Other than that he is great. It just gets really uncomfortable being close to him.
2007-08-24 17:24:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey if my husband smells so bad i can't sit next to him comfortably , i will be the first person to tell him ,he stinks to go take a good long bath and scrub good. i would rather he hear it from me than from someone else talking behind his back . so go tell him .
2007-08-24 17:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, you probably have one of those husbands that likes to wear the same clothes for about a week, too. He showers maybe once or twice a week. If this is the case, tell him that you are going to start washing his clothes every night because they kind of smell. Tell him you bought a new soap you want him to try. Just kind of go about it this way. Don't come right out and tell him he smells because he isn't going to believe it anyway.
2007-08-24 17:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Julie H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is your husband. You really need to tell him. This is an important issue. It could affect other areas of your intimacy. You don't have to be mean, just tell him in a simple way that maybe he can't smell himself, but you can and would he mind taking a quick shower or at least use some deoderant
2007-08-24 17:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Luuluu Dog 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One time my hubby smelled really bad and his family was over for supper.
I said I hope you take a shower before we eat.
He did. He was all hot and sweaty. I didn't care what anyone thought, he smelled bad and he knows I have sensitive smelling.
We been married 29 years and I still have to tell him sometimes.
2007-08-24 17:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a wife's place to keep her husband from any embarrassment she can. Would you not want him to tell you? Would you tell your best girl friend? Get real what kind of relationship do you have with the most intimate person in your life that you can't talk to him?
2007-08-24 17:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get him some new cologne that you like and set in by his sink. Get him some more deoderant and tell him to use it.
He probably doesn't even realize he smells bad. Don't make a big deal out of it, just say "go put that deoderant and cologne on honey"
2007-08-24 17:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by philosophy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what i do, sense it's summer wait until he is out side for a little while then when he comes in go to hug him and say to him... man your sweaty and stinky from being out side to long.
He won't think anything of it because he just came in form the heat. My husband agrees with me and starts laughing with me then he goes in and takes a shower.
2007-08-24 19:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put candles out,and start a romantic evening,tell him you want to bathe him.Put bubbles in there and dont be obvious of your motive for doing this,after he smells good you may even start to enjoy this.If its his breathe,be like here honey,I got some soft breath mints today,and put one in his mouth,and then yours too so it doesnt look suspicious.Good luck,I hope Ive helped!
2007-08-24 17:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person who can tell him that without being offended, if you say it in a really nice way. Because you care about him, I am sure he will understand why you want his condition to be treated. The earlier you do something about it, the better.
2007-08-24 17:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Belen 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put a bar of lava soup in the shower. however being married to a middle-eastern could be the major problem.
2007-08-24 19:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋