I am a 20 year old woman and it seems that now-a-days guys expect a girl to be sexually involved once they are in a relationship. It's just not for me. I realized that guys these days don't tend to respect the girls they go out with if they are sexually involved which I think its truly messed up and I'm not trying to fall into that trap. I refused to be used and abused by any guy.
2007-09-29 11:04:37 · 18 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be sexually involved in a relationship. Maybe if more people were there would be fewer unwanted pregnancies, fewer unwanted children, fewer marriages because the woman is pregnant and therefore fewer divorces. Maybe if people waited until they actually got to know the person they are having sex with they would be able to make better informed sexual decisions.
2007-09-29 13:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong if you do'nt like it.
Most guys do tend to have zero respect for a girl who puts out too quickly.
I think it's nice getting to know someone at first and then letting that happen later.
There is nothing wrong with sex, it's just so much better when you're on "that level."
2007-09-29 11:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are blessed with wisdom and intelligence.Stay in that mind set.I don't think boys are being taught like some girls.It seems that some parents are to worried about the daughters that they don't teach thier sons on how to treat a female.I teach my son as well as my daughter.Thier dad was an abusive husband.So i'm making darn sure my boy won't grow up like that.
2007-09-29 11:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by lollypop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very specific on the first date that you don't believe in have sex until you are married. If they don't want to have another date after that one, then you know what they were after. A guy that is good husband material will understand your statement and respect you for it.
2007-09-29 11:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can I get an Amen sister? You are preaching more than asking a question. Do what you want and feel comfortable with, just don't look down on people that don't think the same way you do.
2007-09-29 11:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Fall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not anything wrong with that. have sex when you are ready. it is a good thing that you are mature enough to realize this. If you tell a guy that you aren't ready to have sex yet and he stops talking to you then he wasn't there because he like you anyways. wait a while and you will find some one who loves you for who you are not just your body.
2007-09-29 12:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by I need a time out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY someone with morals!! Stay true to yourself, you will gain respect in the long run.
When I was dating I wanted to see just how ready the girl was to jump in bed. If she was quick our relationship didn't last long. My second marriage, we did not sleet together until we were married, best thing we ever did.
2007-09-29 11:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Atheist 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong if you're single. That is the way that two animals test for compatibility.
Now, once married, then No, there's nothing wrong per se, from the woman's POV.
2007-09-29 21:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU!
No, there is nothing wrong with your point of view. It is counter-hedonistic, and we need more young women to step up and join you.
The guys will hate me for saying this, because what I'm suggesting is that they have to exercise some control and restraint, like their grandfather's did, nd deny themselves some pleasures until he time is appropriate!
2007-09-29 11:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it at all. I didnt have sex until I was married and neither did my husband. You choose whats right for you and a man who respects you and loves you will wait as long as it takes.
2007-09-29 11:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋