Marriage & Divorce - 24 August 2007

Other than that he is great. It just gets really uncomfortable being close to him.

2007-08-24 17:24:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am confused... my relationship is pretty good as of now.... today was great... but sometimes... it gets bad... pretty bad where we say we want to end this... I really am scared of it getting bad again and then it might be too late. Should I leave sooner or later? and is it fare for the kids... ?? am I being selfish... oh yeah... there is a lot of verbal mental abuse going on...

2007-08-24 17:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is the farthest thing from help too. I hate sleeping in the bed with the two of them. They toss and turn and kick and it's not a pleasant night. I would rather sleep on the couch. But that's getting old now too. And on top of not getting any rest no matter where I sleep, intimacy is completely out of the question. I don't want to make my wife choose between me and her daughter, but it's getting to the point that I don't know any other option. Can someone who has had this problem please help?

2007-08-24 17:03:52 · 14 answers · asked by Des-n-Jes 4

I would like to spice up a nice night for me and my husband. what as a man would you like your wife or girlfriend to do? what works for you?

If your a lady and decided to answer... what works best? what does he seem to like

serious answers please!

Thank you

2007-08-24 17:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4

I have been wanting a baby for a while now. We already have kids. My husband didn't want another. He surprised me one day and said he did. I asked if he was sure (I don't want a kid w/ someone who doesn't). He was sure. Now, he says that was just to be nice. I think this is the meanest thing he could have done. I actually thought I might have another kid and I was really happy. What possible reason could he have for doing something so mean?

2007-08-24 16:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by nynasethi 1

2007-08-24 16:36:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, as you all probably know, i have alot of problems with my parents after this whole divorce thing. My mom told me that they were getting a divorce in June. I saw that i had a new message on my phone so i picked it up and listened to it. It was from some guy i didn't know. It was like 'I love you...I miss you...I wish i could be laying next to you right now'. I asked my mom if she knew who that guy was (i used his actual name). She did. Turns out she's been going out with him since 2004. He was the guy who built our house in 2004. My mom told me that her and my dad had gotten a divorce before that...but they lived with eachother until 2007. My mom still even wears my dad's engagement ring. I'm just so confused. I feel so sad. She used to be like a role model to me. My mom tells me that i need to stop being so dramatic. I'm not trying to be. It really does hurt...more than the divorce did. How can i get her to realize how i feel? Please, only constructive advice. Thank you.

2007-08-24 16:29:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have lived together for 12 years and have a wedding date set for next July. Just recently I caught him smoking crack on the back porch of our apartment. We both come from middle class families in New York and until that point I had never known anyone or been around anyone who has smoked it before. We have a 4 year old son and both of my fiances parents died before my fiance turned 2. His granmother raised him and she passed away 4 years ago. I know most of you are probably going to say leave him. but you have to understand that besides this he is the man of my dreams and I have never heard him raise his voice at anyone in the 12 years we have been together. He does not abuse my son or I in any way and I am just at a loss of how to help him. I caught him in a slip with it last week. I do not want to throw him out when he really has noone we are his family. Please give me some advice on what to do? my family is aware of the situation and everyone is devastated by this.

2007-08-24 16:08:05 · 59 answers · asked by rogue0903 2

I am not interested in dating this guy or leaving my husband.. I don't want a relationship or anything of the sort with him. I am however, very attracted to him and want his attention. Why am I feeling this way? Why do I want him to look at me and notice me? Why do I feel he needs to be interested. HELP!!

2007-08-24 16:05:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband got married dec 2005 at the courthouse. We always said we wanted to renew our vowels on our 5 yr of marriage But now we are pregnant with our first a baby girl. should we wait longer until she can walk down the aisle and know whats going on? or do you think it would be ok? and another thing.. when i renew my vowels do i treat it like its my first time getting married and go all out? with church,wedding dress,bridesmaids,? or how does that work?

2007-08-24 15:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have primary custody of my children: ex wife keeps entering my home against a court order. What can I file with the police to have this stopped? Prefer not to have to have sitter call 911 when this happens as this will upset the kids. Any suggestions? The courts move way too slow and I need this to end now. Thanks.

2007-08-24 15:52:38 · 23 answers · asked by AT 1

Suyuan Woo is not just my favorite character but she also inspires me. Although it may seem that she may have no connections from her daughters, she still have true love for her daughter and also the fonder of the Joy Luck Club.

Should I add anything or delete anything?

2007-08-24 15:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Bob Lewis 3

I am looking for good "chat" buddies, but don't want to give the wrong impression

2007-08-24 15:47:21 · 28 answers · asked by Cindy A 1

my boyfriend and i are very serious. he has already asked my parents permission to marry me. But he is leaving to the air force in January. I dont know what would be best for us... Should i marry him??

2007-08-24 15:44:15 · 13 answers · asked by brittbritt 1

2007-08-24 15:20:47 · 47 answers · asked by swamierobbie 1

What percentage of married military men cheat on their wives? With always being gone, etc. I have been married to one for 11 years and recently caught him in an affair and after the affair came to light, everyone who knew told me they wouldnt doubt it if he did this our whole marriage cuz of all the time he's spent away from home. I just wonder if the percentage is high. They kind of stereotyped him with the old saying: A marine has a girl at every port...or however that sayng goes. any insight on this? Oh and do you think its possible for a man to spend 18 months in Iraq and NOT ONCE indulge himself? He says he never did, I say yah right. NO MAN CAN GO 18 months without it. And there are women over there, and there is 'down time', i know there is, i know way too many people who have been there and many of them men and boy oh boy do they have tales to tell. So what do ya think?

2007-08-24 15:17:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am thinking of doing it.

2007-08-24 15:15:27 · 23 answers · asked by nighttimegodess 3

is it good or bad or dumb or smart? whats your opinion?

2007-08-24 15:14:13 · 26 answers · asked by granggo 2

I'm six months pregnant and my husband is now disinterested in sex. I've only gained 13 lbs. could he view me as unattractive now? Have any of you ladies experienced this, i'm feeling kind of low now.

2007-08-24 15:13:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that you find someone you fall in love--once married or living together all those feelings go away--they get on your nerves farting and eatinglike a pig, taking dumps and being proud of it--I just don't get it--is there anyone out there with the same problem??

2007-08-24 15:10:16 · 17 answers · asked by beaq 1

Yo!

2007-08-24 15:08:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy who was originally my friend, has been hanging around a lot here and is a good friend to us. We are pretty close, but his opinion of women is VERY low. He had a bad mother, sister and wife, and so he views women as garbage scum and has nothing good to say about them. Tonight he calls and wants to take my husband to dinner, which is fine...guys need guy time, but my husband is severely physically disabled and has emotional disability as well (shot in head at close range 24 years ago), and so I asked where they were going and the friend would not tell me, so I gave him a ring on the cell phone and explained that we don't keep secrets from each other in our marriage and that I'd appreciate the name of the restaraunt in the future so that if an emergency occurs here or if I need to reach my husband, I can do so, and he got angry with me for asking. He does not understand that I have my reasons.

I know they are not going to strip clubs and this is not a jealousy issue.

2007-08-24 15:03:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

would she be likely to get a skelf in her bahooky. If you are not Scottish you can guess.

2007-08-24 14:35:34 · 32 answers · asked by Angel Bonnie 4

of course no plans to do anything but today he tells me I am an embarrassment. I go to school full time, work 3 days a week and take care of our two daughters.

Feeling a bit low at the moment.

2007-08-24 14:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

My ex-husband keeps saying and writing in e-mails that I am a rebel and do not do things on a timely basis to show commitment.

We were thinking of reuniting and I would have had to empty out my items in storage, close my bank account, ship my car and book a ticket per him.

He does not want any of my things left in the state that I live. He is insecure and feels that I will leave him if I do.

I make plans to go back - arrange to donate my items, book tickets and then change my mind.

I feel sad because maybe if I would work with my ex-husband, things would work have worked out.

Then, when I think of the life that I lived with him - constantly walking on eggshells because he was verbally abusive and controlling, I feel scared to step back into life with him.

Maybe the problem is me and I am not committed enough?

2007-08-24 14:08:47 · 37 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I have been married for 6 1/2 years and my attraction for my wife has diminished over the last 3 years. I am a self proclaimed "breast man". I like looking at women with larger, fuller breasts, not HUGE, but they are one of the first things I look at on women. My wife does not have small breasts but after 2 children and being 40 years old, things happen to womens bodies that neither the woman or her husband are real happy with. I have broached the subject in years past but mostly in a joking way. Now, I am more serious about it and really would like her to consider it, but I don't know how to say it without sounding mean or shallow. I love her and want to be attracted to her, but it is very difficult. I don't think she has ever considered it and am not sure that she will. I would like to hear from men in a similar situation and women who would tell me what they would say or how they would like this question posed to them in a nice way.

2007-08-24 13:59:12 · 19 answers · asked by Bill 1

Married for 15 years...together for 21...relationship gone sour and not sure what to do

2007-08-24 13:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is severely attached to a cat we got awhile back. I really didn't think too much of it when he wanted it, i felt kind of bad for it myself so I told him as long as he could keep up with it, it would be fine. Well its not neutered, and it keeps "marking its territory" by urinating on our things. We can't afford to neuter it and its too late now that he's done it so much, he won't be able to break his habit, so i told him our only option is to give it up. He had a fit and called me cold hearted for suggesting it. But honestly, I would really rather have that cat gone then have to go everywhere smelling like cat piss, I'm a server and i have been getting some dirty looks for it lately and lower tips. When i come home, the stench is so bad (he does it everyday) that it hurts my stomach. I even threw him outside one day, and he's been an inside cat since he was born. And my husband said if i did it again he would kick me out. I really don't know what to do here??

2007-08-24 13:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious, if you were able to, money not being a problem, if you could go anywhere in the world on vacation with your spouse, where would you go?

Personally I would love to go with my wife to Hawaii, England, Scotland, Paris, Venis, Rome, all over Europe, and I think alot of the romantic cities of the world.

2007-08-24 13:43:02 · 18 answers · asked by Bryan M 6

2007-08-24 13:38:42 · 22 answers · asked by Bryan M 6