Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2007

2007-08-24 09:16:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Stagnation breeds temptation is a very good saying.
Oh, and for the smart a** , there's always atleast one of them =) I have morals so don't waste your time with the swinging and 3some BS.

2007-08-24 09:15:30 · 4 answers · asked by blessed1 4

If you move back in with your babys father to work on your family and relationship does the father who is paying child support have to stop? We live in Mo and i cannt find the answer so any help is wanted..thanks

2007-08-24 09:12:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is chatting online or texting is consider cheating? Have you? And why did u?

2007-08-24 09:10:55 · 14 answers · asked by Esperanza 3

I just found out over the phone that the love of my life could be pregnant and would be really greatful to have a child with her.
I have been with her since December and never really had any problems with her.

But, the problem like i said is not her but her FAMILY..yes FAMILY! They have never liked me and most of the time conceited and rude.

They LOVE her X-HUSBAND very much tot he point of non-stop comparison but, the problem is I have a way better job, make more money, and IVY league educated.

Now, her mother and sister called me up and started telling me that I am incompetent to become a father. That I have no right having a child. Well, they went on and on with name calling while I kept myself quiet like I always did.

Finally, after all the stress and pressure that I received today. I called both of them "COWS" to go catch a train...head on! Then hung up the phone!

1.) Did I do the right thing after months of silence?
2.) am I going to be introuble with my gf?

2007-08-24 09:10:24 · 11 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2

Just the top 10 please

2007-08-24 09:10:13 · 14 answers · asked by chansangel 1

You know "the grass is greener on the other side". Ive been married almost a year and together 2 altogether.. I love my husband but for some reason now that im married there are so many great and attractive guys around.. And there are 2 in particular that i wanted before i got married that are now available and want me!!! But since high school my husband has always been verrry popular with girls and is still very wanted. I just wonder now that ive got a good thing why do i want other options? Anyone else feel this way?

2007-08-24 09:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife took two years off of work, after we adopted two children. We worked very hard to help them get through their problems and they are doing great. However, the kids are now in the first and 2nd grades, and she said that she has not been very happy staying at home, and would like to contribute to the family more. I was thinking to myself that she does most of the cooking, cleaning, and watching the kids. I make a good income, and she does not need to work, but she feels like she needs to. Why wouldnt you think that doing all this is not contributing to the family? I remember birthdays, aniversaries, and do special things for her. I take her on dates and work very hard on our relationship, and just want to understand.

2007-08-24 09:06:18 · 38 answers · asked by Qyllix 5

My hubby is in Iraq,and his almost home,and we have had some bad times in the past(nothing too serious),but since he is very sensetive he cant seem to get over it..its been a long time,and i have tried to makeup all that went wrong since then...ive been trying to hard to earn his trust,but he still doesnt trust me,and its soo hard becuase he is in Iraq,and he feels Very insecure at times,and he always brings the past up.What else can i do now?..I have forgave him for the past,but he just cant get over it.he is in Iraq..what can i do??? when he calls he asks too many Q's,and it makes me feel like why are we together if he cant get over the past.We have known eachother for 10 years.married for 3.Will he ever get over the past??? pls help.

2007-08-24 09:05:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think this is so weird, especially from the under 20 age group. A couple have a kid together but when asked if they will get married say no coz it is too much of a commitment!!!!! You have a CHILD together for goodness sake, how can you say about too much commitment when you have something more special??!! I HATE this attitude!!!

2007-08-24 08:58:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

she started seeing this person from the begining of our separartion, that is the reason i think she left. We had our problems like any other marriage but i didnt think it would go this far. I never cheated on my wife and I had all the trust in the world in her. She says that the reason she was not because of him, which I dont beleive. So through out our separation she was still seeing this person, so I told her that if she is happy with that person to go with him and do the divorce, I told her that I havent done the divorce because I never wanted this, since she is the one that left she should do it, but she wont. She says that she wants to get along with me right now, but I told her that either way we will because we have a beautiful child togehter. I still love her, but I think she is afraid of divorce because she knows everything will change, she finds any excuse to call me and even invites me to go out with her, so what does she really want?

2007-08-24 08:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by Pete 1

2007-08-24 08:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by mettle_lady 1

The ex started dating (online) weeks after starting our seperation.She seems happy. Why do they say to wait, get to know yourself agin. Can you date during and after transistion. We were married 13 years have 3 kids

2007-08-24 08:38:15 · 9 answers · asked by Steven K 2

2007-08-24 08:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by somesome 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs. I'm wanting a committed relationship (marriage & family) while he has never felt ready to commit- wanting more life experience, freedom, sexual experience- although he has been faithful and loves me. I'm 34, he's 27- we're in different stages of life. I am almost 4 months pregnant with his child, I don't want to be a single mom. He told me that if it weren't for the child he would choose his freedom over the relationship, however, he has agreed to live with me and co-parent and try to work out the relationship to the best of his ability. He has mixed feelings about the relationship, and he wants space to feel his anger, depression, fantasies about other women, etc. Am I holding onto a romantic ideal of wanting an affectionate, loving, committed partnership- is this expecting too much in this situation? We do love & care for each other, yet I understand how he feels life pushed him into this- Can this story have a happy ending?

2007-08-24 08:35:19 · 31 answers · asked by oceanlotus108 2

it seems like infidelity is everywhere. every book i read, movie i watch or people i know seems like there is cheating going on everywhere i look. as a newlywed with problems already how is one to have any hope for a faithful marriage in these times???

2007-08-24 08:34:58 · 10 answers · asked by questiongurl 2

I don't even just like more than one guy at a time, If I like someone I like them for a long time. If I go out with someone, I don't even look at other guys. But my friends are into dating multiple people you know? I can't do that period.

2007-08-24 08:28:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always had dreams of travel, helping others, and doing things to make life seem more worthwhile. But my wife wants the traditional house, car, and much $$$$. These things don't matter much to me. I understand you need money to get things, but it's not one of my priorities. I have a good job and make a better that average salary. The only reason i don't quit is because it pays well, but I feel empty and my life feels so pointless. My wife says I'm a dreamer and spends (our/mostly my) money on things and we already have enough sh**t already! I don't want to be rich, just comfortable and happy. Our different spending habits are causing LOTS of friction. Any answers? Thnaks.

2007-08-24 08:26:17 · 5 answers · asked by Nash M 1

I love him dearly, we are not married, he is still not ready for that. But I have a problem? There is this guy who fixes our cars for the company that I work for he is so fine, I told him this, and that I would love to run away with him, he said his wife would not like that, yet he told her what I said and she laughed and asked him if he asked me if I wanted the oil changed on the car. he told her that I come in with our cars all the time. she does not seem to have a problem with him flirting. What do I do when I am around him I get butterflies in my stomach, have not had that feeling in a long time!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-24 08:25:47 · 48 answers · asked by tabbycat3840 1

I'm one of those persons who thinks you should respect your partner & there property but what happens when you get married is all boundries lost.

I remember passwords so easy but I never used them to check up on things until... Things started going down hill in the trust department. He would accuse me of cheating by checking phone statement calling every number that was not familier, checking e-mails & other accounts and my drawers my pursue. It was so extreme I had to put a stop to it by getting even and doing the same to him he sweard he had nothing to hide.

It was true for a while then I found out he was talking to other girls thru e-mail. I confronted him said he has never meet them and was not planning to. Then he got upset and wanted to leave me I said go ahead i'm not going to be played like a fool. (Never left) but now a year later just out of curiosity I checked his account and he was chating w/someone(not sure if girl or guy) Should I be alarmed or let it go?

2007-08-24 08:10:33 · 34 answers · asked by Whoa!! 3

Kissing keeps the heart young*.

2007-08-24 08:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

my parents are 6 years apart too..and i met a couple that was 16 year apart. is this bad?

2007-08-24 08:03:56 · 10 answers · asked by Kaileigh 1

I'm asking because I filed for one against my husband I'm only 19..I didn't realize it was such a serious matter, at the time I was scared. How can I get out of it? I already have a court date set and everything and I really don't want to go. What happens in court?..If I do get it dropped will I still have to go to court?

Pls can someone help

2007-08-24 07:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by T. MiLANi 2

I told my wife that I had cheated on her and that my girlfriend is pregnant. My wife was mad and hurt when I told her. My girlfriend wants me to leave my wife and be with her. I love both women and I will definitely be there for both of my children. I want to be there for both women. You have no idea how much I love them.

2007-08-24 07:54:10 · 31 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2

y do men think its fine to treat women like a bit of sxxt ?

2007-08-24 07:33:02 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were never married and have no custody agreement in place. I do pay child support, but she doesn't allow me to see him often, she withholds him from me because i am now in another relationship and had another child. Any legal options?

2007-08-24 07:17:28 · 14 answers · asked by Ricky 1

2007-08-24 07:10:54 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a woman (friend) who has a very evident crush and fixation on me , she has openly stated her sexual intentions to myself and to our friends....the trouble is i am married , and our friend (she) is fully aware of this as well...she does not seem to mind of my marital status...how do i persuade her to relize that i am devoted to my wife and wish she would stop placing me in these un-easy situations with out hurting her feelings ?

2007-08-24 07:05:19 · 27 answers · asked by surveyman5285 3

My ex hasn't paid child support in 4 years. Two weeks ago I let my son spend a week with him. Now he says he wants another week. I told him "no".

He spends almost every weekend with his dad. Am I wrong for saying no?

I don't like his dad AT ALL, twice he's taken me to court for custody only to drop it at the last moment. Last time he accused me of being a drug addict. It cost me $9,000.00 to get my son back. I don't like him spending too much time with his dad because he comes back rude and unruly and it takes a few days to get him back into our routine.

Our son is four btw.

2007-08-24 07:04:07 · 22 answers · asked by Lotus Phoenix 6

I think my husband has been working for himself (repair work...self-contracting) to make it easy for him to lie about his income (he has a second marriage child that he has to pay support to also). He is very late on child support, but I'm afraid to press charges since I know he'll lie about what he makes and have it reduced. They will both be 18 in about 2 1/2 years. Should I try to wait until they are both 18 to press charges, or do it now? I know I'll need the money after they are 18 to help them with college, but could really use it now too. If I decide to wait, I could supplement with money from my retirement funds I've saved for now...not sure what to do?

2007-08-24 07:03:18 · 14 answers · asked by Me 3