Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2007

about flirting and talking to other women,especialy ex-girl friends. He gives them his work number to call him. He claims their just freinds. He hasn't physically been with anyone that I know of, but he's only 1 step away.

2007-08-24 07:01:02 · 5 answers · asked by spender0812 1

He cheated on me with my sister who is allready married and she is now pregnate because on him

2007-08-24 06:39:48 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband regularly plays an online RPG (WoW, to be more specific). He plays frequently plays with a woman who lives across the country from us…they’re “leveling buddies”. My husband is a great guy, and he’s very open with their relationship (for example, I can go to the computer any time and read what they are chatting about), but it still kind of bothers me. I just have this fear in the back of my head that they will develop a strong bond, and then feelings for each other may become more than platonic. I’m not sure if I am being overly controlling or paranoid, I wouldn’t put it past myself….I just have such mixed emotions because I always hear about online romances and stuff like that. Do you think that I have cause for concern, or should I just let him be? I’m jealous by nature, so I really make an effort to not over react to things, but my head is just so confused with this one. I just need an outside opinion. Help?

2007-08-24 06:30:19 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't heard a word from him in almost three weeks.The last thing was an IM where he said he was sick and he would let me know when he'll come back. He doen'st answer his phone to me or anyone else. I was in contact with my in laws everyday to find out if they knew anything. Days went by, and finally my mother in law told me that she knew that he wouldn't come back, 'cause he was with another woman in Mexico and living with her and her family. I felt angry towards her, 'cause I didn't know what to do and there she was knowing the truth and witholding it from me. She still wants me to drop of my little girl at her home at least one day per week. I do not want to do that, since I do not trust her anymore. If she was capable of denying important information, what she could do if something happens to my daughter and she won't tell me ? Am I rigth or wrong? Please I need some advice. Thank you

2007-08-24 06:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK ... in a nutshell: Been dating a guy - several years. We had a LOT of problems in the past -- engaged at the time -- and got back together about 1 1/2 years ago. I knew then that he had a lot of financial problems. [One of the reasons we split up]. He then got an apt. nearby and a decent job - which I required of him - and had been on the path to regaining my trust and saving our relationship. When his 1 yr. lease was up, he AGAIN moved in with me [since he was never at his apt. anyway] and was to pay me AT LEAST half the rent. I had been paying for all bills on my own - even though he stayed with me. With him, Its been 1 struggled step forward and he winds up 3 steps back. I have been helping him at every turn - even putting a small debt onto my cc @ 0%. Now he owes me 2 mos. of 1/2 rent, along w/other money I have lent him. And today he's gotta put $450 toward truck repair. I tell him that something must be done. He's upset with his finances but makes no changes.

2007-08-24 06:18:26 · 20 answers · asked by jo 2

Please help Ive been looking for her for 13 year and know I know were she is we have 3 buiteful kid together and I realy want to see my kids I sent a letter to her in hope she will call or e-mail me I ve remarried and have a 8 year with my wife now and my little girl ask me all the time if she will meet her brother and sisters and know Ive went this far want do you think I need to do Note me and my ex wife left me on bad term she said if I would ever divorce her I would never see my kids Please help

2007-08-24 06:06:35 · 29 answers · asked by hancockerik 1

My husband and I have been together 2 years, been married 1 year. We have a great life together, we know that we love each other, but with working all the time the romance has gone out of our lives, I'm one of those women who is very affectionate, and wish he would show it.
We have a great sex life, and we do show we care outside of the bedroom, after I have asked for a cuddle or a kiss, but I would love more ... I know that sounds selfish, but when I say more I mean more cuddles, more kisses, just affection more often.
He has never surprised me ... ever, he doesnt buy birthday, anniversay or christmas presents, even though I go out of my way to find something special for him......
Any ideas on what I could do in a subtle way to get him to show more affection. (his family are not ones to show any affection, his mum admitted that they are not ones to say that they love you or anything like that, so he has gone through his whole life like that)

2007-08-24 05:58:14 · 13 answers · asked by todamnlovable 2

2007-08-24 05:56:37 · 58 answers · asked by gummy bear 2

I want to know if your marriage is still the same since your first years together? Or was your first couple of years were ruff living with each other and later charged for the better?

The reason I want to know is because I've been married over an 1yr and I feel that we have an distanced between each other. We don't communicate as much, he also neglect me and, don't bother taking me out but when it comes to friends he doesn't hesitate to say no.

Is this normal for being a newly wed? FYI he was in the army and done 2 tours in Iraq and I can say mental he is not all there. But at the same time I can't compare being g/f and b/f and being married because they are both different. Because, I don't know if I can continue this marriage if I don't have the love from my husband.

2007-08-24 05:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mate and I have been together for 6 yrs & have 3 kids (2 from my previous marriage). When we first got together we were gettin busy like bunnies now we may do it once every 2 weeks or longer. I have a very high sex drive and need it at least every other day. He works 3rd shift and I work 8am - 5pm so the only time we sleep together now is Fri. & Sat. nites. I am so sexually frustrated that I am thinking about cheating because I just cant handle all the waiting and when I do finally get it its like "no oral ,just a stick it in get off in 3 minutes type deal and I havent even had my orgasm yet" . It used 2 be so good but now ... Please give any advice!!I have tried talking to him about this and what turns me on but he even made the comment that "Talking during sex is pointless" because I told him that I like 4 him 2 talk dirty 2 me. I cant take this anymore!!!

2007-08-24 05:31:34 · 19 answers · asked by sexy_grll 2

Does married men mastrubate? If yes why? Does this happen even when the wife is at home / both live together?

2007-08-24 05:27:41 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-24 05:26:30 · 34 answers · asked by gummy bear 2

I get irritated / frustrated when some one says what I have to do or when they give instructions to me. Mainly my wife and my boss. They tell me "do this" "do that". What is the reason? I can not survive without these two people in life. Please suggest what to do.

2007-08-24 05:23:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband & I have been together for over 10 years and married 7.

The other night my 13 year old stepson, whom lives with us, got cut and had to get stitches. His mom met us at the ER because she live 1 block from the hospital. I was going to leave my husband & her and go home but she said no stay with us. When it was time for him to go back she asked the doctor if all 3 of us can go. And they said yeah is this his Aunt or a friend? So she said no its his stepmom.

The doctors and nurses were completely shocked that we were both there. And even made a comment that should they keep the guards near by. Is it that odd for us to get along?

2007-08-24 05:16:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in US, i want hindu marriage certificate (coimbatore district) to apply for L2 US visa.
can i get the marriage certificate without my husband. if so, what is the procedure?

2007-08-24 05:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by karthikbujja 1

Having been simultaneously orgasmic in our earlier years, it is not without frustration that I find our sex life dwindle to that of feeling like I am the only one in the room when and if things happen. Her ambivalence, lack of apparent desire, and "muteness" in bed are very hurtful to this diehard romantic.

While she may think I am obsessed, that would only be in evidence if I asked more than once a week and I back off when I get refused. I have exhausted my patience at times when we went three months without nearly a touch, going ahead and "having my way" with her "accomodation" of my needs.

We've been thru two couples therapists over the last 10 years, about two years each. Great kids, all different but successful 13-23, but not without typical stressors. We get high marks for family success and "Great kids". I am now in individual therapy to learn ways of coping and possibly regenerating her interest and not straying.

What other coping mechanisms or leverage can be used?

2007-08-24 05:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by dadinvienna 1

2007-08-24 05:09:36 · 20 answers · asked by isras 2

I've been with my husband for 14 years (married for 4 yrs). He's a couple of years older so at 15 I was so excited an older guy actually liked me. I've grown over the years and have always wanted to do more, like work in another province/country (which I never did because it felt wrong to leave him), and I've always liked doing my own thing. He knew this going into the relationship and he always embraced it. Now, the next logical step is children, so we tried for a couple of months. But I went on a trip (alone) recently, that just enlightened me and now I'm not sure I'm ready (I'm 30) b/c I want to do more. And now he's not happy with this me. Now I'm wondering if I'm just meant to be single. That maybe I got into the marriage b/c it seemed like the next logical step and that I married him because my family and friends all felt that I was lucky to have him and not because I actually loved him. This just isn't fair to him if I'm feeling this way. I don't know what to do.

2007-08-24 05:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by confused 1

My ex-husband keeps leaving me voicemails about how I have a disease. I am ambivalent and can not make up my mind about whether to go back to him or not.

He also claims that I am inefficient because I don't get things done.

Today, he left me a message about being an "irresponsible mother." He has custody of our child and now has sent her to live with me in another state.

I don't want to let his comments get to me.

2007-08-24 04:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Rita has been married for 12 years, straight out of college. problem is they have not had sex in 7 years and he is verbally abusive and does not want to go for councelling. She wants a divorce and he does not. but she is a christian and they have a child together. she is really unhappy and does not think she can go on with the marriage anymore. Her family wants her to carry her cross gracefully .Did I mention she is only 35.

2007-08-24 04:48:57 · 33 answers · asked by Zimba 1

My boyfriend just left his wife a couple months ago. He purchased the house before they were married but refinanced it while married but her name is not on either the house or the note. She has not worked in five years and cant afford the note. She has been in jail for DUIs several times and thats why he left her. She cheated on him and made him miserable. Now she wants to stay in the house while he pays the note. Can he kick her out or is this considered community property and she can stay until the divorce? She is able to work but is too lazy!!!!

2007-08-24 04:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by Angie A 1

what do you think and anyone know where to get an application form???

2007-08-24 04:31:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 years ago my wife made me a promise she broke it she dont know that i know what she did it was nothing to hurt our marriage i love her and dont want to fight should i comfront her or just forget it it hurt my feelings alot

2007-08-24 04:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by hiroshima9350 2

There seem to be few if any penalties for doing this. While if parent truly loves their child they will suffer, it still sends a very wrong message if nothing is required of them for killing thier child.

What few prosecutions there are seem to be unevenly meted out base on the income of the person parent of child who leaves his/ her child in the Ford pinto is more likely to be prosecuted than the one in the Mercedes.

What's to keep someone from doing this on purpose knowing nothing will happen?
Should they not at least do home confinement and 2 years of public service for this?
I would think they'd want to do something to prevent another parent from making this "mistake".
I also think it would make parents more mindful about not forgeting their kids if you always see that there's some penalty for this.
Wow, like all these people went to jail let me check to make sure my child's not in the back seat.

2007-08-24 04:26:28 · 19 answers · asked by sophiasgr8 4

My hubby is 30 yrs old and he lost his father 1 & 1/2 years back.Until Feb this month,I lived with my mom(my parents are divorced & my mother has heart problems),& he wud stay with his mother 2 days a week.We wud pay her visits on weekends.This mar we rented our own apartment.His mom is complaining about it ever since,coz she is now living alone with a 10 yr old adopted daughter,2 servants,& 1 driver.My brother in laws live abroad.I also left my mother with a maid to take care of her.My hubby works from 12 noon & gets home around 10:30pm.He still visits her on weekends.Lately she has been complaining too much,& keeps reminding my hubby of his father's death.I just cant live with her since she says the most disturbing things.I asked her 2 come stay with me,or rent a house nearby,but she will not leave her house,saying it will hurt her prestige to live in a rented apartment.I have 2 stay with her.It is also affecting our sex life-my husband is always worried & smoking.What shud I do?

2007-08-24 04:24:22 · 24 answers · asked by Turki 1

Okay!! 8 years ago me and a guy in the military had a crush on each other but never did anything because we were both involved with other people. After we broke up with our other halves we were upfront about our feelings for each other. But we were at two different military bases and couldn't really work out a long distance relationship. Well he and then had a big micommunication abot something and didnt talk for a while. I then married and had a family, but always had this guy in the back of my mind. So I went searching for him and he was doing the same. We found each other and have been talking. He knows I'm married and I know I will never cheat on my husband, BUt lately in my marriage its been pretty rocky and even thought of divorce, and since I found my old fling I've been thingking of divorce even more. Not because I want toget back with him because thats not the case, but because I've realized more that I'm not happy in my marriage, but i dont want to hurt my kids HELP

2007-08-24 04:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by roxy s 1

Ok, so I was wondering how many people out there have been propositioned by someone wanting to have an affair. You see yesterday I was at work and this guy that works there that is 26 and married (I've met his wife) asked me out! I was a bit shocked because I'm only 17. Anyway has anyone ever flat out asked you to have an affair with them even when you've met and talked to his/ her spouse?

2007-08-24 04:12:23 · 22 answers · asked by Chelsea 5

If two married people are decent and contributing members of society but simply cannot tolerate and have a strong dislike for kids,can they still be considered good christians?

2007-08-24 04:06:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What I mean is that when people get divorced, it is usually the children who suffer the most. Then these children take the scars into adulthood, and perpetuate the situation. Why can't we do something about this as a society?

2007-08-24 04:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by Qyllix 5

ok my husband hides things that i found out myself or he desn't really tell me the truth at all. i am really trying to get to trust him but its really not working because i constantly find his sentences not matching with each other. last nite he said he emailed this person and they emailed him back. i said o i its been a while since i talk to the person can i email them from ur account. he said i used my company email at work to email them. he never ever sent me an email from his professional email. he said it desn't open because he needs lotus notes to open it. and then he acts mad or hurt and goes outside and lies on sofa. we are having a very rocky relationship any lil thing can turn into divorce because i am tired of not having the trust because i know he is good at lying even when caught.since i don't have nay proof he will never come clean to anything.i just had a baby i don't want to raise a child w/o a father. i am soo stressed. why is this happening to me.more details

2007-08-24 03:29:24 · 19 answers · asked by baby doll 1