He cheated on me with my sister who is allready married and she is now pregnate because on him
2007-08-24 06:39:48 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Adultery is grounds for divorce. Get the papers started.
2007-08-24 06:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by samans442 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
How fast can you reach the court house? Let me break it down for you.
1. cheated right after you got married
2. cheated with your sister
3. Got sister pregnant
And you are wondering if you should forgive him or divorce him? This man has no respect for himself, you or any body else, you can forgive him, but I say divorce him, this man is a jackass. And your sister who is a married woman, how could she do something like this to you. I say forgive them both, but divorce your husband, give you sister a piece of your mind a slap in the face, and then forgive her, but know that you can't ever really trust her. I think your sister really has some serious problems that she needs to address. You don't need to be married to a man that is the father of your sisters baby, you'll be what the step mother and the aunty come on, leave them alone.
2007-08-24 06:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That does not sound like something that can ever be worked out or forgiven. First off, you will more than likely see your sister and the baby she shares with your husband, for the rest of your life. Had it just been a fling with a stranger...someone you or he never has to see again, it might be different. I don't think you could ever forgive him or her. You need to think about it for a few days but I really think it would be wise to dump the looser. You can't really dump your sister, but I would NEVER trust her again. This is as much her fault as it is his. Put him as far behind you as you can and concentrate on how to work out how you will deal with this baby once your sister has it. It is not the baby's fault, remember. It will be in your life and you will probably want to be an aunt to it. Especially once you've dumped the looser.
2007-08-24 06:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by catsaver001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You three need to have a serious talk.
If your husband couldn't even keep his fly zipped after the wedding WITH YOUR OWN SISTER, what makes you think that he'll stay faithful for the marriage? I would talk it over with him and explain that you have divorce papers filled out and all it needs it a signiture. You aren't going to be pushed around by some jerk who can't even stay faithful for more than a few days.
Also talk to your sister--did she NOT have any morals? What does she plan to do with the baby? How will the baby play into the family?
Personally I would divorce the SOB.
2007-08-24 06:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, not to sound like a jerk, but this sounds like afternoon talk show material.
As for your situation, divorce him. It is that simple. If he is already cheating, most likely he did when you werent married.
Also, your sister???
This doesnt sound like an "oops my d!ck just fell into her" kind of excuse.
I am sure he has been doing this for a while, and will continue to do so. He has no respect for you.
Now, your sister might be able to be forgiven, but when you are able to. To me, I cant understand how a sibling could do that to their own. And making it worse is she is married.
Walk out, call an attorney and get everything!
2007-08-24 07:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, us men will N E V E R refuse a quick session on ponky ponky with another gal. We may have brangelina or Paris at home, we'^ll nevertheless never refuse that extra sl*ut who will want to jump into bed with us.
But also keep in mind and save your marriage coz if us guyz enjoy sleeping around due to all the slu*ts the world has to offer, we usually only love one girl, the one at home.
So for Pete's sake, stop making such a big deal although I know it is harsh for you, and keep in mind that E V E R Y guy on this earth, no matter what he says, if he is a real man, i.e who will say the truth, he will always jump into another slu*uts bed just for on one night stand. Men do not commit adultery for the same reasons as women. With us men, it's plainly physical, and the next day we would have even forgotten the name of the previous night's bimbo.
Best of luck .
2007-08-24 06:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask??????? He would be gone in one second flat if that happened to me and my sister would be pretty much out of my life as well. I am very sorry that you had to endure the pain of two people you should have been able to trust do this to you. She now has a very complicated life which she seems to be into ruining. I would not forgive him; never!! Get on with your life; get your divorce and don't look back. Your sister will regret the day she ever got involved with this man. You will be better off without him. I wish you well.
2007-08-24 08:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have got to be kidding! I would divorce that ahole immediately and then I would make sure that my sister regret ever backstabbing me like you cannot imagine.
They disrespected you above and beyond the ability to forgive them. Don't stoop to their level, because they're not worth it, just get a divorce as soon as possible and then sit back and enjoy life watching them paying for what they did, because payback is gonna be a b i t c h! Good Luck
2007-08-24 07:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that... thats got to be a hard situation. Get a divorce. There are plenty of other guys out there and you dont need to be treated like that. It would be weird helping your husband raise a child between him and your sister. Plus, whose to say it wont happen again? Or that he'll maybe decide to leave you?
2007-08-24 06:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i first read your question before i saw the whole thing i had a good answer ready. but since i read it all my opinion has changed drastically. if i were in your shoes i would divorce him and tell your sister she can have him., that was a pretty low-down thing to do at any stage of your marriage but more especially since you are newly weds. and what about your sister's husband? how does he feel about this. or is he aware of her infidelity? does he think the baby is his and how do you know it is not? if your husband cheated this early on in your marriage he will do it again. divorce this loser ASAP!!!!!!
2007-08-24 06:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what to do and unfortunately he will now always be a part of your life if you do choose to divorce him because he is also the father or your neice or nephew.
Can you really live with someone who could so quickly break a vow to you? And with your sister? If you can than you are better than me. I don't think for me I would even have to think twice.
Good Luck
2007-08-24 06:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by katbonikowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋