If you had the opportunity to do this without your spouse ever knowing, would you or would not and why?
2007-09-29 11:27:10 · 23 answers · asked by Loving.You 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, I wouldnt bc like racer said I would know, and thats too much already. It wouldnt be right, whether my wife knew or she didnt know.
2007-09-29 11:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by kenny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your answers are going to be telling of the kinds of marriages people have. I cheated on my husband because I wasn't happy in the marriage and felt very alone, and after 9 years of waiting for it to get better, I reached a breaking point. I'm not proud of it, but it was a wake-up call that I couldn't stay married anymore.
If I were in love with my spouse, I wouldn't want to cheat, even if I could get away with it. What for?
2007-09-29 11:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Whether or not you cheat is not simply about being caught. If that's the only thing holding you back, it's time to break up and let her/him move on. I have had opportunities that could never have been found out, but I love my wife, and could not do it.
2007-09-29 11:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't cheat even if there were no chance of being found out, because i would know and it would destroy me inside. because most everyone has a conscience and when u do wrong it has a way of coming back to u in some way. also u made a commitment to your spouse and in front of god, and when we get out of god's will for our lives, it can hurt us in many ways. plus its a moral issue, and what one does shows their character.different people would do things differently just depends on what one values in life and what one wishes to invest in.
2007-09-29 12:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, cheating destroys a part of you they can never be fixed.
I do admit though I had two knock out chicks who wanted to have sex with me during my first marriage, and I did not. When my wife left me I felt ripped off since I was faithfull!
2007-09-29 11:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by fin73 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. It's not the fact whether my partner would or wouldn't know, it's the fact that I would know. I have morals, values and self respect. All of those would go right down the toilet if I had an affair.
2007-09-29 13:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No Way! Even if my spouse never knew, I would and so would God.
2007-10-03 12:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by tygres74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.I was cheated on and i think cheaters are very weak minded immature insecure selfish people who need to get down on thier knees and beg our father[god]for forgivness.If they know the meaning.
2007-09-29 11:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by lollypop 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheated on my husband.... no matter what.
If I don't feel happy in some how... I will talk to him and we'll share what problems we have. Trust me it works and you fell happy each others.
2007-09-29 12:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by blueice 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOOO!! Its till death do you part. I am committed and could never bring myself to do something like that EVEN if he would never find out. Plus I would never want to have sex with anyone else!
2007-09-29 12:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋