be there for her in the smallest way, she freaked and said i didn't love her. i tried my best but it was like a constant test. then one time i guess i failed one too many of these tests. now she seems done with me. her mom once told me "she'll cut you out of her life in a second if you're not careful". guess what happened but i didn't do anything horrendous. it was like she was waiting for me to fail her in the smallest way. what to do? i think she's done with me but i still love her but can't be under a constant test anymore.

2007-09-29 10:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by survivor 1