Me and my husband got married dec 2005 at the courthouse. We always said we wanted to renew our vowels on our 5 yr of marriage But now we are pregnant with our first a baby girl. should we wait longer until she can walk down the aisle and know whats going on? or do you think it would be ok? and another thing.. when i renew my vowels do i treat it like its my first time getting married and go all out? with church,wedding dress,bridesmaids,? or how does that work?
2007-08-24 15:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's you wedding treat it any way you want.
2007-08-24 16:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
About 6 monthes before the renewal deadline, start thinking about it. Right now, focus on husband, quit stressing over far off in the future crap or you won't have a hubby to walk down the aisle! No, you don't go all out. But 5 years is a little early to renew. Highschool kids last 5 years. At least wait till past the 7 year itch.
2007-08-24 16:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by escher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't be too surprised if you find a bit of opposition there. Not too many women would appreciate their husbands wanting to do something romantic like re-new their vows only so they can sleep with other people. Kinda puts a damper on the gesture. Then again, each to their own! She might be thinking the same thing but doesn't know how to approach the topic with you! You know your wife better than anyone so only you can be the judge of that. Just beware that if she doesn't go for the idea then you are going to have major sucking up to do to get back in her good books.
2016-05-17 08:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by lenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea for ya'll to renew your wedding vowels but i do think you should wait for the child and let her be apart of the beautiful experience the second time aroud. Plus you've only been married for a few years. You have many years left to renew your wedding vowels. I think your daughter would really appreciate getting to be apart of the ceremony. And it's you and your husband's day. If you guys want to go all out then go for it. ♥
2007-08-24 16:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♥PiNk RoCkS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are already married, so you don't get married AGAIN - it's basically an anniversary party to have your VOWS renewed. A ceremony at a church, or another location, then a dinner and party for your family and close friends. No wedding dress or attendants, it's NOT a do-over wedding! You already had your wedding, whatever form it took.
2007-08-25 00:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I renewed our vows on our 25th wedding anniversary. We wore normal church clothes and I had a corsage of flowers. Our children stood up as our attendants. Then we treated all the guests to lunch and left on a second honeymoon trip (my parents stayed home with the kids). You can renew your vows as often as you like. It's best on a special anniversary, though, like the 10th, 25th, etc.
2007-08-24 16:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i find it not nessessary at all.
Once married on the day, that vows counts forever and ever in our heart.
Married is a bond and vows we committed is forever and once only.
Now that you've got a child, spend more time on the child than thinking about this issue that is actually not an issue or not important at all.
Pardon me if its too harsh.
2007-08-24 16:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont! every couple I know who renews breaks up shortly after...its like tempting fate
2007-08-24 16:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by bushcrimeboss 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HI. Are u getting married in singapore? if yes then plz e-mail me @ zainab-28@hotmail.com. I have worked before for a private wedding planner so I can assist u accordingly. Hope to hear from you then.
2007-08-24 16:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Everything can be done every time provided the 'expected child' is safe on its way to life.
2007-08-24 16:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋