Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2007

I have dated him for 5 yrs. and he has been in and out of work that wasnt too reliable! He has finally found a reliable job/full time, w/benefits included! I am so happy for him because we really need this financially! this is temporary until he goes for his firemans test. We have lived together for the past 3 years in his grandmothers house and now with my mom for the past 2 yrs. He had to move out and live with his uncle across town b/c the boss for this new job lives next door there, and that is who he rides with each day! I hate it!!! I cant seem to accept this change! i am so used to being held each night by him and now NOTHING! Plus we have had issues over the years with porno and web surfing! i am insecure and that makes me feel even worse i can just picture him over there doing that crap behind my back! Yesterday he reffered to a woman as "that hot *** blonde chick"<~~~~this bothers me b/c he knows how little it makes me feel thats why he is normally good with not making these

2007-08-24 03:25:08 · 52 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3

i been married for 3yrs and im 17wks pregnant ..my husband told me he has not been happy with me ..that he never love me but he cares for me .but he dosen't want me to leave..i dont know what to think anymore what do i do ... i cant just walk away from all this ...what about my baby how can i react...

2007-08-24 03:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A man who is engaged....lost his wife due to him carrying on in an affair.....he has his own business...pumpsman.....goes into primary schools and is not police cleared,,,,,,always perves on young women......has porn sites on his computer and joined a dating site.....Any one wishing to comment????

2007-08-24 03:15:09 · 112 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last Friday my husband asked me to pick up his check for him at his work. I went to his work to get it and some of his co-workers were there(my hubby's a landscaper), they asked me to hang out for a little bit with them. I thought no big deal. My husband and I hang out with them all the time outside of work. Well occasionally his friends will make comments about me being hot and I guess bust him about it. My husband claims they flirt with me all the time but I thing they are just being nice. Anyways I was there for about 45 minutes when my husband came and started flipping out because I was up there. He peeled out in his truck after cussing me out. He says he doesn't want me up there so all his friends can stare at me and drool. I think they are harmless. We were just chatting and his boss was even there with us. He says he trusts me he just doesn't trust them. I am wrong? Is he just being a jealous husband?

2007-08-24 02:58:21 · 35 answers · asked by tjshoney4ever 1

There was a special on my local radio station this morning regarding swingers. They said that 9 million couples in the U.S. "swing" on a regular basis! Does anyone here swing or know anything about it? I am not at all interested in doing it but just thought it would be nice to see who all has experienced this type of lifestlye?

2007-08-24 02:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a woman of 29 with one child, she has told me she is divorced and has been for over a year, but somethings not quite right. Her cards are still in her married name, she has got her husband on her phone as "sexy_hubbie", whenever I suggest we go to her place she always comes up with an excuse for me not to come over, yet she comes over to mine frequently, or she will suggest a hotel/bandb. I have challenged her about the phone she says she just has never bothered changing it, I have also noticed she never leaves her phone lying around and takes extra care for me not to see who shes texting, if I ask her she always says her sister, or friend. I am divorced myself and am 33 years old, I am wondering if I'm being paranoid or is she really hiding something from me, she has even had a weeks holiday with me, which I wondered how she would pull that off if she is still married? Not sure what to do, I don't want to be with her if she is married and comitting an affair.

2007-08-24 02:52:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-24 02:46:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think 24 to 27 max is prefect for married, i mean if a guy like me get married at age of 29, first son will come at age of 32 or 33 imay not see my grand kids which i love kids

2007-08-24 02:43:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

from and email account listed as shahin_192@hotmail.com. How do I find out more information about this email or who the owner is, or even a profile? All it said was "hey" and to be honest, I am a little suspicious, but need to know for sure. There hasn't been any other suspicious activity, I checked his temporary internet files, and all seems fine, I checked his message log and there's 2 legitimate texts that were sent, but the inbox is cleared out. I want to know if this was spam or actually someone trying to contact him. How can I do this?

2007-08-24 02:40:14 · 12 answers · asked by Veronica 2

do you think is normal for your girlfriend to visit you and at night she put on a very short night gown and be working all over the house in the presence of your husband?WHAT DO YOU THINK

2007-08-24 02:34:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf soon to be ex-wife has been holding on her divorce papers for 3 months before put her sign on them. Now we got them back but she wants more child support than what he offer. He's willing to give it to her because we really wanna get this done. Now, if he accept it, does he have to give her back the papers so that she can sign them again?She lives in a other states and I'm worried she's going to keep them for other 3 months!We are doing this with a paralegal but it seems like she's not helping us very much! Thank you for your help!

2007-08-24 02:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Jules 2

My wife doesn't really care for me anymore, its a long story don't want to explain now but we both work two jobs and i don't have a single day off and she has one i work till midnight on the weekends and now i am feeling it my body is hurting and all she can say is so what go do some work. I also am know having anxiety attacks bc i cant seem to catch my breath bc of her attitude. Today i wanted to call into work today and told her i don't feel well so i was going to but she still says go do some work and so what if your not feeling well should i just leave work and **** her or stay?

2007-08-24 02:27:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it justified to leave the quantum of maintenance to the discretion of the judge ?

Should there be a ceiling on the amount of maintenance that can be awarded ?

If the purpose of maintenance is to prevant vagrancy and destitution is it justified to give maintenance based on status and life style ?

Should the amount of maintenance be sufficient for survival only or for continueing the life style to which the spouse has become accostomed to during the marriage ?

Should a woman be also be held responsible for paying maintenace to her parents under Sec. 125 Cr. Pc ?

Should a woman be required to file an affidavit of her assets and income before she can claim maintenance ?

If a woman is financially better off then her husband, should the husband be permitted to claim maintenance from his wife in case of need ?

What exactly should be the criteria to consider while fixing the quantum of maintenance ?

Should the law on maintenace be secular or based on personal laws ?

2007-08-24 02:22:26 · 2 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

My husband left his job here,and took a job that is situated in an entirely different continent.This he did without ever consulting me.He said he was doing this for us,since the pay really is great.We dont have kids,and he doesn't seem interested to have any.He pays us(his family here) a visit every three months.He hasn't offered me to join him there and seems very confused about it.He keeps saying that it is a very boring place,and that i'd be miserable there.He is the workacoholic type,and calls me once in three days.And when he is here,he is always busy with his computer games.I feel hurt and apprehensive that he will be ignoring me there too,so i dont insist on going there,even for a visit.I have a job here,and stay with my parents,so he does not pay for my expenses.Now I desperately want a child,but he gives me all sorts of lame excuses not to go for one.What should I do?

2007-08-24 01:49:19 · 42 answers · asked by Turki 1

What would you do if the person you're with:
1. Has been married to you for 5 years and refuses to get a job, wants everything but doesn't want you to work over 40 hours a week to pay the bills?
2. is a Pseudo-Christan and quotes the bible and tells you that you're going to hell to bully you and cut off your connection to your family?
3. Screams, hits you and argues with you constantly?
4. Is trying to get pregnant but you're beginning to fear it?
5. Kicks you out of the house once or twice a month but expects you to pay for them to live there?
6. Argues with you infront of the counciler and the counciler refuses to see you?
7. Goes to where you work and makes an *** out of themselves infront of your customers?

2007-08-24 01:32:07 · 39 answers · asked by Agnostic 2

Ive got two kidz that have my surname and really dont want to rock the boat by changing mine, my fiancee is happy to have my surname but were unsure if it is legal to do that.

2007-08-24 01:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by melnuttytart 1

2007-08-24 00:58:20 · 14 answers · asked by April 5